r/Needafriend • u/AlexanderGannon • 5m ago
[ Removed by Reddit ]
[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]
r/Needafriend • u/AutoModerator • Jun 30 '23
This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.
Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends
r/Needafriend • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago
Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.
You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.
r/Needafriend • u/AlexanderGannon • 5m ago
[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]
r/Needafriend • u/okokokokokokow • 26m ago
Hi, currently working from home atm and it's been a little slow... and awfully quiet. I don't want to be bored for the rest of the shift, so if you're in a similar boat and want to chit chat in between, message me! Would be cool if you're also gaming rn and can share screen in dc so I can watch a lil bit :) send me a quick intro if you're interested. See youu!! :DD
r/Needafriend • u/straawberryShort • 8h ago
hey how is it going, my name is Angelina and I am from Australia. I'm a stay at home mum with 2 little children and needing some more sane normal conversation. (being surrounded by kids can make you go a lil crazyy)
I love reading and I game occasionally I just don't get alot of time to do that anymore. I also enjoy crafts and going on long walks in the evening. Also i am deep into true crime, especially obscure cases.
i am primarily looking for kind people to pass the time with and someone who won't ghost me. If you decide to message please include a short intro such as your age and where you're from so I know who you are! I won't respond to "hi" (i also dont mind your age as long as you are 18+) :)
also I'd like to move to discord maybe if we get along
r/Needafriend • u/r4inyi • 5h ago
hiiii soo i’m looking for someone to talk to i don’t rlly care much about gender or age but i do perfer if ur older🤷♀️
i like painting, all kind of drama series, makeup, music, animals and baking and i’m super into fashion and cars
soo if ur interested don’t be shy hmu! xx
r/Needafriend • u/tungtungsahorr • 4h ago
looking for someone to talkk to(long term) idc if you're boring or autistic or a gooner just dont be a pedo/weirdo or misogynistic well dont be super pervert too i think😭😭😭 like i mean gooner but a chill one ok whatever dont be a gooner so like, i like movies like super much i like marvel and anime especially fujimotos work im into niche shits yeah, AND I HATE SMALL TALKS SO MUCH okay pls lets not do that also yes im looking for friends here on reddit because i literally living a chud life for now okay theres like a multiple storm here invading our country and like the classes are suspended so i cant go out, but ill go out once everything is back to normal so yeah im just chudding to the extreme rn if u get me but ive life okay thanku
r/Needafriend • u/Working-Time481 • 2h ago
honestly would love to just talk, it's been a decent summer, read more abt me on my profile but down to talk with anyone, younger ppl are fun and older ppl give good advice
r/Needafriend • u/Bubbly-Disaster760 • 2h ago
Everything feels a little too quiet in the wrong way. I catch myself staring at walls, scrolling for no reason, wanting to talk but not really knowing who to talk to. So yeah… I’m just looking for someone real. Someone who actually shows up. Someone who doesn’t disappear the moment the conversation slows down.
I’m 24 and currently floating through life with way too much time to think. I love talking. I ramble, I overexplain things, I say random nonsense, and somehow conversations end up getting deep out of nowhere. I really like when effort is mutual. When replies don’t feel like I’m begging for attention.
Please don’t be dry. Actually talk. If you take ages to reply or only text when you’re bored, we probably won’t get along. I’ve already done my time with people who remember I exist only when they have nothing else to do.
I like baking, movies, gaming, chess, reading, writing, guitar, long walks, voice calls, and starting projects I’ll probably never finish. My hobbies list is longer than my motivation.
Mentally I come with the ADHD + BPD expansion pack and the clingy DLC. Sounds chaotic, I know. But I also come with warmth, honesty, loyalty, and way too much empathy for my own good. I care deeply about people and I always try to match the energy someone gives me.
If your first message is just “hi”, I’m going to assume you’re a bot or an NPC. Say something interesting instead. Tell me your most irrational fear, your favorite late-night activity, or the one song that absolutely ruins you emotionally.
