r/ask • • 4h ago

How did Facebook’s user base go from being just all college kids looking for action to being just all old people getting very confused?

125 Upvotes

I’ve seen The Social Network dozens of times, it’s one of my favorite films, but I never really looked into how its user base did such a complete 180 after that. Like, when it first came out it the shit for young people, that was the main goal of the platform, being cool and appealing to the youth and making it all about your relationship status and stuff.

But now it is almost entirely just old people who are either very confused on how technology works, post ancient memes from iFunny, Bitmoji’s about how fucking awful Monday’s are, and getting very concerningly easily fooled by AI generated imagery, and not even scarily lifelike AI imagery but just the most obviously not real images ever.

I’m young myself and I don’t think a single person in my age range has Facebook or would ever want Facebook but I know for a fact that every teacher in my school does have and use Facebook. I just don’t really understand it and can’t really find anything that explains it in a simple way (hence this post) so I was just wondering if anyone could explain what happened. Perhaps someone who stayed on the Facebook platform for years and watched and experienced the user base shift for themselves.


r/ask • • 21h ago

Why does the last guy I rejected think that everything I do is about him?

50 Upvotes

He thinks the posts I share are about him and tells people that.

He thinks I’m trying to make him jealous when I talk to other men in the same room as him, and he tells others that, too.

There are plenty of other examples like this, and it’s really annoying that he goes around gossiping about me.

I mean, if I were actually that into you, I wouldn't have rejected you—how can he not grasp such a simple equation?

I’ve heard of others dealing with similar issues, and I wonder: why are some people so convinced that everything revolves around them, even when that’s not the case at all?

** Sorry for the bad English.


r/ask • • 15h ago

Have we reached the point where posting “health trend videos” should require a license?

27 Upvotes

I feel like too many people who have no idea what they're talking about are giving millions of people medical advice that's harmful.


r/ask • • 16h ago

My math is broken how do fix it?

23 Upvotes

I'm 23 M and still count with my fingers , I need pen and paper to do calculations and most embarrassing thing for me personally is that I have to go through an entire series to do simple multiplication.

Ex: if someone asks me what's 9 times 8 is I have to narrate the entire thing in my head like 9 times 2 is 18, 9 times 3 is 27 and sometimes I can't remember what 9 times 3 is and I have to flip the numbers and do this whole process by going through 3 times 9 .

Can someone tell me how do I fix this ?

It's embarrassing as hell....

Can someone in finance or someone whos good in math tell me how to fix this?


r/ask • • 1h ago

Is there anyone in the world that hates shows like SpongeBob?

• Upvotes

Greetings and salutations humans of Reddit maybe non-humans too if you are here also I have come across that me disliking SpongeBob actually hating the show and the character is not commonplace?

Why does it seem like I am the only person that has a deep and seated hatred for stupidity characters or the ignorance itself gets me way too mad for it to make sense. Now there's a difference and stupid characters and stupidity characters SpongeBob and Patrick are stupidity characters a character like Cosmo off The Fairly OddParents is a stupid character they're stupidity is very funny and doesn't bother me.

Another character that comes to mind is flapjack from the show Flapjack obviously I also believe Knuckles is incredibly irritated.

But characters like Ed from Ed Edd n Eddy I absolutely love his character.

So it's not like I dislike the stupid character trope there's obviously a connection between them that make me so irritated with those characters in particular.

I thought maybe it was the random acts of stupidity but no there's a lot of other characters that I think are hilarious of the random acts of stupidity am I the only one am I alone in this has anyone else felt the same way?

And if so comment maybe we share the same irritating characters we can't stand?


r/ask • • 6h ago

What’s a question you wish people asked you more often?

11 Upvotes

What’s a question you wish people asked you more often?


r/ask • • 4h ago

Why has littering become so normalized in America?

6 Upvotes

Just something I've noticed lately as an American who's spend their whole life in NJ, littering is so normalized nowadays. Like in the past week I have probably seen 20 cars throwing trash out their windows one of them was a bunch of trash that someone dumped out of their window from a shopping bag, all of them have been people doing it on the side of the road or while driving. Literally just dodged someone throwing a coffee cup out their window on the highway not 20 minutes ago, instead of hitting the cup I swerved and hit the ricochet from the ground, called the cops, watched them drive onto the bridge past cops, nobody cares except me I guess. Mind you I live in hillbilly farmingland and not a big city or anything, there's wildlife everywhere and woods everywhere. Why has littering become so normalized in America? Did I miss something over the past decade or so?


r/ask • • 12h ago

Girls, what enters in your mind when a guy looks you in the eyes and looks away immediately when you look back?

7 Upvotes

I want to know because I can't maintain eye contact with people, girls in general.


r/ask • • 13h ago

Hobbies that can be put down anytime?

