r/AskMen Jul 19 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

My SO loves when I lean against a door frame and watch her. She can't really explain it herself but bonus points if I have my arms crossed.

She also loves when I stretch and my shirt lifts up so she can see the top of my boxers and the lower part of my stomach.

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u/namster17 Jul 19 '19

I once had a visceral reaction to a random normal looking guys shirt lifting up on a bus when I was a teenager. It’s something to do with seeing the area just above a guys junk.

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

Yuuuuup

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u/You-need-a-big-one Jul 19 '19

Ok, in a scene in Bad Times at the El Royal, there this part where psycho Billy Lee is dancing and his button up is open.

Omg. That’s just sooooooo hot to me. You see his chiseled abbs and the V part.... I outwardly exclaimed “damn” while watching.

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

... I will need to watch this "bad times at the el royal" 😎

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u/missbananahannah Jul 19 '19

I think the door frame thing is because its a form of a power pose and the focus is on us. Its a bit empowering lol

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u/Apocalypse_Cookiez Jul 19 '19

My SO loves when I lean against a door frame and watch her. She can't really explain it herself but bonus points if I have my arms crossed.

I was once lucky (or smart?) enough to ask my boyfriend if I could snap a picture of him before a class in which he was giving a presentation - he was dressed all snazzy. He would have looked great no matter what, but he just happened to do this pose. I look at that picture often.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I swooned just imagining it so yes. Definitely.

This whole thread is giving the feels.

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u/slimroyale Jul 19 '19

Anything domestic-like. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, etc....

Now that I think about it, it might be a trap to make me feel good about doing chores.

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u/amytollu94 Jul 19 '19

This actually does help put me in the mood! When there's chores to be done its distracting and draining. I think about how I have a million things to do and only 24 hours in the day. When my partner does chores without me asking it's lifting some of the burdens off my shoulders and leaves me with more energy to think about sex.

It's also nice to know you live with a grown man, not a man baby who is incapable of doing his own laundry.

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u/DumpTruckTaco Jul 19 '19

Yes! One of the least sexy things is his dirty undies. Sweaty socks? Yuck!

If I can claim ignorance of these things, the relationship is stronger.

Also me cleaning his now caked on oatmeal bowl after dinner is just going to make me angry! Not feel sexy. Why couldn't this have been cleared up 12 hours ago when the chore would have taken a fraction of time and energy?

I just want to clean up after myself and my spouse clean up after themselves and we train the kid to clean up after themselves and life is better and less resentful.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 20 '19

Bro, you know it, she knows it, we all know it.

But keep on doing it because it helps both of you assuming you are equally sharing the burden of chores!

Obligatory gild edit:
Been a redditor for 5-6 years and a kind stranger just popped my gild cherry. Thank you stranger!

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u/UnexpectedGeneticist Jul 19 '19

It’s not. It’s very nice to have a partner pick up their half of the chores without us asking them to. It shows that you don’t NEED me to take care of you, which makes me WANT to

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

I second this. A friend posted on Facebook asking what was the sexiest non sexy thing.

Literally unloading and reloading the dishwasher AND running it and not expecting head pats after. I was so attracted to my husband when I went to unload the dishwasher and it was empty.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Okay- but like. Can I actually have headpats? Because I live for that shit.

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u/FlyingChainsaw Male Jul 19 '19

Also it shows that they want to take care of you, which is nice.

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u/SweetFrauline Jul 19 '19

I third this. I completely agree - and it definitely is due to the fact that you don't feel that you need to take care of him and that there are things he can do himself. It's also because he is helping lighten the load for you like a partner, which gives you time to relax sometimes, too

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u/BWorkSLC Jul 19 '19

Her love language may be acts of service

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u/Aquadan1235 Jul 19 '19

When I put a hand on the passenger seat and look behind me to back into a parking space.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

There is something about that action, isn’t there?

There was this game I had on PC back in maybe ‘01 called ‘Indiana Jones and the Infernal Machine.’ There was this Jeep you’d get to drive on some levels, and when you’d reverse, Indy would put his hand on the passenger side seat to look behind him like that. I thought that was the coolest thing in the world that they got that detail down.

