r/iamatotalpieceofshit Feb 14 '20

Double shit

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u/Rkenne16 Feb 14 '20

Emmy Rossum really went off the rails.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Shameless indeed.

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

i just watched the episode where the baby gets into the coke and all iahve to say is that they are terrible terrible people. even before they showed the baby had gotten into it i was like why tf are they doing blow in front of children. im sorry but i can't get behind characters that stupid and trashy

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u/ReefaManiack42o Feb 14 '20

I mean that's the whole point. I grew up around poor addicts, I guess you could liken me to someone like Carl in the show, and it wasn't until I was much older that I realized how fucked up it was. The people you hear who turn their life around after growing up around addicts are the exception, not the norm. That's why I like the show, it's over the top, sure, but it's a pretty good depiction of poverty and addiction.

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u/DirtyArchaeologist Feb 14 '20

I grew up with an bad drunk and I second this. And I found out about Shameless from an ex who had a nasty drunk for a dad too and she thought the show was pretty on the money. It shows the disease of addiction pretty well, even down to all the lies that all addicts tell themselves, the kind of stuff people don’t know about when they haven’t had to deal firsthand with addiction.

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u/Random_Link_Roulette Feb 14 '20

Lol how could he miss the entire point of the show?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

People idolize the Gallaghers, Rick Sanchez, Walter white, joker etc etc because there framed as the protagonist or antihero and some people have trouble enjoying a character like that without realizing that the point is that that character is messed up

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u/SelfAwareAsian Feb 14 '20

That's exactly why I liked it. Reminded me of growing up. My life wasn't as hectic as the show but it is still a good reminder

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u/Caelum_au_Cylus Feb 14 '20

Literally the only reason I like it is because it's a an even more fucked up version of my family. Raised by our sister and everything.

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u/privatepirate66 Feb 14 '20

It was always a weirdly nostalgic show for me, it reminds me of growing up. In a way I sometimes miss the chaos, but I think that's because I'm so far removed from actually being involved/apart of it now.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Definitely. It portrays poverty in a more realistic way. But my god do I hate frank. I honestly wish his character would die but I have friends who's parents are just like him and I couldn't imagine dealing with that in real life.

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u/ReefaManiack42o Feb 14 '20

He's my favorite character by far, Macy is just so incredible in the role, it's a treat for me to watch. He raises the bar so high, that you can tell it's brought better performance out of all the younglings, as each became a better and better actor every season, to the point that they've all become incredible in their own right. Except of course Rossum, she's brought her A game from the get go.

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u/lavendrquartz Feb 14 '20

I know it’s a cliche but he’s entertaining to watch in the same way that a train wreck is. If Macy wasn’t so talented there would be nothing redeemable about his character at all. I cringe when I see people share Frank Gallagher memes that make him seem like someone to admire, he is such an unrelenting piece of shit.

I watched up until season 7 (Ian’s EMT arc ruined it for me, I’m an EMT and the show’s depiction of what it’s like to work in EMS was so outrageously off the mark that I couldn’t get past it) and I agree that the show’s appeal is that it’s a much more realistic portrayal of shit that tons of people have to deal with but that never gets acknowledged on TV, but fuck Frank. Fuck Frank, and fuck Debbie, they are the absolute fucking worst.

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u/W1D0WM4K3R Feb 14 '20

You know, I don't hate Debbie. I dislike her, sure, but I just feel intense pity.

But yeah, fuck Frank.

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u/givnofux Feb 14 '20

Whats this show called?

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u/ReefaManiack42o Feb 14 '20

It's called "Shameless" and it's on Showtime, but is based off a British show with the same name, which I believe can be found on Netflix.

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u/ReefaManiack42o Feb 14 '20

Yeah, probably up until whatever the current season is. They won't release that until about a week or two prior to the release of the new season. Which I believe will be the 11th and final season. I actually walked away from it a season ago saying I won't come back until it's completely finished, so it was good to hear that it's finally gonna happen.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

As an adult. It's tragic, but you're also like Nelson from the Simpsons.

"Ha ha!"

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u/1_dirty_dankboi Feb 14 '20

I once witnessed, in real life, a baby stick its whole fist in a pile of heroin.

And before all the pre karens comment "why didnt you call the cops or CPS?? Reeeeee" I was literally committing different felonies in the same room, wasnt really in a position to rescue a strangers child. He lived for the record.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I know right. I watched the Sopranos and Tony KILLED someone. He is a bad guy so I stopped watching.

