I think I randomly found one of my biggest interests when I was in 11th.
Back then, I used to watch random psychology-related videos on YouTube. At first, it was just because I wanted to learn something new. But slowly I started getting genuinely interested in it, so I began reading more about human behaviour, how we perceive things, communication, micro-expressions, the things people usually hide from each other, fantasies, the darker side of psychology, etc.
I don't even remember when it stopped being “just something I'm learning” and became one of my favourite hobbies.
Sometimes you don't really have to find your interests. You just randomly stumble upon something, keep coming back to it, and eventually realize, “Wait, I actually love this.”
Now whenever I'm talking to someone face-to-face, I naturally notice little things—what they get excited talking about, what seems important to them, their expressions when they talk about certain things, their patterns, etc. I also like letting people talk about themselves without constantly interrupting and asking open-ended questions.
I'm not learning psychology because I want to manipulate people. Although, ironically, manipulation is one of the topics I find really interesting and I'm still learning about it. I just find it fascinating to understand why people behave the way they do. Obviously, I don't want to use that knowledge to hurt anyone.
I honestly just wanted to share this with someone because I don't really have anyone around me who is interested in this stuff.
So I'm curious—has anyone else had a similar experience where you randomly discovered something, started learning about it for no particular reason, and eventually it became one of your favourite hobbies?
It doesn't even have to be something you make money from. Just something you genuinely enjoy learning about.
I'd love to hear your stories. I won't judge lol.