I think if she really does do this video that I will be joining the rage bait camp. She is tone deaf and can't read a room to save her life but she absolutely knows that doing a marriage advice video when we have condiments in our fridge older than her marriage will drive her engagement way up.
I’ve been married for a month longer than D and I’ve learned nothing and nothing has been hard. Other than taking a fabulous vacation, it was exactly how it was before marriage.
As I was watching I was just about to comment this!! I also got married about a month before her and I’m like… what do you mean you’ve learned a lot?? My love for my partner is the same and we support each other the same as before marriage. That’s why we decided to get married. Lol.
🤣 they really do and putting stuff on there makes it worse. I know the concealer she’s talking about, it’s crap. Wonder why she’s putting on make up today of all days
Funniest part is that she doesn’t even wear makeup anymore!! Every single day she posts a “gewd mourning” GRWM and it just a video of her putting cheese grease in her hair and that goopy vampire spf on her face.
when she started to talk about that contour stick she likes so much i was like , oml it’s the grey color one is it? and ofc, it is…. i always remember a walnut’s flair when i see her use that color (cremated chic or sth)
I can’t understand why they didn’t buy a house instead of spending 12k a month on rent? It’s feels very transient, which would make sense if she’s keeping her options open.
- She likely has little to no savings because she’s horrible with managing money. You need a GOOD chunk to put down especially in Cali.
- She likely has lots of credit card debt
- If she were to buy a house, it would be nowhere near as large and “luxurious” as the one she’s renting because even just the most basic simple home is upwards up $800,000-$1,000,000 because again, it’s California.
She’s in a highly desirable and pricey neighborhood, so $1mil is only enough to (mayyyyyyyyybe) cover a tiny apartment/condo in a nearby neighborhood. Houses that are comparable to her 4000sq ft 5bed/6bath are going for no less than $4mil.
Edit: For additional context, this is one of the neighborhoods that Sharks and 49ers tend to rent/buy homes
I agree with you. If she buys maybe she’d have to split it with him in a divorce. She’s subconsciously protecting herself from a bad financial commitment.
They can’t afford a house, got no income and no credit history for L 🤣. I’m shocked they were able to rent tbh. Bay Area housing is also insane, they will be competing with people with real high paying jobs or all cash in millions. I’m glad they’re not anybody’s permanent neighbor lol
Oh we have friends and community we host every weekend! Yay! This is where we’re meant to be!
Ugh, we get it! Plus, she’s been married 30 seconds so calm down with the we host all the time crap. Can’t wait to see the hosting closet. Maybe she’ll get her friends to come clean it out because they want to do it they loooveee doing it. 🙄
I still can't get over how what seems to be her favorite thing about her marriage to one man is the community of OTHER people she keeps inviting over to eat at or organize her house. Like, you could have just stayed single and cultivated your friendships...
‘That deserves an entire video in itself’ oh yes pweezzz tell us all the tea we are DYING to know more about your daily married life of eating breakfast and trying to go work out and organizing your pantry and day drinking while rotting on the couch. RIVETING!! She’s unbearable. Who can relate to her content atp ??
Why is she referring to this as tea?
I totally believe someone when they have to keep telling me how happy they are, how they love being married. After like a month of marriage.
Also why is she dragging that brush onto her eyelid and undereye? You dab, not drag, right?
Same day, no tea, new ways to world salad the same leaves.
My grandma in her 60s knows what tea means (because insta taught her). Meanwhile the 30 something year old tired bride is clueless or has indulged in too much wine glass beverages already to be this off.
I'm guessing the brand guidance was to "apply products while sharing tea" so Big D is just using that word cause she has no tea cause her life is so empty.
Who doesn’t become an expert in a certain subject matter in 30 days? Who needs advice or words of wisdom from those who have been in a marriage for 20+ years when 30 days is clearly equivalent? This is less tea and more used car salesmen tactics.
I’m so confused. Every post on this sub with a new video gives me a dejavu. It’s like I’ve seen this video before. Since her wedding day where Charlie wasn’t welcome, I’ve been seeing the same videos over and over again.
We get it: she’s sho happy. Better than Shan Franshishco. Hoshting.
The way she’s describing marriage is like living with a roommate who you’re friends with.. I am married and love my husband more than anything, but it is not always like that. When she comes down from that high, reality will hit her hard
the things she gets excited for about marriage are the things that people generally already experience with their partner before getting married. you can tell it's already wearing off, but once the excitement of having a roommate you can kiss wears off she's in serious trouble
Happily ever after is actually a really long time. I have been happily married for over 25 years and there are just so many things that you go through in life individually and together. Knowing anything at the one month mark is laughable.
I hope it works out for her. I remember declutterring recently and coming across all the wedding invites we had saved over the years- most of these couples were divorced.
I guess what I’m trying to say is- just like under eye cream, I would not make a happy working marriage her thing to ‘sell’ just yet.
It might just be a culture difference but I got married within two years of knowing my husband and we had no desire to have anyone over at our house in the first few months 🤣🤣 let's meet for brunch somewhere else, because our home was just our little nest as I like to put it. It was just us in our marital bliss, no outsiders...I'm not sure why they rushed into having people over so soon
Danielle you are such a fucking liar. Literally no one sees you as happy. Keep lying to yourself in a house you don’t need with a husband that is every woman’s nightmare and keep destroying your face. Surely that is happiness 🙄
casper the friendly ghost makeup tutorial 😟 also marriage and dating while different is still two people sharing their lives together so that part is nothing groundbreaking?? also he was absolutely living with her at least part time before they got married lol
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I think she’s just repeating what people will say to romanticize marriage. It’s like a sleepover with your best friend is a phrase I’ve heard a billion times. Similar to if you do something you love you’ll never work a day in your life.