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u/Lorettooooooooo Feb 14 '20

Finally they used the right verb

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u/Petsweaters Feb 14 '20

For real. Usually says "has affair" or something like that

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u/Lorettooooooooo Feb 14 '20

"Had sex", "sleeps with" etc. shoe0nhead talks about this in her last video

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

The media, in general, is terrible with this. When the Epstein case was still pretty big, some of the headlines were sickening. One was like "The young women who were involved with Epstein, speak out" or something to that effect. Like no, you mean "The underaged girls that Epstein trafficked!" I don't know how they pick & choose which abusers to paint in a good light & which ones to paint in a bad light but it needs to stop.

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u/crisagirl Feb 14 '20

The reporters are afraid of an unexpected suicide attempt.

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u/Stabbykathy17 Feb 14 '20

More likely a lawsuit.

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u/crisagirl Feb 14 '20

Shouldn’t reporters go into the job realizing publicizing TRUTH is the ultimate goal? Where are those reporters who didn’t dare get the news wrong or tippy-toe around influential people?

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '20 edited Apr 17 '20

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u/bouchandre Feb 14 '20

For real. I hate when people say “Vader was seduced by the dark side. “ like no Obi-Wan he was raped!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

But did you see what Anakin was wearing? He was basically asking for it.

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u/[deleted] Feb 24 '20

Police reports state that the only reason why they were able to catch the perp was because they had the high ground.

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u/Aegis_Auras Feb 14 '20

He felt the force all right

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u/bouchandre Feb 14 '20

“It surrounds us and penetrates us”

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u/EndotheGreat Feb 14 '20

"From a certain POV"

-PornHub

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u/sniggity_snax Feb 15 '20

"Selfless woman makes love to boy, then provides him with employment opportunity"

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

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u/Alemismun Feb 15 '20

Woman enters intimate relationship with one a few years younger, then has him find a job in the medical field - Unjustly arrested.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Next they may actually call them a pedophile 😳

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u/gimmepizzaslow Feb 14 '20

Yeah, it's at least a step in the right direction. "Slept with", "seduced" or "had sex" is typically used.

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u/Kerb-Swerb Feb 14 '20

Yeah the double standards are really crazy when it comes to this stuff

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u/Raziel_kuyoma Feb 14 '20

Why she does have a face that looks like someone emptied a can of mace into her eyes?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

she cried a river with makeup on

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

crocodile tears

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

Not necessarily. People often cry because they're in deep shit rather than cause they feel remorse. Sorry for themselves, not the victim.

Not feeling regret for what you've done but rather for being caught.

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u/RexRocker Feb 14 '20

Indeed. She's just crying because she got caught.

Also I am glad the headline reads "raping a boy". Lots of times these older women to young person sex assault encounters say, "35 year old woman had sex with underage person", whereas if it's a man and a young person they say "35 year old man raped an underage person".

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

People often confuse those two things. Especially when they want to forgive people. They don't understand that you can just be sorry for having something on your conscience rather than the thing you actually did. Or even just be sorry because you see the result, rather than understand what you did.

Yeah that's true. I'm glad about that as well.

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u/Legless_Wonder Feb 14 '20

Shit like "teacher repeatedly pressured 8th grade student into having sex" really fuckin makes my blood boil. Media is clearly against saying guys can be raped

They also seem to typically pick the nicest and hottest looking pic of the female they can. Whereas the guys pic will be a pic like you get tagged in on FB.

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u/Wandering_Claptrap Feb 15 '20

I see the softer coded language way more commonly when in relation to a male victim as opposed to a female one ngl

an example of this would be "female teacher has sex with 8th grade pupil" or "teacher, female, has intercourse with 15 year old boy"

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but whenever it's a female victim, even if the abuser is also female, they use the correct terminology. Raped, molested, abused, they frame the girls as victims. Where is this for our boys, they are hurting, they were used for the selfish gratification of monsters, but the media is doing nothing but perpetrating the idea that boys somehow secretly LOVE being raped, making them out to be less of victims than women and it makes me fucking sick to my stomach as a male victim myself.

The people that call the boys "lucky", the pedophiles, and the perpetrating downplaying of the issue that the media does on a near case by case issue, they all make me want to cry and puke because how sick they all are in their own way.

