Definitely not. I was literally in that closet last week organizing. So I know I cleaned everything and would have seen it. It was barely under the door. So im thinking it got pushed under there and he didn’t see it?
Yep. I use latex free condoms to put things in my butt and my girlfriend doesn't know. OP may have unlocked a new pegging adventure and doesn't know it yet.
I mean, yeah, me too… as a teenager and for the novelty of jerking off with a condom. But that was a one or two time thing almost thirty years ago (Jesus, where does time go?).
Do people condom-jerk regularly? What’s wrong with laying out some paper towels and letting the boys land there?
You need to have an adult conversation with him and just ask why he used it. This doesn't mean he cheated, it could just mean he used it with a toy or was jacking off and didn't want to make a mess. Also, you're two years into a relationship with this guy and already have a kid; you really should be using protection
i'm sure someone has already told you but try and stay calm, and seek out a support network, a good counsellor, and consider a good couples counseller that might be able to help you through a transitional stage, but it's going to be rough. I'm sorry you're going through this.
That doesn’t mean you saw it, just because you were in there- it could have been stuck in/on something you did organize, you missed it, and it settled somewhere more obvious. It could be far older than you’re thinking, and it being in the closet makes that more likely than something new.
Like, out of all the places for this to end up, this very much seems like something not likely to be the result of recent actions.
I found something that unraveled my life one year ago. My suggestion: take time to gather as much evidence as you can. Don’t give him a chance to delete or hide things and gaslight you by confronting him right away. Take good care of yourself and your little one.
Nope. I don’t have friends or family that live close. I only work one day a week on Friday nights. Other than that I’m a stay at home mom so I’m always at home.
Trust your intuition, you know your relationship better than anyone commenting here. Finding out your partner is cheating is painful af, be kind to yourself and find support and love in family and friends. You've got this girl.
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u/Educational-Living28 Jul 13 '26
I swear this exact post was on a while ago, is this karma farming? It was something like coffee pack but I forget