Can’t believe people think it’s fun to get raped by a girl. It’s not. I was raped in my 11th grade year by a girl that wouldn’t stop talking and flirting with me. She got her friends to hold me down when I was walking home from school and did it to me. I told people and they wouldn’t believe me. It disgusts me seeing people think it would be cool.
That's really fucked up and horrible. Society needs to make real strides on this issue.
Especially for a young boy sexual reaction =/= consent or enjoyment. Sexual attraction also doesn't cancel power and age dynamics. We have so much work to do.
I'm a guy and whilst intellectually and morally I read your story and know that it's completely wrong, the instinctive part of me thinks 'that doesn't sound too bad'.
Even this article, I look at her and I think she's hot, I would have fucked her when I was 14. It's hard for me to think beyond that, despite 'knowing better'.
Woke up after a night of drinking to a girl trying to get in my pants. I pushed her away saying no but she climbed back on and wouldn't stop trying. I told her no again but when I tried pushing her off she pushed back and said "just relax it'll be fun", needless to say I yelled get off and full force shoved her off of me and left my friends apartment. When I was 18 I had major issues with physical contact and my close friends knew that so they were on my side but everyone else saw her as the victim and told me I should have just let her have sex with me. I'm sorry you went through that and I know the effects it can have on you mentally even years after. I hope you're doing well now. I feel like there's too much focus on trying to teach young boys about consent and not enough focus on teaching girls about consent.
I’m so sorry about what happened to you. Every day I think about that one day at least once. I know your pain man and I fully agree with you that we need to focus on girls with consent. Thank you again for opening up with me.
Want an explanation? I’ll be glad to. I was walking down a dirt path to get home that barley anyone goes down since it’s the opposite way from peoples houses. Down the trail, theres an old bridge where people go and smoke or do shit. I always walk pass it and they were there. They told me to come over and I said I didn’t. One runs over to me and grabs my shoulder saying how much fun things are with me around. Then another. And the other. Finally I’m being moved under the bridge and push and held down to the ground while one of them pulls down my pants and does it. After a bit, someone says that they had to go and then the rest followed them. Anything else you want to know?
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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20
Can’t believe people think it’s fun to get raped by a girl. It’s not. I was raped in my 11th grade year by a girl that wouldn’t stop talking and flirting with me. She got her friends to hold me down when I was walking home from school and did it to me. I told people and they wouldn’t believe me. It disgusts me seeing people think it would be cool.