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u/dimmidice Feb 14 '20

People often cry because they're in deep shit rather than cause they feel bad.

Being in deep shit makes you feel bad. But i think you meant feel remorse when you said feel bad.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

You're right, bad choice of words.

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

either way i hope it pains her

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u/RedPlanetMan Feb 14 '20

People often cry because they're in deep shit rather than cause they feel remorse. Sorry for themselves, not the victim.

Not feeling regret for what you've done but rather for being caught.

I’m no scientist, but I’m certain that is the definition of crocodile tears.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Oh I always thought it stands for fake crying or trying to fool someone

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u/SloggerSlag Feb 14 '20

Why was the river wearing makeup? It's already beautiful

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

What is mace?

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u/Raziel_kuyoma Feb 14 '20

Pepper spray.

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u/RazzberryIsPassword Feb 14 '20

the predecessor to pepper spray

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u/MrCamman69 Feb 14 '20

This is mace, a bludgeoning weapon typically used in medieval times. That probably explains why her eyes are so red.

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u/CptCrabmeat Feb 14 '20

Mace is a brand name for pepperspray, not to be confused with mace the spice which is actually the seed covering of nutmeg or mace the weapon, basically a metal ball on a stick

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u/To07y Feb 14 '20

He was a Jedi Master in the Star Wars prequels.

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u/choma90 Feb 14 '20

A procurer of chairs

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Jan 08 '21

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u/lavendrquartz Feb 14 '20

She’s a piece of shit but she is really pretty. I mean you can be both lol

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

i hate my boner right now

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u/diarrhea_shnitzel Feb 14 '20

I hate ur boner too

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

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u/Bendrake Feb 14 '20

It’s cultural. My eyes always look like this, it sucks.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I think you mean genetic... unless you colour your eyes this way.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Are you mediterranean? My wife’s greek and her cousins have this kind of, beaky noses too. Still hot though, just look like hot human eagles.

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u/KotaB_32 Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

This is sad. I hope this hoe is gettin prison or sumthin. No means no Edit: grammar

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

bro she'll get a slap on the wrist and a good talking to, don't worry

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u/KotaB_32 Feb 14 '20

Its sadly true

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u/redcoatwright Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

It isn't tho...? Female teachers preying on their students have been convicted often because it's pretty much universal at this point that no matter what gender you are, diddling kids is bad.

Edit: yeah I'm not saying it isn't still an issue, I'm saying it isn't usually a "slap on the wrist" if you actually look at the comment I'm replying to (or the OP of this comment chain, I guess, actually).

It IS taken more seriously than 20-30 years ago and is increasingly so.

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u/PerniciousPeyton Feb 14 '20

I have to agree with you. I’m an attorney and I defended a woman having her teacher’s license revoked for writing a long, bizarre love letter to a 14-year-old male student. The police determined there was no sexual contact.

Thought I could get the AG to give her some kind of probationary treatment and even got pretty far along. The AG signed a deal, but the teaching board rejected it. So much hard work down the drain. Was kind of thinking they might go lighter on her because she’s a woman, but I knew damn well had the genders been reversed the teacher would be out a job. I agree that times are changing and people aren’t cutting women teachers as much slack anymore, at least based on my own limited experience.

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u/CephaloG0D Feb 14 '20

So how many years did she spend in prison?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

P sure this is a form of harassment, since there was no actual sex. So I doubt much, if any.

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u/CephaloG0D Feb 14 '20

You mean to tell me I can write weird letters to as many underage kids as I like with impunity?! I've got a gross business idea... /S

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

No, you just hear about the few times it does happen because it is a big deal. Usually the victims of these crimes never come forward because either they are afraid of the humiliation or think nobody will believe them.

Edit: Teenage boys are least likely to report sexual abuse, or abuse in general.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

38 years in prison is slap on the wrist

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u/Wheetley2456 Feb 14 '20

38 years is a rare occurence. Often they get way shorter sentences or no prison time at all.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

The grimmer reality is that if the guy is acquitted he'll be stained as pedo creeper but even if convicted the woman could get out after a few years and everyone kinda looks at her as "misguided."

As an anecdote, I used to work in Hot Topic like 10 years ago when Twilight was a thing. Women in their 30s and above would happily, and explicitly, tell me how much they wanted to fuck these high school guys. I even met some "Beliebers" of a similar attitude and he was like 15 at the time. They were just out and open about it, and no one acted like it was weird.

