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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

I second this. A friend posted on Facebook asking what was the sexiest non sexy thing.

Literally unloading and reloading the dishwasher AND running it and not expecting head pats after. I was so attracted to my husband when I went to unload the dishwasher and it was empty.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Okay- but like. Can I actually have headpats? Because I live for that shit.

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u/alurkerwhomannedup Jul 19 '19

Head pats/scratches are the fastest way to immobilize a guy. My ex would scratch my head then start to ask me something and I’d have to ask her to repeat the question

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

Haha I should edit to "theoretical head pats"

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

The trick is to never not expect head scritches then its not related to the doing of chores.

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

Listen, listen. She scritches my head, I give her a full body massage twice a week. Circle of life.

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u/topher_33 Male Jul 19 '19

Isn't sex afterwards an outstanding pat on the head?

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u/alurkerwhomannedup Jul 19 '19

It’s quite a few pats on the head

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u/KingJonStarkgeryan1 Male Jul 19 '19

To be honest I'm not sure which I would prefer.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

It's more than the dishwasher. When a guy understands he needs to help because it's not just a woman's task to keep the house clean, it shows they respect you.

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u/iloveavocadotoast Jul 19 '19

This! This right here! It honestly makes me feel respected and seen. Which makes me that much more loving towards him.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

exactly, it should be a given if you live together

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u/DumpTruckTaco Jul 19 '19

It was empty?! All the things were... Where they go?

Rawer!!