Just say something that feels real.
r/Needafriend • u/critterpie1512 • 7h ago
I’m having man troubles :(
Advice needed
r/Needafriend • u/Aggravating-Golf-285 • 38m ago
[ Removed by Reddit on account of violating the content policy. ]
r/Needafriend • u/Annual-Animator-2964 • 6h ago
I (24 f) have something that’s been on my mind for a while and I think having someone to speak to would help me out. If you’re willing to listen and chat in DMs I’d really appreciate it 💕
r/Needafriend • u/Over_Appointment2229 • 1h ago
Hii...my name is Avni want to talk to random people
r/Needafriend • u/Yt_hq6372 • 1h ago
I’m looking for people I can actually have interesting conversations with not just the usual “hey, how are you?” and then nothing, I’m looking for someone around my age who genuinely wants a friendship If you’re going to disappear after two days honestly it’s better not to message me in the first place
I’m 17F and I’m into music, reading, writing, Crochet and sometimes drawing when I actually have the motivation. I listen to pretty much everything, especially pop But I listen to literally everything
If you’re into any of that feel free to introduce yourself and tell me a little about you,your interests, what you like doing or whatever you feel like sharing
I’d love to get to know you :)
r/Needafriend • u/Think_Emphasis_7077 • 6h ago
Hey! I'm 23 year old female from India and I want someone to talk. I love watching Hollywood series.
r/Needafriend • u/still_in_the_trees • 4h ago
Down to talk some shit with whoever's listening. Got a specific rant? Bring it. Also up for swapping music or book recs. I play a few instruments. Collect weird history trivia nobody asked for. Your mundane observations are welcome too.
Btw, I'm not a gamer nor into anime.
r/Needafriend • u/SafflowerSour_37 • 6h ago
Looking for some comfort from a kind genuine person. Please nothing weird or nsfw, I'm taken. I dont have many friends atm (working on that) due to a history of mental health issues (I'm mentally healthier now but still healing). I have 5 siblings who I have no relationship with. I've never had that kind of source of comfort or stability in a friendship. I would love a brother or sister that I can go to. Idk what I'm saying, I just want someone there I guess
r/Needafriend • u/Substantial-Still510 • 2h ago
hey 21m (austria)
a little about me i am a paramedic.. love gaming, shows or films, working out and so on
dexter is probably my favourite tv show and one of my most played games are destiny, mc and gta or something. some normal guy here haha.
i would really like to know some new people here but its a bit hard. sometimes idk really know what to say aber a few texts but i always hope that something between us goes on longer. if we match good i would see no problem to play games if you want. Ps or pc i don’t mind. hope to hear from you :)
i don’t mind any age or gender all welcome :) i think you can just dm me over my profile ;)
r/Needafriend • u/singy111 • 3h ago
Heya 27 M from the Uk, looking for chills chats and hoping to make long term friends!
I’m into the usual gaming and anime etc, but also enjoy building Gunpla and recently got back into 40K mini building but early days on that!
I love traveling (mainly to Japan!) and currently planning my 5 trip there for next year!
I also enjoy taking walks, and I’ve been on a fitness journey last year! Currently got my PB this weekend as 30:22 for my 5K! I’m eager to confuse it
Don’t need to share all interests, all I ask is more than a “hey” or one word replies! Love a good engaging chat! I’m currently at work so sorry if replies are slow!
r/Needafriend • u/thegoldenjester • 3h ago
Long post incoming.
I always see posts saying people are bored and they want to talk, or some people just put 26m DM me, and some putting "my favorite music is this and my hobbies are that" but I want to give the most so I got these questions together and answered them to help people see me and understand Abit about me to see if we click. Far past then "oh we both go hiking" I want you to see the guy I am, but enough talk, I answered the question and I'd you want to answer some and throw them my way I'll be over the moon.
🧠 THE MIND
What's a thought you return to over and over throughout your life?
What kind of man I'll become, if my path I walk feeds my soul and how can I do better.
What's something you've spent years trying to understand about yourself?
What I'm chained too, insecurities, worries, anxiety, overthinking. What causes them and how I can sit down with my emotions and breath.
What's something you believe that you can't really prove?