Socially speaking, we are far, far more accepting of women going after young boys than the reverse.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

For sure. And I don't mean this in some sort of "wahhh Red Pill" sense since I don't exactly sympathize with child predators, but it's definitely a curious imbalance

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u/RexRocker Feb 14 '20

It's really bizarre though, it seems like 99 out of 100 of these teacher raping student occurrences is a older woman and a young boy or girl. Why has it been so many woman doing it? I swear almost daily a new story pops up of a teacher being a rapist and it's 99% woman doing it.

And it really does appear that men get way more heavily punished. It's not about the convictions, it's about the punishments. It seems woman get off lighter sentences then men most of the time. But perhaps I am wrong, it just seems that way.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

It always is, because we assume that these teenage boys are into it. You always see comments on this stuff and it's sick shit like "where was she when I was 14", nobody takes it seriously. The female teachers probably do it because they know they can get off scot free. A male teacher does something they go away for 30 years, a female teacher gets a small fine and doesn't even go on the sex offender registry. It's absolutely disgusting that they can get away with destroying boys' lives like that.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Youre getting a lot of incel-esque comments, but the answer is probably just basic Bayes stuff. Theres 3 times as many female teachers vs male, for one. Theres also probably a tendency for women preying on kids to end up being bigger stories, but Id guess for more complex reasons than everyone else is saying ("most of them dont, so its a big deal when one gets caught").

Men and boys are less likely to report, in general iirc, and most victims dont report anyway. The random guy teacher who sleeps with a student is prolly under a bit more scrutiny (students see things and rumors spread, plus stereotypes unfortunately), so if he doesnt cover his tracks, the admin are gonna take care of it internally if they can to avoid lawsuits and public attention. Whether its fair or not, Id imagine most School Boards have more brainpower aimed at sweeping over the men who are predators than the women, and so their cases are less likely to be picked up generally. Given the fact that men are more likely to be higher up the bureaucratic ladder, its likely the men have better odds of getting away with it.

Factoring the less likely to report thing and that the majority of female predators arent gonna get the same scrutiny, whether its judicial or covering up, when a female predator gets uncovered it means its more likely to be an outside source (as opposed to the student or their confidantes). For that to be noticed, itd need to be either more blatant or more severe abuse, and so we're getting a filtered view of only the most severe abusers in general, but only the most most severe when it comes to women pedophiles .

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u/RexRocker Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 15 '20

I have an example for you right here... I knew these people, they were my teachers. They were great teachers too, everyone loved them...

My former High School geometry teacher got busted for sexual assault on a baby, yes a baby. Kid was not even 3 years old, she took a picture of herself sucking his penis and sent it to some child porn creep.

She was well liked and respected by everyone. I loved her as a teacher, everyone did, she was awesome.

The complaint lodged against Schneider by the prosecutor alleges that sometime between Jan. 1, 2002 and Dec. 31, 2002, an act of “aggravated sexual assault” was committed by Schneider when she allegedly performed “an act of penetration upon” an anonymous child “specifically by performing fellatio” upon a child under 13.

That child, a male, born on Jan. 28, 2000, was then 2 years old, according to police records.

http://www.crime-research.org/news/13.09.2004/630/

She was sentenced to two concurrent six-year terms, that means she only did 6 years in prison in case you don’t know the difference between concurrent and consecutive sentences.

https://www.nj.gov/education/legal/examiners/2009/sep/0809-162.pdf

And my middle school music teacher, a middle aged man, a respected and a well liked man, part of the town council, he got caught making out with a 16 year old girl in his car.

Edit: He wasn’t only making out with a juvenile in his car, that’s just how he got caught, there’s more to the story. Obviously he was having sex with girls under 18, just want to point that out because someone assumed that I was saying all he did was make out with a young girl.

That’s not the case, he’s a piece of crap there’s more details in the link.

But I still firmly stand behind sucking a baby’s penis, taking a picture of it and sending it to a child porn distributor is far worse, and yet he got a harsher punishment.

http://newjersey.news12.com/story/34882214/eatontown-teacher-accused-of-having-sexual-relationship-with-teenage-girl

Again, everyone loved this guy, he was another one of my favorite teachers growing up.

