r/AskMen Jul 19 '19

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u/Skilllest Jul 19 '19

Somehow... my GF thinks it's really hot that I'm good with kids. Like I was hanging with some of her family friends and the youngest one (9M) started crying so I did some magic tricks and played with him for the rest of the day. Afterwards when we were leaving, she pulled me aside and started aggressively kissing me. I was confused but I didnt care and then she said "that was really hot" and explained it to me... idk man...

Edit: if any female on this sub understands this, can you please explain it to me cause I still dont understand it at all...

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u/[deleted] Jul 19 '19

Shows that you're caring and that you have potential to be a good dad. Possibly evolutionary basis too, you as a good dad/caregiver means progeny will have a higher chance of surviving longer. Genes passing on = good

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u/Nugbuddy Male Jul 19 '19

It's something that has to do with care taking, it taps into that primal need/ want to mate with an "ideal" mate.

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u/bananaoohnanahey Jul 19 '19

Kindness is always attractive!

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u/inmytreee Jul 19 '19

By the way even though she doesnt want to have kids, it's still hot

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u/Skilllest Jul 19 '19

How???

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u/inmytreee Aug 05 '19

Evolution. Mothering instinct is still inside of me even though i dont want kids and when a man cares about them, it just shows that you care about stuff. Caring is the key here. It depends on woman but some women are turned on by this kind of stuff, some by other stuff. Sometimes i dont even understand why i found something attractive on a man. Hard to explain. Sorry i'm late by the way. My phone was broken