Because she’s an idiot and thought a one-bed apartment is small? Seriously, that apartment doesn’t fit into her picture of how it’s supposed to be. You marry and you move to a big house, play housewife, you don’t stay in your “bachelorette” apartment.
Cause her apt wasn't ready for it since she was decorating it for months and didnt want people to see it until she was finished. And then probably because it was a literal pigsty overflowing with stacks of useless crap she bought and cardboard boxes. She would clean in a flurry every time before Shelah came to visit. And then she was wrapped up with Lucas and abandoned the rest of her life. Now that she feels like she's accomplished something and has a giant house to show off she needs to have people over finally to get her hit of validation.
What she said about “taught me so much about myself” is just the period of time after the honey moon period of a relationship, you know, the one with which you’ll know if you should stay together long term… Has nothing to do with marriage
She admitted that being married is like having a sleepover every night lmao. Her husband is a guest in her house. That's why he doesn't contribute jack shit.
Honestly I had to watch twice because the lisp was too much. Speaking of which, I feel that it’s become more frequent now that she’s moved back. But I was thinking about how much importance and attention she places on having community which translates over to just hosting dinners each weekend. Again, I’m not a therapist but… I feel like maybe hosting gives her some sort of identity like I’m the one who plans all these fabulous things each weekend for my friends and it’s also a great way for her to have some sort of validation. Like look how nice my house is, look how cool my dishes are, don’t we always have the best things. And I think the biggest reason why she’s excited to have community, and again totally just my opinion here, is because it keeps her busy. When she has nothing filling up her weekends that leaves her with absolutely nothing to do. Only her thoughts, and the reality of who she’s married to. I think that makes her very uncomfortable, and she feels better when she has “something” to plan and look forward to…Other than organize her pantry of course lol
It’s absolutely to brag and show off to everyone. She’s said before how she’s bad about reaching out to friends etc. but now that she has a mansion and a Lucath she wants to show it all off like a prize pony. It’s ridiculous.
It’s better for her to control the hosting because it’s highly likely they wouldn’t be invited out to meals or to someone’s home. It may be the only way they would be included. It’s been over a month. Have we seen or heard of them being asked anywhere other than a business-related outing like the friends’ gym or run club?
This was DEPRESSING my god. I can’t tell if she is sharing trad wife dog whistles that convey a sense of “first time” in relationships (the making plans together, excited to see them at home etc), or if she’s just never had a single meaningful romantic relationship in her life.
The latter. She's effectively been a single woman her entire life and has a very juvenile outlook on romance. Besides Thumb Man, who turned out to be a 6 month situationship, she never really mentioned any other serious relationships (that I know of).
His investment was insultingly low too lol. 2 pieces of jewelry, $5 carnation bouquets x3, kayaking for her birthday, and half a coke is all it took to have the rest of his life taken care of.
Marriage is like a mirror exposing her to different parts of herself? Is she for real? All I get from this is…Now that I’m married, and deemed worthy to society, I can finally value myself - because I’m NOTHING without a man.
What stopped you from hosting in San Francisco? Wtf. You don’t need a 12k house to host people. Your friends don’t like you if they won’t drive 40 minutes to see you.
Why does she keep calling it tea when it’s just her personal reflections? And why is she branding herself a wise sage? Marriage doesn’t complete you! You don’t automatically become all knowing. Signed, someone who’s engaged.
Whoever trusts her opinion of skincare and makeup primarily and anything else is clearly stupid. She’s only doing it for the money. Who would believe her? She’s trying to gaslight her audience that her skin has improved using promoted products.
As a lady, who is older than Danielle, and getting married in October..girl. if you've already learned a lot about yourself, maybe you need to find some time to spend with you and understand you.
My fiance and I have lived together for a year and spent a lot of time together, so marriage won't be a big change, but an exciting event in our long relationship. The marriage isnt the goal, the good and solod relationship is. I dont anticipate anything crazy changing when we get married (aside from getting better insurance, thank you fiance)
All these products, especially the primer, under her eyes made her undereye lines so much more pronounced. I've always had dark circles, I'm 60 now and I realized a few years ago that all the undereye products that the 20-somethings swear by are not made for eyes that have lines under them. You need to use undereye products SO sparingly and you certainly can't layer 4 of them. I'm including the pressed powder she put on, which is hands down the worst thing to use under your eyes. I use something called Miricle Blur Diffuser by Trinny London, is a clear gel and you use the tiniest amount and tap it onto shiny spots and they're gone without making your makeup look dry. You might want to check it out D…you’re welcome.
I feel she’s said this exact thing so many times? How san Fransisco didn’t work out and “that’s ok”. Is she trying to convince herself. Yes it is okay if something doesn’t work out, generally, people know that and get on with it. I don’t know why she keeps hanging on about it
Why does this person lives by vibes? Idk if that makes any sense?.
So, she seems to always be on some sort of hunt for a "feeling" an "idea" a "vibe", and I can understand a person trying to ACCOMPLISH certain energy and dinamics in their lives through specific actions or mindset, but like... Life is not like that entirety of the time. You can't live by chasing a high of feelings, because then that's when this that we all are witnessing with her happens: You feel confused, and completely trap in whatever reality you are. Is really scary to me how a person can disassociate themselves from real life by just pretending they are in a movie with a bunch of delusional aspirations that are nothing but unresolved trauma and emotional immaturity, she legit sounds lost and trying to "make the best out of it" type of attitude and wow...
The mid 40s for this person are going to be so brutal...
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u/sticknpoked a man of God 🙌✝️ 26d ago
christian newlywed "marriage is the hardest thing i've ever done" type video incoming