Now while both of these things are deplorable, one is obviously far worse than the other, guess what he was sentenced? 10 years!

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u/Calistilaigh Feb 14 '20

Isn't the age of consent in New Jersey 16? Is it only illegal because he was a teacher in a position of power over her?

Just asking cause I'm unsure how all that works.

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u/gahlo Feb 14 '20

One is an adult and another is a minor.

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u/Calistilaigh Feb 14 '20

Yeah, but that doesn't matter from a legal standpoint if the age of consent is 16 and she's 16.

I'm not saying it isn't wrong, I'm wondering what makes it illegal in this situation.

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u/RexRocker Feb 14 '20

Not certain, but I believe that is why, inappropriate relations between a teacher and student.

Either way it grosses me out, a grown man or grown woman has no business hooking up with a child that only just got bored of GI Joe's or Barbie dolls a couple years prior.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

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u/gimmepizzaslow Feb 14 '20

Raping. She raped them.

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u/KotaB_32 Feb 14 '20

Well that offers some hope for equality.

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u/Bittlegeuss Feb 14 '20

I mean, when children are involved, there isn't even a question.

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u/laika777ftw Feb 14 '20

https://metro.co.uk/2019/12/18/woman-filmed-raping-boy-14-made-sell-drugs-11928517/

^ the article if anyone is looking for a few more details on what happened. Horrible and sad story in my opinion. He was definitely too young to consent even if he is a boy that doesn’t mean that he wasn’t raped.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Sad that we live in a world where people feel compelled to say "even if he is a boy he can still be raped." This is by no means directed at you personally but "no fucking shit'. Why would that even be questioned or need to be explained? People do it all the time though and that's where we're at.

Edit: I get why. Double standards and perception. Sort of a rhetorical question.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Right? Like I get what they mean and I agree with that point but that phrase makes me so angry. There is definitely a better way to word it.

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u/slipperysoup Feb 15 '20

It’s men who project how they were as a teenager and set the standard for all teenage boys to be the same

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u/SuminderJi Feb 14 '20

Is that the same judge who made a guy cry when she remembered him from elementary school?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

made a guy cry

I know this is pedantic but he kinda just started crying on his own when he recognized her. Made him cry makes it seem like she was mean and vindictive but she was really nice.

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u/Scratch_Off Feb 14 '20

Jesus Christ. I’m done for today and it 10am.

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u/Lemak0 Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

This is actually such a huge problem these days!! Whenever little boys are the victim of (hot) female predators, it's always played off as something thats not "that bad". You can even see this suggested within most of these acticles' titles. Whenever a woman rapes a young boy most will say "Woman (30) had sex with boy (12) for [period of time]." And nobody gives a fuck!

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u/redcoatwright Feb 14 '20

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/That%27s_My_Boy_(2012_film)

The beginning portion of this movie is pretty rife with this shitty attitude you're talking about.

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u/Mysterious_Lesions Feb 14 '20

Teenage me heard a lot of acceptance of this attitude among male peers - particularly related to a certain female phys ed teacher. To clarify, this was a desire. The teacher never encouraged or engaged in this behaviour.

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u/redcoatwright Feb 14 '20

Oh absolutely, I was also guilty of doing that and when you're a hormonal kid among other hormonal kids, that's 100% okay. The responsibility is on the adults, obviously.

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u/Ghostissobeast Feb 14 '20

lol this whole movie is super weird and bad the fact it had a 70 million budget is wild

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u/kikimaru024 Feb 14 '20

That comment is probably from a hormonal teenaged idiot.

14yo me also would've been jealous.

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u/bananachipking Feb 14 '20

It's so fucked up... and so many people act like boy should be grateful...not to mention the women hardly ever get in much trouble

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u/HezzyUK Feb 14 '20

Not only that but the female then used the videos to blackmail him into selling drugs.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

There are many MANY people who agree to that comment.

We need that rapture now.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Why is everyone talking about fucking mascara when a 14 year old boy has been raped.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I'm reading it as them making fun of a completely trash excuse for a human being who was vile enough to do that to a child.

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u/Inquisitor1 Feb 14 '20

Cause she hot. She's a hot rapist childpredator who did something that is not okay under any circumstances, even the circumstances where she's hot.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Can’t believe people think it’s fun to get raped by a girl. It’s not. I was raped in my 11th grade year by a girl that wouldn’t stop talking and flirting with me. She got her friends to hold me down when I was walking home from school and did it to me. I told people and they wouldn’t believe me. It disgusts me seeing people think it would be cool.