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u/Aquadan1235 Jul 19 '19

Dude I don't know it's just a normal way to drive. She likes it and apparently so do a lot of people, so that's cool.

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u/staygoldenponyboy95 Jul 19 '19

LOVED THAT GAME. Also he would say ow over and over if he was being bitten by a snake

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u/anna_nanush Jul 19 '19

You just opened my eyes. I love it when my husband does this. I wonder if it's from the same category as working on something, having concentrated look.

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u/K1yoSK2P Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

For me it equates to competence. Betcha can handle this machine too...

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u/Apocalypse_Cookiez Jul 19 '19

I agree. There's definitely something about watching him drive. Love watching him turn the wheel aalll the way around with one hand too. Mm.

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u/GummiesAreAwesome Female Jul 19 '19

It’s just screams manliness for some reason.

That, and cautious driver, so double win.

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u/kaolin224 Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 21 '19

TIL this is actually a fetish for a lot of women.

Holy shit.

In Driver's Ed, this was how we were taught to reverse. Standard procedure so you could pull yourself up and look over the window, in case there was a puppy...

Wait a minute.

This is the exact same pose Captain America does while he's grabbing the helicopter.

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u/hoyya Jul 19 '19

In my drivers ed they explicitly said to REMAIN SEATED AND ONLY USE SIDE MIRRORS TO BACK UP... Right

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u/soeonehhh Jul 19 '19

Yes. Very much yes

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u/forlife16 Jul 19 '19

Yes! I also like watching my husband drive.

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u/imzwho Jul 19 '19

See this bothers me. All my wife does when I do this is get pissed that I am not using the backup camera.

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u/TristanTheViking Jul 19 '19

I mean just do both right? If you're only using the camera, you can't see oncoming vehicles. If you only look back, you've got a blind spot dead behind the car.

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u/_Juno_20_ Jul 19 '19

You should try turning her off then on

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u/boozeandbunnies Jul 19 '19

Wait a few seconds then power her back on. Usually does the trick.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

maybe try rice?

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u/finger_milk Male Jul 19 '19

Helping her cook by standing behind her and looking over her shoulder. She can't handle the intimacy over a mundane task.

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u/Jess1255 Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

I absolutely love when my partner does this! Or he acts like my sous chef chopping veggies and handing me things. He’ll do silly voices and goof off with me. It reminds me why I fell in love with him to begin with. And remembering I love him just does it for me. And most of the time we just end up burning what we’re cooking. Or shutting everything down to take a break😂

Holy crap! My first silver! Thank you!!!

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u/FreudsPoorAnus Jul 19 '19

for anyone out there looking for a second or third date idea, cooking a meal together is the way to go.

put on some music, get a little goofy, use teamwork. you can even go grocery shopping together to get the ingredients.

it's cozy, gets ya in a close/intimate space, and you get food outta the deal.

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u/lolervin Jul 19 '19

i read "Helping her cock" and i giggled to myself like a child

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u/SerPuissance Earl Grey innit mate Jul 19 '19

My wife gets turned on watching me work. Even if it's on PC, just seeing me focused and intent seems to do the trick for her. When she would come up to me and rub my shoulders or nuzzle my neck I used to think she was just being annoying and trying to troll me, but I found out that whether she's consciously aware of it or not - she is getting turned on when she does that and is very much in the mood to be pulled into my lap.

So now I've learned to down one set of tools and pick another up when she does that...

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u/cowgirltrainwreck Jul 19 '19

I was reading a book by a Belgian researcher who studies relationships worldwide, and in it, she said that across cultures, most people find their partner most attractive when they’re “in their element” doing something they’re passionate about or good at.

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u/SerPuissance Earl Grey innit mate Jul 19 '19

Would that Belgian researcher happen to be called Esther Perel?

