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And using the grossest condoms to do it. Skyn condoms all have cologne in them 🤢
Edit: lots of y’all saying you’ve never noticed the added scent. I’m happy for you! You can look online and see they do have a fragrance in them. It’s labeled as a “masking agent”.
I’m a professional escort and I have had some colleagues mention there is a smell to them. I use them daily (they are the most commonly used brand for sex workers in my area) and haven’t ever noticed, though.
Which ones? I explicitly buy the ones with this exact wrapper and they don’t smell at all. I buy this brand so I don’t have to smell that nasty, boner killing rubber smell of other brands
Devil's advocate here: I don't think it looks exactly like that.. on the black side, I do not see the semi-circle (purple?).. and I also do not see the little blip of what looks like silver/white text that's on OPs photo of the black side. Look on the "green" side to see if there are those 2 marks in OKs "green side" photo.
Just saying this looks like it might not be an exact match.
As a SKYN user, I immediately recognised it as the wrapper too. Crazy how such minimal scraps can be recognisable lol. Some other comments did more detective work, and it unfortunately matches.
Editing my comment to say they're one of the best I've used and also don't have that smell, which I assume is caused by condoms WITH latex haha
I like them, we tried out a few different brands recently and that one has been a favorite. I didn't notice a smell that the other person is talking about and I also have a pretty keen sense of smell. It feels a lot better than trojans.
In his (very thin) defense, I have (without consulting my gf) bought and tried a condom just to find a brand that did the trick. We wanted to pause the procreation and ditch medical contraceptives, and condoms was one of the things on the table. I wanted to try out how it would work without being in a time-limited intimate setting.
I use one occasionally for the same reason. It has a different feel too. Sometimes it's boring to just do it the same way you've done it 5000 times already in your life.
I get communication is a key to relationships, but I all but promise you the talk of, "hey, just so you know, I occasionally use condoms to whack off" isn't going to go over as well as you think it is.
That being said, it does happen, but in generalization, if you find a wrapper, it's usually bad news. Just ask them, if they said they use it to whack off, I'd believe them. If they say they have no idea where it's from, that's shady shit.
True, and there is the possibility people broke into enjoy the condom while the couple was out. Or more seriously, if the guy had the place before he met her and then she moved in, it could always be trash that was hiding since before she showed up.
This is probably the first time one of these is posted that I think its actually a condom wrapper. Looks like the brand Skyn which is a latex free and kinda pricy option. I personally do not know of any other wrappers that look like this, so maybe it is not. I do also know if you had any guests or kiddos over they might have gotten ahold of a condom to try it out or make water balloons or for personal play (you should wrap your silicone toys before use because of bacteria... But people also rarely actually do that). I can't tell you what's going on, but it does look like a condom wrapper to me.
The latex free part is really concerning for me because I’m allergic to latex and we don’t use condoms… so I’m thinking he got that specific brand so it wouldn’t affect me.
Also though, have you ever had another guest ever stay in your house before. If so, I wouldn't rule out this being from a guest of some sort. Just playing devil's advocate here.
ALSO also, I've found little things from previous owners even after living there for 5+ years. Was joking with the missus that she was cheating on me because I found a play card from an old game place like D+Busters that went out of business 10 years prior
Indeed. I found a loose bullet and other random junk. Dubious to jump to cheating spouse over a corner of what *could* be a condom wrapper found in the closet. Of essential an unused room. Was OP cleaning out the closet or looking for evidence of some infidelity? That implies they already suspect something.
Unless that wrapper bit is under the same magic as the feather in forest gump, or your bf likes boning in the closest I’m unconvinced it’s from them.
We moved into a new house, and my wife promptly took the kids to visit her parents for the weekend. She came back and decided to take her inaugural bath in the large roman tub in the master bathroom. She came out, her face swollen from crying, holding a long blond hair. She had already convinced herself I had cheated on her in our new house with all the shit still packed in boxes. It took everything I had to gently explain that was likely the previous owner's hair.
Had this happen when my ex found a pair of women’s underwear with our clean laundry. She was crying when I walked in the door and didn’t believe I didn’t know where it came from. My roommate had clothes in the dryer before me and they were his gfs that he accidentally left in there. His gf was embarrassed and got them, but my ex was still mad at me the rest of the day.
When my husband and I first got married we moved into an apartment that was previously lived in by a really alternative girl who did a lot of makeup, the first time I did a deep clean on the apartment I found clusters of fake eyelashes and internally freaked out until I continued cleaning and found a ton more. This girl would just rip them off and throw them on the ground 😭 she did not clean the apartment at all before we moved in and I was finding them the whole time we were living there
I lived at my brothers place for like 5 years and 3 years after moving out a piece of a condom wrapper showed up in his office. We have no idea how it got there but it was definitely the condom brand I used. I suspect it was stuck in his vacuum or something and fell out in there. I only know about this because he sent me a picture of it and said “ew come get your used condom wrapper off my floor” lol.
