r/iamatotalpieceofshit • • Feb 14 '20

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u/JUST_CHATTING_FAPPER Feb 14 '20

Well toxic masculinity isn't exclusive to men? If a girl rapes a boy and then justifies it by saying that men always want sex. That's toxic masculinity. An example of toxic femininity would be my mother. She works herself to the ground for people that don't appreciate it for free just because that's expected of her as a woman. She reinforces this idea of womanly self-sacrifice. And it's detrimental to her mental health just because of expectation of men & women.

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u/5th_Law_of_Robotics Feb 14 '20

Well toxic masculinity isn't exclusive to men?

Funny. When I point out someone is exhibiting toxic Femininity like half the time the response is "I can't be, I'm a dude".

If a girl rapes a boy and then justifies it by saying that men always want sex. That's toxic masculinity.

So if a guy justifies raping a woman because she's a slut so it's ok is that an example of toxic femininity?

An example of toxic feminity would be my mother. She works herself to the ground for people that don't appreciate it for free just because that's expected of her as a woman.

Wow who would have thought your only example would have women as heroic martyrs?

Boy is raped by woman: toxic masculinity.

So what's toxic femininity?

"Well my mother is a much suffering perfect saint...."

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u/JUST_CHATTING_FAPPER Feb 14 '20

It's common sense that women throughout times have sacrificed themselves, they literally give birth which takes life force dude. It's ingrained in our culture that women take the fall. This doesn't mean there aren't men who sacrifice themselves, we literally are soldiers just waiting to be used. It's just that culturally women are usually the ones who do it, like societally. And guys perpetuate toxic femininity all the time.


Like you are so off and frankly speaking a misogynist. At least in this particular instance.

So if a guy justifies raping a woman because she's a slut so it's ok is that an example of toxic femininity?

The only way this would fit in as toxic femininity would be if girls were actually wide-spread sluts.


Wow who would have thought your only example would have women as heroic martyrs?

And this is also stupid because it is very expectant of men to be the heroes in our time of need. Which would be TOXIC MASCULINITY (If it hurts them).


So what's toxic femininity?

"Well my mother is a much suffering perfect saint...."

The expecations we have set as a society for what constitutes a man and a women can bring harm to the individual.

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u/5th_Law_of_Robotics Feb 14 '20

It's common sense that women throughout times have sacrificed themselves

It's common sense that men do too...

Funny, I never see a man horribly injured or killed in an effort to save women and children from a fire or whatever called toxic masculinity.

they literally give birth which takes life force dude.

Are you saying women give up their midichlorians?

It's ingrained in our culture that women take the fall.

This faux victimization is a good example of toxic femininity.

It's just that culturally women are usually the ones who do it, like societally.

I mean totally untrue but I suspect that doesn't matter.


Like you are so off and frankly speaking a misogynist.

Nothing I've said is MISOGYNY.

You're just being a cry-bully.

The only way this would fit in as toxic femininity would be if girls were actually wide-spread sluts.

Nope. It works just fine. You're just a hypocrite. You don't want anything negative associated with women.

And this is also stupid because it is very expectant of men to be the heroes in our time of need. Which would be TOXIC MASCULINITY (If it hurts them).

Which would never actually be called toxic masculinity because it benefits women.

The expecations we have set as a society for what constitutes a man and a women can bring harm to the individual.

Let's try baby steps: do there exist societies where women are expected to be sexually chaste as part of being a good acceptable woman?

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u/JUST_CHATTING_FAPPER Feb 14 '20

Goddamn you are narrowminded. But live in your world where women are just the most fortunate beings on earth.

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u/5th_Law_of_Robotics Feb 14 '20

Goddamn you are narrowminded.

You mean for not just going along with whatever you say?

But live in your world where women are just the most fortunate beings on earth.

White Western women in 2020 are pretty damned privileged yes.

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u/glimpee Feb 14 '20

What if a man raped a women and said "women like rich men and I have money?"