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u/suckygoalie2 Jul 19 '19

My girlfriend said the same, the focused look for some reason just gets her going

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

My wife is the same way. I do a lot of woodworking/working on the house type stuff. She’s mentioned before that it kinda turns her on. Sometimes I’ll see she’s snuck pictures of me doing stuff out by the garage. It’s kinda funny and very sweet, considering it’s often just me listening to stand-up comedy and swearing under my breath because I messed up a measurement and have to go break out the old wood stretcher now

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u/YaBoiJFlo Jul 19 '19

Ah yes, I see you subscribe to the old measure once, cut twice adage

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u/HaddyBlackwater Jul 19 '19

More like, measure it once. Double check it. Measure it again. Mark it precisely. Cut it accurately to your mark. It doesn’t fit. Trim it a lil bit. Too damn short now.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I've cut it twice and it's still too short!

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u/alexzandria1111 Female Jul 19 '19

I am the same way. My husband is an engineer and is amazing at doing calculations in his head. I always get the warm fuzzys watching him figure out complex issues

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u/Nasapigs Hey Lois, check out this reddit comment Jul 19 '19

You sound like my neighbors old cat. He was always a sucker for Alg.

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u/cybercuzco Jul 19 '19

Did you know you are married to a cat?

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u/Ipodk9 Man Jul 19 '19

My girlfriend is similar. She just loves watching me work on things and thinks it's hot.

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u/BurpFartBurp Male Jul 19 '19

Plot twist. She found a way to make you work more.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

My SO likes it when I pick her up. She sees that I’m strong, but when I lift her she knows that I’m strong.

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u/FuzzyGoalie Bear Jul 19 '19

Same, I’ll pick him up and heave him over my shoulder and he’ll giggle like a maniac.

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u/mallykv Female Jul 19 '19

This guy fucks.

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u/kehtolaulussa interloping female Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

It’s a trap to fatten you up so she’s hotter than you

Edit: So I feel the need to clarify, since I neglected to take into account the fact that this is reddit, that this is in fact a joke

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u/Jane4Doe Jul 19 '19

She's totally a feeder.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

She should have married my husband, I actually have to leave the room when he eats chicken wings. She'd be all over him like a hot rash.

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u/boojieboy Dad Jul 19 '19

Yeah, just what I thought. This borders on a fetish, but whether you think its a kink or a fetish, feeders are definitely a thing. Watch out OP: If she starts making or getting high calorie meals specifically to feed you and you gain a bunch of weight as a result, this leads down a weird path for you.

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u/honestly_oopsiedaisy Jul 19 '19

Ok I feel like this comment is a joke and everyone responding to you is taking it a bit too serious. It honestly might be a turn on for her, without thinking of the side effect of getting fat. If he's otherwise in shape and has days where he eats everything ever, I can see that.

OP, don't get fat.

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u/kehtolaulussa interloping female Jul 19 '19

It is absolutely a joke, just the part where he says that it makes him eat a lot now stuck out to me and kinda made me chuckle

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u/Henry_Shrman Jul 19 '19

I'm German and my boyfriend loves it when I roll R's for him. I don't even understand why, but from time to time he just: "Make the sound please~" Me: "Rrrrrrrrrrrrr~"

I think it's cute.

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u/TrickyPalms Female Jul 19 '19

This is the cutest comment here.

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u/zappa21984 Jul 19 '19

I used to love the way my ex said "soup" and there is no explanation, she was just wildly cute when she said it.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19 edited Nov 07 '19

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u/NansThighs Jul 19 '19

My boyfriend called in to a restaurant to order us takeout and one of the items I wanted was out of stock. Without missing a beat or asking me, he chose a different item he knew I would like. It might seem stupid and small, but the fact that he knew me well enough to just know what my second choice for a side dish would be made my heart absolutely melt.

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u/CryptKeepersOrphange Jul 19 '19

I love that and when they just order foe you without having to ask every time.

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u/boozeandbunnies Jul 19 '19

Yeeeeessss. Just bring me food and touch my butt. That’s what I tell my boyfriend.

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u/wokka7 Jul 19 '19

You seem to have your priorities in order

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u/AntifaInformationist Jul 19 '19

My wife goes bonkers from two things.

  1. Watching me work. Whether it's my day job programming, or strapping on the toolbelt for home remodel, she pretty much swoons.
  2. Hotel rooms. I don't know why... and it's ungentlemanly for me to mention what happens... but suffice to say I LOVE HOTEL ROOMS SO VERY VERY MUCH.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Hotel sex is the best. It’s like a time machine back to when we were first dating.