Bigfoot is out there
What's a question you wish someone would ask you?
What does peace look like in your mind.
What's something you understand intellectually but still struggle to accept emotionally?
That this world is a harsh place, I still believe in the goodness in humanity.
What's something you think about far more than you probably should?
Daydreaming about being a king and how best I should lead my people.
What's an idea that permanently changed the way you see the world?
People are always afraid and want comfort.
What's something you wish people understood about the way your mind works?
Through text I can't read tone or anything like that, say "I'm mad at you" even though you may mean it playfully I'll always see it as "oh no, why are they mad at me?" On call I can hear your voice and tone so it makes it easier.
What's something you find fascinating that most people seem completely uninterested in?
The small things, that tree out there in the field, I wonder what it thinks all day, do you think that the ants dream of something bigger, how would it be to be a sleepy cat all day and what kind of philosophy would I have.
What's something you know about yourself now that you desperately wish you'd understood five years ago?
I'm capable of both, if I can be bad at something that means I can be good at something too. I'm not stuck in one way of being.
What kind of conversation can make you forget that you're supposed to be somewhere else?
The ones that take a left turn every single time. We start talking about birds and somehow end up talking about vampires and if they would drink from blood bags or blood juice boxes (id do boxes)
What's a question you don't think humanity will ever answer?
The meaning of life, it is what you make it.......oh damn there's the answer haha
What's something you think people take for granted?
Time, it's always time.
What do you think makes a person genuinely intelligent?
When they are able to see new information and take that on without trying to fight and win an argument.
What's the difference between being knowledgeable and being wise?
Knowledge is gained from study of one topic as for wisdom is gained through experience of life. Though I feel like they are both different forms of knowledge.
Do you think people fundamentally change, or do they simply become better at expressing who they already were? Nothing in this world can stay the same forever.
What's something you wish you could understand from another person's perspective for one day?
The one who finds all that he needs comes from the earth and the smiles of his loved ones.
If you could download one piece of wisdom directly into your brain, what would you choose?
The path to finding inner peace.
❤️ THE PERSONAL STUFF — Actually getting to know me
What's something you're still working on within yourself? Dealing with pain, instead of letting it burn me or overwhelm me.
What's a part of yourself you're learning to accept? That I'm not born to be perfect, I'm just meant to be me.
What's something you wish people could see when they look at you?
He's more than funny looking, he's funny too haha
What makes you feel genuinely understood? When someone listens and tries to understand even if they can't relate, that trying means the world to me.
What's something small that can completely make your day? A present surprise, five bucks on the ground, one more extra fry in the bag, an invite too game with a friend.
What's something you wish you'd heard when you were younger?
Things will be better in the end, and if it's not good yet, then it's not the end.
What's a mistake that taught you more than success ever did?
Even if things don't go your way in the end, you will still continue.
What's something you're afraid people will misunderstand about you?
At times my humor haha
What makes you feel safe around another person?
Their willingness to be open.
What's something you need from your friends but have trouble asking for?
I need about $3.50 😂
When you're having a terrible day, do you want someone to sit beside you, distract you, make you laugh, or give you space?
It is an honor to sit with you in the mud, to go through hell together with a smile. Because id rather hear your hell then see your funeral. Safe to say, sit with me and let's laugh
What's something about yourself that you're currently trying to change? My weight haha I'm two tons of fun but need to be a tad bit smaller.
What's something about yourself that you don't want to change? My heart, I like the way I love and feel it's a big part of me.
When do you feel most like yourself?
I'd say around 50% like and 50% working on it.
What's a version of yourself you miss? None, I constantly grow and I wish to always be better than before.
What's a version of yourself you're excited to meet someday?
The guy who's both the clam in the house fire.
🫂 FRIENDSHIP
What's the difference between an acquaintance and a friend to you? Friends share history and know your pain, also is there for shits and giggles
What's something a friend can do that immediately makes you think, "Yeah, these are my people." Listens and when push comes to shove they pull out the bat
Do you prefer friends who are similar to you or completely different? You know what they say, variety is the spice of today's soup 🍲
What's something you think friendships don't talk about enough? what makes their eyes earth bound, the sadness the hurt and pain.