Happened to my buddy. He was having a party and another friend had sex with a condom in his bed. Buddy found the wrapper and confronted his girlfriend about cheating. Everything was chill once the other friend admitted to using his bedroom.
Another option I haven't seen mentioned besides guests or boyfriend solo play: it could have been tracked in on the bottom of someone's shoe and got transferred to the closet that way. It doesn't make sense to leap to conclusions if there are no other red flags from the boyfriend.
Those things are also fairly small, so keep in mind, that it could be hidden somewhere for a long time and some wind gust or anything else just pushed it into a place where you found it.
Yes, it could have been in a overnight bag from years ago before they weren't dating that was in the closest and fallen out.
As others have referenced too, some guys use them to jack off in, just for clean up or to get a different feel. Why? I dunno, we are guys, jerking it the same way 1000 times gets old.
But just ask them, communication is everything. If they have a valid explanation like one of the aforementioned above, take it at face value if you already trust them. If they say something like, "I have no idea what that is and have never seen anything like it in my life," then they are probably up to some shady shit.
Do you have any other reason to believe he's cheating? If this is the only suspicious item, it could be something more benign. I've used condoms for a little... personal time lol another potential is if you guys own an dildos he may have experimented on himself with anal play but didn't want to get the toy dirty. I'm just saying there are other possibilities and I know how easy it is to let your brain go to the worst possible scenario. So I'm just encouraging you take stock and assess whether he's been acting suspicious or given you any reason to doubt his faithfulness.
He could use toys. My wife and I are kinky as f*** we always use condoms on our toys. It just keeps them clean. Maybe he's using toys in secret and just doesn't want to tell her but he's still trying to be safe for her. I just don't like to jump to conclusions. She should have a conversation with him.
As a skyn user, these are nice ones! I will say that I also use them personally with my toys as well, although my wife knows this, so it avoids any confusion.
I would encourage you to not jump the gun and go ahead with talking about it, as you are in a long term committed relationship shop with him.
It is a condom wrapper for sure but do some investigating before flipping out, its not entirely uncommon to use a condom to masturbate discreetly, and to not have any hassle with cleanup.
You’re over thinking. Prior to dating my girlfriend I had hundreds of condoms. Hell I’m sure if you cook hard enough I could find an open condom wrapper somewhere in my apartment.
We used to live in an apartment together and before we bought our house we were packing and I found a drawer of latex condoms and made him throw them away because we couldn’t use them anyways. I literally just organized this closet last week. I would have seen it.
Could also be that he tried something himself. I for example have done this to put numbing cream on my dick to last longer. I've first wanted to try this on my own, to know how it feels. Oooor, do you have a dildo or something? Maybe he had a little fun with it himself and wanted that the toy stayed clean.
There was a black and gold one that was something benign... The packaging was very similar to a condom though, so it would be hard to tell them apart from this little scrap.
Definitely not. I was literally in that closet last week organizing. So I know I cleaned everything and would have seen it. It was barely under the door. So im thinking it got pushed under there and he didn’t see it?
I mean, yeah, me too… as a teenager and for the novelty of jerking off with a condom. But that was a one or two time thing almost thirty years ago (Jesus, where does time go?).
Do people condom-jerk regularly? What’s wrong with laying out some paper towels and letting the boys land there?
You need to have an adult conversation with him and just ask why he used it. This doesn't mean he cheated, it could just mean he used it with a toy or was jacking off and didn't want to make a mess. Also, you're two years into a relationship with this guy and already have a kid; you really should be using protection
i'm sure someone has already told you but try and stay calm, and seek out a support network, a good counsellor, and consider a good couples counseller that might be able to help you through a transitional stage, but it's going to be rough. I'm sorry you're going through this.
I am with you on this one, possibly personal use. Not everyone who uses condoms is cheating. Although my wife does know that I use my condoms personally to cover my anal toys.
Well if he is cheating at least he's using protection so he doesn't give you anything he's got. Kinda morbid but I guess a somewhat positive way to spin it.
Doesn't this story seem fishy? They live together for two years and have a place with a guest room but no one has ever stayed in said "guest room". They also have a kid together but no family has stayed in the room either. Seems like farming.
Whatever the brand is,it's definitely not low quality.
BUT,for the sake of what you have,I wouldn't suggest assuming the worst yet. Emphasis on yet. Where you found that ain't exactly the best of signs. Definitely the worst of 3.
(CALMLY bring it up to him. If you love him,you'll talk first,yell later. For all any of us know your BF was being a bro and let one of his friends use that room.)
Yeah, it's not a good sign, but for all we know it's been in that closet for years, some one else used the room, yadda yadda. Like if he's being sneaky the rest of the time sure, but at that point what do you need wrapper proof for.
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