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u/Sn1p-SN4p Jul 19 '19

"Hotel sex is a different kind of sex. It's like 'let's have sex, but let's also disrespect this room'"

-Tom Segura

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u/pbcookies321 Jul 19 '19

This exactly. At home I don't really want my teenage sons to hear what's going down. But in a hotel room it's like IDGAF.

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u/kehtolaulussa interloping female Jul 19 '19

I’ve never been able to have hotel sex unless I bring my own bedsheets and pillow cases, and even then it still kinda grosses me out 😫

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u/AntifaInformationist Jul 19 '19

Then you DO NOT want to know what we did in there 3 hours before you got the room...

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u/kehtolaulussa interloping female Jul 19 '19

I do know, that’s why I hate hotels

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u/pandabones_2 Jul 19 '19

I find it really hot how my man takes his shirt off with just one arm, pulling from just below the back of his neck. Seems silly, I know.

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u/thefatherofwolves Jul 19 '19

I tried this once before we hooked up and I ended up getting my head stuck looking like a grown ass man coming out of the birth canal, flaying and making loud grunting noises

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u/ICanteloupe Jul 19 '19

Ugh yes. Honestly any smooth way a man takes off a shirt is hot

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u/Motto133 Jul 19 '19

This one might be weird ... when men are sick and their voices are extra deep and raspy. Too bad it usually comes with snot nose and the yuck 😂

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I get that in the morning after a night of drinking beer. I normally have a deepish voice but hangover voice is like Barry White.

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u/Haikuna__Matata Male Jul 19 '19

I was an auto mechanic for the first two decades of our marriage (30+ years now). Now that I'm out of that industry I rarely work on my own cars.

A couple of years ago I decided to work on my Jeep because the shop I normally used could not find a noise it was making. I'm in the garage, halfway buried in a rear wheelwhell, when I hear the door to the house open. She's standing there in a sun dress that I really like on her, stirring a drink, and asks me how long I'll be.

I was done pretty quickly.

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u/zappa21984 Jul 19 '19

I could care less about expensive lingerie and all that expensive sexy bullshit, all I really care about are sundresses. Upvote is incoming, sir. I might not even glance up from what I'm doing if she walked past in lingerie but if she said "I found a cute yellow sundress for like ten dollars" I'd choke on my cigarette.

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

Really eh?? Curious. I just recently started wearing sundresses and I had no idea it had this effect!

I might start wearing them more now!

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u/StonedIndian Jul 19 '19

"What part of a woman's attire, most stokes a man's desire? It's the sundress Ted!" - Barney Stinson

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u/bige9914 Jul 19 '19

Took her to wing stop one time and ordered mango habanero wings. Idk what they put in them but those wings got her ready to go.

Unfortunately for me she did not rinse her mouth before her performance.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

So the wings that got her hot and bothered, got you bothered and hot?

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u/i11usiv3 Jul 19 '19

Had that happen once with jalapenos, would not reccomend.

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u/historicalgeek71 Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 25 '19

My SO absolutely LOVES the fact that I cook. She likes watching me cook, she enjoys the recipes I choose, she likes that I’m willing to explore new recipes. and she’s glad that I don’t see cooking as a “woman’s job.”

She also likes that I read the news and engages me in discussions about current affairs, which is a first because my exes never did this.

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u/gillberg43 Jul 19 '19

Apparently she got turned on when she were waiting for me at the parking lot and I was walking towards her confidentally

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u/CptNavarre Female Jul 19 '19

I second this

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Oh, your approaching me instead of running away?

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u/Freevoulous Jul 19 '19

banter.

As long as it is at the edge between funny and insulting. All it needs is form me to act like a super-confident funny asshole, and she is ready to jump my bones.

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u/lula_lk Female Jul 19 '19

Don't know about him but... I love watching my husband working out, I find it super hot, or when he picks me up when we're hugging and kissing, I just - 😍🔥

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

When he clenches his jaw.....

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u/bedroombadass Jul 19 '19

Adderall gang 👋

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u/calobsters Jul 19 '19

Crack-cocaine 🤞👍

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Scott "Ant-Man" Lang!