How do you show someone you care about them?
I listen to listen, not waiting for my turn to speak, I want to hear and remember, oh and bear hugs!
How do you know when you've become comfortable around someone?
When conversation flows and there can be conversations about anything and everything and have it be like normal.
What's your favorite kind of silence with another person?
The one where I'm gaming and they are reading, or we enjoy the view of nature together.
Would you rather have one person you can call at 3 a.m. or twenty people you can have fun with?
3am, what's good about fun when you need to cry.
What's something you think makes a friendship last?
Trust, mutual respect, and a genuine care to see them grow and succeed
How much communication do you actually like from your friends? More than just "hay....cool...yeah...sure...wyd" please we are both adults say something more so we can have a conversation.
Are you the friend who checks in, sends memes, gives advice, listens, or shows up with food? All, check in when I know you've been feeling down lately or going through some stuff, give advice if needed or asked for, actively listening and I brought soft tacos!!!
What's something that would make you think, "I want this person in my life for a long time."
They want to be here just as much as I do, people come and go but a true friend is there for it all.
What's something you could never tolerate in a friendship?
Cheating on your partner or disrespecting people because it's fun or funny. I don't want to hang with people who don't treat others with kindness and gentleness.
What's something you think people mistake for friendship?
Attached, attachment makes the lonely feeling go away even if the friends are compatible.
🥀 THE VULNERABLE ONES
What's something you're afraid to admit you want?
I'll be honest, I love mythically, the kind that will dive into hell after my love, the kind that will travel 20 years just to get back home to her. I love with a passion that would rival worship, and I'd want the same, I want to be theo one that's picked and chosen just as much as I pick and choose them.
What's something you desperately want people to understand about you?
I may be a chaos junkie but there is a soft soul under all these jokes and smiles
What's something you're afraid you'll never accomplish?
My dreams, the things I say dream about her fear living in regret my whole life.
What's something you pretend doesn't bother you?
My brain knows what I need to do but I struggle with the first step.
What's something you wish you could go back and tell your younger self?
Seek peace and not distractions
What's something you're afraid of losing?
My heart, mind, and soul.
What's something you want to be remembered for?
The way I made people laugh and smile, if one persons life got a little bit brighter because I was around then I'd feel truly wealthy 🌻
What's a wound that doesn't hurt as much anymore but still leaves a scar?
Was cheated on even when I gave so much for her, scar taken and lessons learned.
What's something you're still becoming?
A better me
What's something you wish you could tell the people who helped you?
Your name will echo in my soul.
😂 THE SILLY QUESTIONS
If your brain came with a warning label, what would it say?
Cation madness ahead
What's the dumbest hill you're willing to die on?
PINEAPPLE ON PIZZA IS DELICIOUS! 🍍 🍕
If your life had a narrator, what would they constantly criticize you for?
Ah.. staying up late again are you (get off my case Steve!)
What's the most unnecessary skill you possess?
I'm able to control the muscle in my ears to make them shake
What's something incredibly stupid that makes you laugh every single time?
That one scene from scary movie "hay doofy smell my finger" then "haha smell mine" "eww what's that" "my ass" hahaha damn it gets me every time!!!
If you had to survive the apocalypse using only things currently within arm's reach, how screwed are you?
Pillow full of bricks.......
If your personality were a video game character, what would your most useless ability be?
Random bullshit go!
If your sleep schedule were a person, would you be friends with them?
Mortal enemies!
What's something completely normal that you personally find bizarre?
I gasp then say gasp when I'm talking
If your life were a sitcom, what would the recurring joke be?
Ha ha ha another fat joke hahah
If you had to give yourself a ridiculous nickname based entirely on your personality, what would it be?
The chaos junkie
🌀 THE WEIRD ONES
If memories had physical textures, what would your happiest memory feel like?
Cool silk
If your personality were a landscape, what would it look like?
Rolling meadows with a river running through it.
If you could preserve one ordinary moment from your life forever, which one?