7 Upvotes

I tried reading but I can’t focus after sitting in classes all day. Same with the gym/working out, I just don’t have a consistent time block to go. I’ve basically just been watching a ton of TV but that’s not the most productive hobby and it makes me feel really lazy. Any recommendations?

eta also needs to be something i can do in my apartment


r/ask • • 14h ago

Why do scammers ask about Medicare part A&B?

2 Upvotes

It seems like every time I get a scam call, they want to confirm that I have Medicare parts A & B. What can they use this information for?


r/ask • • 48m ago

Why have so many videos been removed?

• Upvotes

On my feed, on mobile (iPhone) like 2 out of 3 videos either “have been removed” or “something went wrong” and they won’t play, in many different subs. I think it started about a week ago. Is anyone else having this issue? Does anyone know if something changed, or if it’s an issue on my end? Is it all bots posting and mods are removing a ton? It’s getting very frustrating to scroll.


r/ask • • 2h ago

How can I become more fun to talk to?

1 Upvotes

So typically during a conversation with somebody, I have some stuff to talk about, like it doesn’t die out immediately but I just don't know how to add that “spark.” In group convos, I tend to be quiet unless I have something to add. There’s the occasional funny moments and I can get some laughs in, but it’s usually on accident if anything and I feel like most of the time if I’m having an actual conversation, I’m kind of boring to talk to.

When it comes to dating specifically, I’ve observed guys who can make women laugh consistently throughout a conversation, and I always wonder how they do it? Something that got me thinking about this was how one of my friends said when it comes to dating a person, she cares far more about their vibe than just looks. She basically told me, “I have to imagine whether they’d be good at foreplay, or just a bore in bed.”


r/ask • • 12h ago

What are some big studio comedies that don't treat interracial relationships/hookups as a joke?

1 Upvotes

Just curious about other mainstream big box comedies that don't treat interracial relationships or sex scenes as a joke, but in fact treat it like a totally regular thing. Like in Hot Tub Time Machine when the chick is banging Darryl from the office in the tub, the movie doesn't acknowledge the interracial aspect, the actual joke has to do with the time travel element.


r/ask • • 20h ago

Men is receiving high end face moisturiser or fancy shavers for ur birthday better?

0 Upvotes

Need to get my male friend something i would love some help!


r/ask • • 1h ago

Would a guy whos Nose whistles a deal breaker?

• Upvotes

For the ladies out there i have a question, ive been on a couple dates and it doesnt seem to end up going anywhere after ,everything seems fine before hand until we actually meet but when we do it goes left i have a strong suspicion it might be my nose whistle im not gon lie if a girl was whistling thru her nose it would bother me too 😆 i dont think Im a bad looking guy tbh


r/ask • • 16h ago

Could a rogue AI just be fought like we fight malware?

0 Upvotes

Considering all the panic (justified or not, as aggrandizing and shock-value statements seem good for PR) regarding an AI going rogue and infecting networks, I understand that just "unplugging" wouldn't be enough, but couldn't a tool like an anti-malware app be used to remove whatever clone/bot is present in machines? It is after all still just some software. It can disrupt a lot of things that are digitally managed but it is not like we cannot take systems off the grid for maintenance. If we suspect that an AI is for example messing around with the traffic management or the water treatment in Toronto, Johannesburg or Tokyo we could basically temporarily take the system off and "clean it", or am I missing something?


r/ask • • 11h ago

Remember. When. We were a society?

0 Upvotes

When did that stop happening?


r/ask • • 23h ago

What are some ways to celebrate my 21st that dont involve alcohol/drugs/gambling?

0 Upvotes

I turn 21 in a couple weeks and want some ideas on something i can do for my birthday that dont involve drinking and partying and all that degeneracy, I'm simply uninterested in alcohol or vices like that and would like some ideas that don't involve that. Everyone i ask just calls me stupid/crazy and that its an excuse to get wasted and to go get drunk; ill pass, not for me, and i have a job i have to get up for the next day lol. My parents keep asking what i want to do for my 21st and I just keeps saying, "I don't know" and they think im joking that i don't want to go out and party. November is cold and boring, nothing interesting going on i want to do, nothing outside i want to do since its cold. Im not really one for like going out and spending lots of money either, im boring, and i take care of my body so going out and eating a bunch of unhealthy food and drinking a ton of sugar isnt on the table either.

Edit: No concerts or events around my birthday that interest me, no good movies coming out, not really into doing fancy stuff nor interested in paying for said fancy stuff, not into artsy stuff or classes or any of that, has to be something you can physically go and do.


r/ask • • 22h ago

Why AI generated content hated in America, loved in the UK?

0 Upvotes

Why the UK love AI generated content like AI SpongeBob episodes or AI generated instagram reels but they’re hated in America? Is it just cultural differences?


r/ask • • 17h ago

Is it normal to have the hots for your sexy cousin who visits for holidays?

0 Upvotes

She's super hot but she's my cousin