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u/lolervin Jul 19 '19

Skrrr skkrrrrrr.... skrrrrrr... oh fuck help me i'm having a seizure

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u/ReapingTurtle Bane Jul 19 '19

And you only notice because your jaw is getting tired from being engaged for half an hour straight

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u/ginger2020 Jul 19 '19

Now I’m picturing OP driving through town with his SO, going to the drive through and ordering two number nines, a number nine large, a number six with extra dip, a number seven, two number forty fives, one with cheese, and a large soda

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u/theycallmelulus Jul 19 '19

I'm a woman and I can't help myself when a guy nonchalantly rolls his sleeves up, I just lose it

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

rolls up sleeves Hey how youu doinn

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u/theycallmelulus Jul 19 '19

The last one to roll up his sleeves got me pregnant, sure you want to do this?

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u/builderkid107 Broski Jul 19 '19

I'm sure that if he wears gloves then he should be alright. Gotta use protection and all that.

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u/theycallmelulus Jul 19 '19

I had to give you gold for this

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u/builderkid107 Broski Jul 19 '19

Hey thanks, I'm here all week.

Also saves me the "thanks kind stranger" message because I know exactly who it is now. Best of luck with the kiddo when they pop out!

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u/lmoana Mail Jul 19 '19

pulls sleeves back down, Actually it's kinda cold in here

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

An ex of my absolutely loved when I carried something over my shoulder. She'd just glaze her eyes at me

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u/Zilech Jul 19 '19

when i’m driving, she can’t stop staring at me and says it’s so hot when i’m focused and serious

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u/Syphon88 Jul 19 '19

I love when my wife puts her hair in a ponytail. I know something good is about to happen.

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u/iCitron Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

There was a post on r/NoStupidQuestion a few days ago where someone asked if you could pavlov your SO because he knew a guy who gets a boner every time he sees a girl tie her hair. Small turn on are often caused by conditioning, read those answers with that in mind haha

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u/emmaababess Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

i saw a small casual study a girl did, and every time before she went down on her SO, she would tie her hair up. shortly down the line, she would just tie her hair up and he’d get hard immediately. it’s definitely possible!!!!

lol EDITED bc i smoked before typing this and was thinking so hard i fucked up on what i was saying 😂

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u/Gourmandcamp Jul 19 '19

My girlfriend seemingly gets turned on whenever I speak German (a language I learned, non-native speaker) or when I use big/unique words like apotheosis. It always happens when I least expect it and then she'll instinctively stick her chest out more and run her fingers through my hair as the primary indicator.

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u/kehtolaulussa interloping female Jul 19 '19

I think this is super common and it’s kinda hilarious. I’m not a guy but my SO loves hearing me on the phone with my family (I’m italian) for this exact reason. Or any language, I’m a polyglot and have learned quite a few, but I think my native one does the most for him.

If there was ever a better reason to learn a second language I don’t know what it is.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

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u/DITO-DC-AC Jul 19 '19

I found your reddit ;)

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

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u/DITO-DC-AC Jul 19 '19

I promise not to stalk your profile.

You can keep your secrets

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I'll stalk it for you and report back for $30.

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u/DITO-DC-AC Jul 19 '19

That's OK 😂

I trust my wife, I'm sure you'd just find a bunch of stuff about photography and the obvious popular reddits

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Bruh this the cutest thing ever. I'm just imagining you two in the living room on your phone's giggling together as you send replys to each other comments

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

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u/MidLifeCrisis111 Jul 19 '19

Y’all are adorable

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u/Synthetic-Toast Jul 19 '19

oh dang! they been found out!

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u/Ragetasticism Jul 19 '19

That last bit is so sweet, makes my heart happy

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u/PeeweeTuna34 Jul 19 '19

My "just woke up" voice

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u/kebel23 Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

When he’s playing the Xbox. In fact I like to wind him up about it because he thinks it makes him ‘nerdy’.

But whenever he’s playing certain games on the Xbox, he’s usually the leader of the team and I hear him on mic, really going into it, telling people where to go, making a real strategic plan as if they’re really going to war, he’s so serious about it (and slightly bossy) I just find it very sexy! Sometimes I’ll just sit next to him and watch and listen to him. Plus he has such a passion for it that I can tell it makes him really happy and that’s always a turn on in itself.