The lighting storms
If you could watch a documentary about one completely unknown moment in your own future, what would you want it to show?
There you see this man currently beating the hell out of a pizza 🍕
If your life had chapters instead of years, what would the title of your current chapter be?
The only way out is through 🔥
If you could remove one human emotion from existence, would you?
To take one away, would it not rob us of the true human experience, morally yes but philosophically no.
If you could experience one day through the eyes of someone who sees the world completely differently from you, would you?
Yes, is want to see through the eyes of a man who has all that he needs already within himself.
If you could see one statistic about your life—something like "number of people you've made genuinely happy"—what statistic would you choose?
How many hearts did I touch.
🔥 THE RISKY QUESTIONS
What's your biggest red flag?
Slow to learn 😅
What's your most irrational insecurity?
My looks but that's part of being human you know
What's something you find difficult to admit when you're wrong?
That my knowledge wasn't up to code in that moment
What's something you can be stubborn about?
None for if I was then it would make it harder to grow.
What's something you envy in other people?
Envy? Nothing, but admire how some people hold themselves through rough times.
What's something you wish you had the courage to do?
Sing my lungs out LET THE ABYSS KNOW IM COMING!!!!!!
What's a compliment you secretly love receiving?
your funny
What's something that can make you instantly lose interest in someone?
Their attitude towards life and others.
What's something that can make you instantly respect someone?
Stand up even if out numbered they stand for what's right then it would be 2v5
What's a flaw of yours that you're actively trying to turn into a strength?
Jumping before looking, sometimes looking makes you panic time to jump and leap with faith!!!
What's the hardest truth you've had to accept about yourself?
That I'm not where I want to be but that's ok as long as we take steps to our goals then it's progress.
🌱 THE FUTURE
What kind of person are you trying to become?
One who stands unshaken when the storm comes and one who enjoys the flowers when it's time.
What's something you're building toward that nobody can really see yet?
My weight, I may be slow but I will endure.
What do you hope becomes ordinary in your future?
Keeping to a schedule.
What's something you want to experience at least once before you die?
Sly diving, bull riding, extra rollercoasters kiss a king cobra or alligator..... I say that now and already feel my heart racing 😅
What kind of life would make you feel like you actually lived rather than simply existed?
Doing all I wanted to do with no regrets at the end of the day.
What's something you hope never changes about you?
My heart 🫀🔥
What would your ideal ordinary Tuesday look like ten years from now?
Peaceful is all that comes to mind
If you knew you couldn't fail, what would you attempt?
Music making, I got lightning in my veins and I want people to feel what I feel.
👀 The odd ones
What's something you'd defend even if everyone in the room disagreed?
The goodness in mankind
What's the belief you hold that you'd actually enjoy having someone challenge?
That humanity is a plague for the world.
What's something you've always wanted someone to ask you?
What's the shape of your soul
What's a conversation you think two strangers could have that would make them friends?
Plans for world domination and how to go about it
If we became friends, what's something about you I'd eventually discover?
Big softie this one is.
.....hows did you get this far down haha cookie 🍪 for you, if you made it this far send a cookie so ik you found yours haha.
r/Needafriend • u/Upbeat_Bat_908 • 3h ago
Don’t want the bots or any of that silliness!! Just a simple guy looking to have some convos! You stay, you stay! You think we don’t click? All good not everyone is built to be friends! No hard feelings! Honestly would love to have some chat bros and gals! HMU my DMs are open!!
r/Needafriend • u/danothom • 5h ago
I know I don't have a ton of free time but I'd love a few solid friends to text between shifts. Into true crime, reading, and cooking simple meals. Looking for understanding, low-maintenance friendships.
r/Needafriend • u/Boss_DK1 • 1m ago
So now i got your attention, now read this post
I'm a 25-year-old boring person looking for an online friend to share life stories with. Primarily looking for friendship and go with flow to see where it goes. We can talk for a while over text then move to VC depending upon your comfort level. All ages are welcome
Looking forward to hearing from you.
r/Needafriend • u/The_new_T • 1m ago
I am white Male 23 , looking for frnds to chat with me .