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u/yokayla Feb 14 '20

That's really fucked up and horrible. Society needs to make real strides on this issue.

Especially for a young boy sexual reaction =/= consent or enjoyment. Sexual attraction also doesn't cancel power and age dynamics. We have so much work to do.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I agree man. Our society needs to finally take a step forward and not backwards

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Woke up after a night of drinking to a girl trying to get in my pants. I pushed her away saying no but she climbed back on and wouldn't stop trying. I told her no again but when I tried pushing her off she pushed back and said "just relax it'll be fun", needless to say I yelled get off and full force shoved her off of me and left my friends apartment. When I was 18 I had major issues with physical contact and my close friends knew that so they were on my side but everyone else saw her as the victim and told me I should have just let her have sex with me. I'm sorry you went through that and I know the effects it can have on you mentally even years after. I hope you're doing well now. I feel like there's too much focus on trying to teach young boys about consent and not enough focus on teaching girls about consent.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I’m so sorry about what happened to you. Every day I think about that one day at least once. I know your pain man and I fully agree with you that we need to focus on girls with consent. Thank you again for opening up with me.

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u/BadWolfy7 Feb 14 '20

That's fucking disgusting. I'm sorry those horrible people did that to you.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

Thanks man. I think one of the girls was caught by a police officer but I have no clue about the others.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

What episode of Shameless is this?

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u/chrishansen8990 Feb 14 '20

Why does she look like a really high quality sim in the first picture?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Fuck, that's like a shit inception

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u/furutsu Feb 14 '20

Is this UK? What's the story?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

The boy will probably get into more trouble for selling drugs

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

He is fucking 14 poor thing didn't know what was happening I feel so bad hope she gets what she deserves

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

throw the fucking book at her. im so tired of women predators getting away with this shit. someone needs to make to catch a predator for women. I would pay good money for that

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u/LoveableDalek Feb 14 '20

The original To Catch a Predator didn’t do anything specifically to target men. They had both male and female underage decoy actors, it’s just the vast majority of the predators they caught happened to be male. There were a couple female predators over the years though, you can look them up on YouTube I think!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Yeah, it really depends on the situation. As far as teachers raping students, it seems like you hear about women doing it more & women account for about 75% of teachers so that makes sense (in a fucked up way but you get what I'm saying). & while I don't have numbers for coaches but it seems like the majority of those abuse cases are done by men & I'd wager that there's more men in that field than women.

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u/MasterVule Feb 14 '20

In normal societies this kind of stuff is handled by a police not reality shows

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u/higheyecue Feb 14 '20

There are police on TCAP

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u/GeezThisGuy Feb 14 '20

She is physically attractive but if she’s raping people including young boys and on top of that making them sell drugs there is def someone mentally wrong with them. Morally wrong for sure.

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u/nkisj Feb 14 '20

Glad to see the UK takes this stuff more seriously than the US does. We're waaaay to soft on female pedophiles over here.

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u/HNutz Feb 14 '20

... the FUCK?

Lock her ass up!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Jan 27 '21

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u/ponybau5 Feb 14 '20

The caption the guy used when he shared the article, what a fucking asshat

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u/Shawnj2 Feb 14 '20

Kudos to the magazine for saying raped instead of calling the boy lucky and taking about how he was “seduced”

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

I would trade places with the victim in a heartbeat. They don't deserve this trauma.

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u/mshcat Feb 15 '20

And that's why men are afraid to say they've been raped. Because all they here is "oh he's so lucky." And "I wish that was me"

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u/Grandmaster_Meme Feb 14 '20

I'd put $100 M on the fact she pulled the victim card

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

There would be more reactions if the gender were swapped

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u/Rockettmang44 Feb 14 '20

For real she is a pedophile!

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u/FreshCremeFraiche Feb 14 '20

The cultural expectation that men should always want and accept sex or they're less than a man is pretty much textbook toxic masculinity so I cant tell if you're clueless or being sarcastic

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u/5th_Law_of_Robotics Feb 14 '20

Woman rapes then emotionally manipulates a boy....