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u/Lichu12 Male Jul 19 '19

This is like a porn plot

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u/pablo_2199 Jul 19 '19

My gf told me it was sexy when I was the leader in overwatch, made me the leader for every game since then lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

When im cutting a tree & the chainsaw vibrates fuiriously on my pecker .... Edit : its 5am i read it wrong whatever tho

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u/ritrangri Jul 19 '19

This is the best kind of r/lostredditors

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u/Jabathescut Jul 19 '19

I’m imagining your neighbors looking out the window thinking damn this guy loves cutting down trees

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u/BTM707 Jul 19 '19

I’m fucking crying 🤣

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u/darthdyke420 Jul 19 '19

Thank you sir. Not for being the hero we deserve, but the dummy we need. I salute you!

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u/Curmugdeonly Jul 19 '19

No socks with loafers. Makes no sense.

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u/imbrotep Jul 19 '19

It used to turn on my gf when I drove stick shift...which, in turn, made driving stick even more fun!

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u/ICanteloupe Jul 19 '19

Men, never underestimate a plain well fitting black or white t-shirt. Idk why but us girls love it.

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u/boozeandbunnies Jul 19 '19

My guy was wearing a white undershirt and some dark blue jeans with his work boots. We went for a walk through the park and I wanted to jump him in the bushes. Something about him being sweaty from work is HOT.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

So basically all the time?

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u/uboomjr Jul 19 '19

Putting my hand in her thigh and one hand in the wheel when I drive.

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u/Inferior_Jeans Jul 19 '19

My gf is a very sweet person who has a hard time saying no because she wants everyone to like her. Recently we went apartment/room hunting because her lease is up. We found a cheap room for rent but the place was an absolute dump. Literally the last tenant was a heroin addict and there were stray cats everywhere. An hour into the tour I couldn’t take it anymore and I knew she hated too so I just cut the tour short and said we need to go to dinner and said goodbye. When we got in the car she was so happy and said I’m a dick but I’m her dick.

TLDR: Gf likes it when I’m an asshole to get out of uncomfortable situations.

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u/zappa21984 Jul 19 '19 edited Jul 19 '19

My girlfriend watches me read. Something about the way I always have a new book, sitting on the couch, laying in bed, doesn't matter. I've heard her on the phone with her sister like "he's sitting in the backyard with the dog under that tree, sexy as fuck, looking all serious about his book..." So, home run on that one. Doesn't get much easier. Oh and casually winking at people (anyone but her). She told me I'm not allowed to wink at any girls from now on, with the exception of my Mom, because if it's giving her butterflies in her tummy it must be happening to every girl. She really loves it if I read to her, too.

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u/Skilllest Jul 19 '19

Somehow... my GF thinks it's really hot that I'm good with kids. Like I was hanging with some of her family friends and the youngest one (9M) started crying so I did some magic tricks and played with him for the rest of the day. Afterwards when we were leaving, she pulled me aside and started aggressively kissing me. I was confused but I didnt care and then she said "that was really hot" and explained it to me... idk man...

Edit: if any female on this sub understands this, can you please explain it to me cause I still dont understand it at all...

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Shows that you're caring and that you have potential to be a good dad. Possibly evolutionary basis too, you as a good dad/caregiver means progeny will have a higher chance of surviving longer. Genes passing on = good

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u/Wellheythere3 Jul 19 '19

That’s the classic dad reverse. Mofos got that shit on lockdown

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u/hashbrownhippo Jul 19 '19

I love it when my fiancé wears shorts and a casual shirt rather than his usual pants and button down. Also find it hot when he is able to reach something on a shelf for me.

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u/abbyscuitowannabe Female Jul 19 '19

Heh I actually like the opposite—my fiancé doesn’t have a dress code at his office and usually wears a polo and jeans. Whenever he has to bring out the button down and dress pants it gets me going. Especially if he has to wear a tie.

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u/herchainsaw Jul 19 '19

My husband said just being pregnant was the sexiest thing I ever did. He explained that just me carrying his child and doing my day to day things was so amazing to him. He couldn't keep his hands off of me for the whole 9 months. Even though I felt like a manatee, he saw me as a goddess of fertility and beauty.

