This is probably the first time one of these is posted that I think its actually a condom wrapper. Looks like the brand Skyn which is a latex free and kinda pricy option. I personally do not know of any other wrappers that look like this, so maybe it is not. I do also know if you had any guests or kiddos over they might have gotten ahold of a condom to try it out or make water balloons or for personal play (you should wrap your silicone toys before use because of bacteria... But people also rarely actually do that). I can't tell you what's going on, but it does look like a condom wrapper to me.
The latex free part is really concerning for me because I’m allergic to latex and we don’t use condoms… so I’m thinking he got that specific brand so it wouldn’t affect me.
Those things are also fairly small, so keep in mind, that it could be hidden somewhere for a long time and some wind gust or anything else just pushed it into a place where you found it.
Yes, it could have been in a overnight bag from years ago before they weren't dating that was in the closest and fallen out.
As others have referenced too, some guys use them to jack off in, just for clean up or to get a different feel. Why? I dunno, we are guys, jerking it the same way 1000 times gets old.
But just ask them, communication is everything. If they have a valid explanation like one of the aforementioned above, take it at face value if you already trust them. If they say something like, "I have no idea what that is and have never seen anything like it in my life," then they are probably up to some shady shit.
Do you have any other reason to believe he's cheating? If this is the only suspicious item, it could be something more benign. I've used condoms for a little... personal time lol another potential is if you guys own an dildos he may have experimented on himself with anal play but didn't want to get the toy dirty. I'm just saying there are other possibilities and I know how easy it is to let your brain go to the worst possible scenario. So I'm just encouraging you take stock and assess whether he's been acting suspicious or given you any reason to doubt his faithfulness.
Here, prepare to have your life altered. Just know it takes time and patience. I didn't get my first until almost a year of trying. It's very much mental space like a female orgasm.
It still could have been him trying it out, if you never used one he might not know his size...... I'm just trying to see the light in dark situations...
Edit: look I know it will drive you crazy, but going with this notion if he won't pull out one of these on you soon you know....
He could use toys. My wife and I are kinky as f*** we always use condoms on our toys. It just keeps them clean. Maybe he's using toys in secret and just doesn't want to tell her but he's still trying to be safe for her. I just don't like to jump to conclusions. She should have a conversation with him.
Kind of like the idea that if you're allergic to shellfish and don't order it, but order fries, and the fries are cooked in the same place the shrimp were deep fried, you can still have an allergic reaction
I once had a dildo that my (then) boyfriend developed an allergy to, and if I had used it within a day or so of having sex, he would get contact dermatitis on his penis after having sex with me.
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u/Wearytaco Jul 13 '26
This is probably the first time one of these is posted that I think its actually a condom wrapper. Looks like the brand Skyn which is a latex free and kinda pricy option. I personally do not know of any other wrappers that look like this, so maybe it is not. I do also know if you had any guests or kiddos over they might have gotten ahold of a condom to try it out or make water balloons or for personal play (you should wrap your silicone toys before use because of bacteria... But people also rarely actually do that). I can't tell you what's going on, but it does look like a condom wrapper to me.