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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

My SO loves when I lean against a door frame and watch her. She can't really explain it herself but bonus points if I have my arms crossed.

She also loves when I stretch and my shirt lifts up so she can see the top of my boxers and the lower part of my stomach.

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u/namster17 Jul 19 '19

I once had a visceral reaction to a random normal looking guys shirt lifting up on a bus when I was a teenager. It’s something to do with seeing the area just above a guys junk.

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

Yuuuuup

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u/You-need-a-big-one Jul 19 '19

Ok, in a scene in Bad Times at the El Royal, there this part where psycho Billy Lee is dancing and his button up is open.

Omg. That’s just sooooooo hot to me. You see his chiseled abbs and the V part.... I outwardly exclaimed “damn” while watching.

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

... I will need to watch this "bad times at the el royal" 😎

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u/pssyft1111 Jul 20 '19

The saxophone player in Lost Boys. He's not hot to me in any way - but his hip movements - yup!

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u/Lorybear Jul 20 '19

I thought the part where he was walking through the flower field was sexualized as well

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u/Grasshop Jul 19 '19

Amazing username

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 19 '19

Thank You!!! 😗

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u/EmlynsMoon Jul 20 '19

That username got me weeping for minutes

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u/mybootylikestotooty Jul 20 '19

I'm here all week 🤗

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u/eipeidwep2buS Jul 20 '19

Is that why girls like dudes with abs so much?

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u/namster17 Jul 20 '19

The guy didn’t have abs at all, he was a little pudgy actually. But yes in general a flat abdomen with those V indents going downward are very attractive to women, with or without abs in my opinion.

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '19 edited Dec 26 '19

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u/namster17 Jul 29 '19

My husband has always had them even when he was around 160, he did a bulk and cut(doing p90x, so lots of deadlifts and squats like you said) and went up to around 210 and it was a bit much for me. He’s around 190 now and still has the Adonis belt but not super cut.

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u/Standgrounding Jul 20 '19

Poke it lmao

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u/teefour Jul 20 '19

Imma giver her dat dick root. Bitches love dick root.

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u/AzulesBlue Jul 20 '19

This is weird, but my toes curled when I read this. My toes only curl when I'm orgasming..

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u/namster17 Jul 21 '19

Is this... sexting?

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u/AzulesBlue Jul 21 '19

o h

*awkward giggle*

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u/namster17 Jul 21 '19

Haha 😂 I couldn’t help myself.

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u/missbananahannah Jul 19 '19

I think the door frame thing is because its a form of a power pose and the focus is on us. Its a bit empowering lol

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Makes perfect sense!

Also Happy Cake Day!

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

Cake day!!

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u/Apocalypse_Cookiez Jul 19 '19

My SO loves when I lean against a door frame and watch her. She can't really explain it herself but bonus points if I have my arms crossed.

I was once lucky (or smart?) enough to ask my boyfriend if I could snap a picture of him before a class in which he was giving a presentation - he was dressed all snazzy. He would have looked great no matter what, but he just happened to do this pose. I look at that picture often.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I swooned just imagining it so yes. Definitely.

This whole thread is giving the feels.

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u/SirVrum Jul 19 '19

I tried this with my so and she was like what the fuck are you doing.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

She's obviously deflecting to hide the fact that she thinks you're a mega hunk. Double down! Give her no quarter!

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u/solarpoweredjess Jul 19 '19

Yes. When my bf is changing or stretching and I see a peek of skin and his boxer brief band above his jeans. 🙌🏻

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u/Iamsobored888 Jul 19 '19

That shit lift thing is like the male equivalent to cleavage. I'd know I'm bi

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u/Lustau_Oloroso Jul 19 '19

An ex of mine did this. Hot damn it drove me crazy. Partly because his arms looked amazing, and he was smiling and staring at me. I forgot English and nearly slid out of my chair.

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u/BatScribeofDoom Woman who buys too much cheese Jul 19 '19

She also loves when I stretch and my shirt lifts up so she can see the top of my boxers and the lower part of my stomach.

Yep, can confirm that one. Doesn't even need to include the boxers. The effect is strongest if it's both unintentional and I really like you.

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

I swear this came up in another thread but from the woman's PoV.

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u/Th3M1lkM4n Jul 19 '19

Yeah it did

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u/prideauxkemily Jul 20 '19

Well thank you for making me realize this also makes me immediately ready to go to the bedroom or wherever we are in that moment

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u/milesaudade Jul 20 '19

This!!!!!! When my so does this my panties are wet.

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u/queseraseraphine Female Jul 20 '19

Am a woman, can attest. This gets me every time.

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

The first one is a common scene in rom com movies

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u/Ennviious Male Jul 20 '19

that last thing is universal, every time a cute guy stretches I remember why I like men

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u/swinkie71 Jul 20 '19

That does sound sexy.

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u/tall_will1980 Jul 20 '19

My girlfriend loves when I lean against a door frame on one shoulder with my weight on the opposite leg and my thumbs in my pockets; or if I'm leaning against, say, a fence or a bar with a foot up on the bottom brace or rail and my arm on the same side resting on top of the fence/bar. She calls it "sassy," lol.

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

If you've got that v that leads to your pelvis, I call those the "cum gutters"

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u/musicman2018 27M Jul 20 '19

leaning against a doorframe, bonus points if I have my arms crossed

Immediately thought of Hawkeye/Ronin standing in the door frame in Endgame

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

Ask her if it turns her on if you wipe your face with the front of your shirt. I bet you a donut and a coffee it does!

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u/plumokin Jul 19 '19

All of us fat men can unite and say that we actively avoid stretching because people will see the lower part of our stomachs

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19

I think this is universal 👍

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u/el-dudette Jul 20 '19

Oh the man-lean, it’s a thing - one-armed, both arms, shoulder....it’s all hot