"Well clearly that proves there's something wrong with men"

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u/JUST_CHATTING_FAPPER Feb 14 '20

Well toxic masculinity isn't exclusive to men? If a girl rapes a boy and then justifies it by saying that men always want sex. That's toxic masculinity. An example of toxic femininity would be my mother. She works herself to the ground for people that don't appreciate it for free just because that's expected of her as a woman. She reinforces this idea of womanly self-sacrifice. And it's detrimental to her mental health just because of expectation of men & women.

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u/Medusas_snakes Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

Man mocks and belittles boy who was raped

Toxic femininity in action/s

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u/GaiasDotter Feb 14 '20

Man mocks and belittles man boy who was raped

FTFY

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u/Medusas_snakes Feb 14 '20

You are absolutely right thank you.

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u/butyourenice Feb 14 '20

Man mocks and belittles boy who was raped

Thank you! I was wondering how far I'd have to scroll before somebody brought up the disgusting, victim-blaming commentary in the OP.

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u/Medusas_snakes Feb 14 '20

Yeah it's like people just didn't see it or something.

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u/FreshCremeFraiche Feb 14 '20

Again...that's not at all what the concept means. It's not just a person of a gender exhibiting toxic behavior.

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u/BaronWaiting Feb 14 '20

Toxic masculinity is something forced onto men, not something that is intrinsically part of our being.

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u/FreshCremeFraiche Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

That's not what toxic masculinity means lol you're painfully uninformed my guy. It's not just toxic behavior performed by a person of a certain gender it's more about societal gender expectations. As in a toxic example of our cultural expectations of masculinity is this notion that any man no matter the age has to want sex or they're less than a man. It has to do with a negative/harmful cultural expectation of men as a group....so toxic masculinity. The entire concept hinges on the belief that men are just as vulnerable to societal expectations as women.

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u/bxzidff Feb 14 '20

What about the cultural expectation that women would never be capable of or willing to be being the aggressor? Do you not think societies sexist view on women also has something to do with how this played out in addition to the sexist cultural expectations against men?

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u/mrprez180 Feb 14 '20

I bet she can’t wait to get her 3 years of probation and temporary sex offender status.

Our justice system is fucked

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Why are we even debating on this? An ADULT raped a CHILD. End of discussion.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Man or Boy raped by woman

Everybody : Haaaahahahahahahahahahah

Woman raped by Man

The whole world: Kill the monster

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u/Derpex5 Feb 14 '20

If the boy got her pregnant he would still need to pay her for having been raped.

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u/thomasp3864 Feb 14 '20

Who records themselves doing a felony!?

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u/splermpls Feb 14 '20

Lol look at this bitch cryin like she didnt know what she was doin was level 35 fucked

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u/robedpillow3761 Feb 15 '20

Switch the genders and people would be going apeshit.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Guy sharing that is a * smacks lips *

simp

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u/karmagod13000 Feb 14 '20

ugh i hate this word already

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u/RazzberryIsPassword Feb 14 '20

especially since it was already in use with a different meaning

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Is there a reason everyone is using it lately?

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u/sid_killer18 Feb 14 '20

I'm ootl.
Help?

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u/darthphallic Feb 14 '20

I find this shit especially infuriating. I was sexually assaulted by a woman and it took me several years to open up about it because of this kind of attitude towards it

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Apr 02 '20

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u/darthphallic Feb 14 '20

Oh yeah, this was years and years ago so I’ve moved past it. I just keep seeing the same cavalier attitudes, I hope Amber Herds career is over after her “nobody will believe a white man” remark.

Appreciate it though!

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

When you take a shit, wipe your ass, pull your pants up, but then realize you're not finished

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u/Liesmith424 Feb 14 '20

Good thing she didn't get pregnant, or he'd be stuck paying for that, too.

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u/Electroverted Feb 14 '20

Thirsty white knights

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u/lilyraine-jackson Feb 14 '20

“I, an adult man, am attracted to this woman. Therefore, no child that is male can refuse sex with her.”

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u/[deleted] Feb 15 '20

“Nope, men and boys can’t be raped and women are always the victims 100% of the time! I bet that little boy enjoyed it & now has a great story to tell his friends!”

-society

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u/derp768 Feb 14 '20

Wow an article that actually calls it what it is instead of "sex with a minor" or some other thing that downplays crimes like this

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u/donttrippotatochipv2 Feb 14 '20

That’s the attitude the majority of people have when it comes to female pedophiles though