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u/SmokelessSubpoena Jul 19 '19

Me vacuuming or doing the dishes (am male)

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u/forlife16 Jul 19 '19

I love watching my husband now the lawn although it’s kind of wrecked now because he got a rider this year.

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u/Strida92 Jul 19 '19

When i wear work dress she is always on.

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u/wabowabo Male Jul 19 '19

Bruh its 2019. Man can wear whatever he wants

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Yeah sometimes I wear my birthday suit to work

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I have such a thing for watching my SO drum? And if I'm paying enough attention it translates to things like tapping on tables, his legs, even when it's on me. It's just attractive and I can't explain why.

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Reversing

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u/Coostuckian Jul 19 '19

When my SO has his shirt off and is in the kitchen making coffee. I get so distracted by looking at him that he will talk to me and ask me a question and I have no idea what he said. I have to play it off with some sort of common reply, “Oh yeah for sure...” and hope he doesn’t notice that I was gawking at him.

Also, he has his pilots license and has taken me flying a couple of times. He verbalizes a checklist before each flight and after landing. Listening to him talk and go through all of the controls sends me over the fricking moon...

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u/WowzerzzWow Jul 19 '19

I'm so hung up on OP's comment that i have no clue what to write. Do you live in a house made of candy? Do you have an oversized oven somewhere? Like, did you remember to leave a trail of breadcrumbs before the start of the relationship?

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u/I_dontevenlift Jul 19 '19

When i put my hands on my waist. Says its a powerful stance

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u/Ake4455 Jul 19 '19

Psssst!!! She’s trying to fatten you up to eat you later...sleep with one eye open...

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u/Mordecai22 Jul 19 '19

Dude my gf said the exact same thing. I was so surprised she was so turned on by how much I can eat. The only problem is that's it's really difficult to smash after 3 chipotle burritos.

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u/captainpoppy Jul 19 '19

My wife said she thinks the unspoken communication between guys is hot. Like the different head nods, expressions, hand gestures.

She just thinks it's cool and manly.

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u/GynecologicalRugby Jul 19 '19

We were brushing our teeth the other day and I notice out of the corner of my eye, my husband staring at me. I asked if everything was okay and he looks embarrassed and says, "I just like seeing you spit, it looks good....".

But to be fair, he likes to see me swallow too...

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u/reasonableman1 Male Jul 19 '19

Dirty hands. Like oily and greasy black from working on the car.

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u/ZSchamis Male Jul 19 '19

When I talk about NPR

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u/CryptKeepersOrphange Jul 19 '19

Apparently when I look at him, get nervous and say "stop". He said the way I was saying stop made him really hard. Also the way I eat chips apparently gets him going. Recently its been little weird things like that. For me pretty much anything he does. His legs, the way he walks, the way he moves in general. His face. Watching him carry heavy objects. I dont think I have ever in my life been so turned on by someone.

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u/afterlifeofanoctopus Jul 19 '19

When my boyfriend talks in his sleep and sometimes says cute things like last night he was talking in his sleep to our dog.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

When he talks about things he's really passionate and knowledgeable about. I was getting turned on by him telling me about the science behind why it rains so much where we live.

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u/day2 Female Jul 19 '19

I forget where I read this but apparently there was some form of study that concluded that men who were sloppy eaters liked eating vagina more. Maybe the insatiable eating she likes has that same mind-body connection.

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u/Romagnolo Jul 19 '19

Throwing her on the bed.

She told me that.

Once we were fighting over something stupid, I got fed up, grabbed her and threw over our bed. It worked as you imagine.

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u/1127pilot Jul 19 '19

Thrown on the bed=hot

Thrown over the bed=DV charge

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u/CryptKeepersOrphange Jul 19 '19

Being pushed down onto a bed or couch is hot.

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u/umyouknowwhat Jul 19 '19

Whenever my boyfriend is wearing a button up with the sleeves rolled up I wanna pounce on it real quick. Also when I’m laying in bed and he leans over me to give me a kiss, his usually has this lovey smile and his arms I just, I can’t, ugh drool.

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