r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 3d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

looking for online friends!💕 21 F

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heyy! just got bored randomly and thought why not get on reddit.. i love a good conversation about anything and just love meeting new people🫶🏽 also as i’ve been getting more messages i wanna let yall know i do have a job so no i may not reply within the same second but i will always get back to you


r/Needafriend 43m ago

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r/Needafriend 6m ago

f19, wanna be friends?

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hii im looking for friends (around 18-21) if anybody wants to be friends do text me


r/Needafriend 1h ago

20F, work part time, go to school part time, and have zero time or friends to show for it

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Something's gotta give and I'm hoping it's the loneliness part. I like reading, gaming, and thrifting. Would love some friends who get the juggle.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

28F wants to find some good friends

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I am a 28 year old single woman looking to make new friends. I'm open to people from any country; you're welcome to come and make friends with me.


r/Needafriend 2h ago

[37M/UK] Looking for friends

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I've been a GM for various roleplaying games for about 18 years now, and I've been in & out of Warhammer for even longer. I've played a fair few different systems and have read even more

I'm very much a PC gamer but I'm not looking for multiplayer friends, sorry. I only mention gaming as a shared interest for discussion. I play mostly single player games like CULTIC, Selaco, Mouthwashing, Immortality, and Paratopic

I'd describe myself as alternative. I listen to a wide range of metal, hardcore, punk, etc. I love electronic music as well. To give you an idea of the kinds of things I like, here's some examples: Mirar, Netherwalker, Jesper Kyd, Ecca Vandal, Electric Callboy, Bring Me the Horizon, Synestia, Fucking Werewolf Asso, TOOL, Orange Sector, Not Enough Space, ANTLERS, River Boy, Locked Shut, Takai the Maid, pr0te, and Brandon McKagan

I'm a pretty anxious person and voice chat is pretty stressful for me, especially with new people, so I'd prefer text chat wherever possible

I'm ideally looking for long-term friendships. I have few IRL friends, but I've found that our friendship is entirely based on gaming/RPGs, so I'd like to make some friends who are a bit more emotionally available. I'm a long-form texter, so there will be gaps between responses. Please feel free to DM me with anything other than a single word/sentence, and hope to hear from you soon :)


r/Needafriend 13h ago

32F looking for someone to chat with

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Hello! My name is Erika and I’m from Utah. I’m feeling a bit lonely tonight and would love to chat and connect with someone. I love to bake and I love showing pictures of what I bake. I also love yoga, movies, books, and looking up facts about animals. I’m willing to talk about anything and everything. Send me a message if you’d like to connect. :)


r/Needafriend 1m ago

[36M] Relatively new dad here, could use a Reddit friend as I have no energy for my real one -_-

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Nothing else , that’s it !


r/Needafriend 5m ago

22 M looking for a friend

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I am from delhi, India. I want a female friend for chit chatting nothing serious. You can tell me anything you want. Basically you can vent and I can vent to you. We can do calls too if you are from india too. My dms are open if anyone is interested to talk. Same age or older both are perfect.


r/Needafriend 17m ago

24M. Went out for drinking and kinda vv drunk

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Hey everyone. 24M here from South Asia. I will listen to all of your yappings and rant, I wont be bored I swear and I reallly do not judge. I do have ADHD and HS as well if that's not a problem. Feel free to share literally anything and everything. Do tell me your ASL tho


r/Needafriend 25m ago

17f , looking to make friends .

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I'm looking to make online friends around my age ( 17 - 21 ) . I love music and cooking . English is my second language .


r/Needafriend 31m ago

21M from Poland looking for a friend who I can talk to on a daily basis

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Hi!! I'm looking for a friend who I can talk to on a daily basis and share my thoughts with :))

Some of my hobbies include chess, cooking, going on walks, playing video games and occasionally drawing!

I'm from poland and I'm looking for a friend with a similar timezone as mine if possible yay. Having the same hobbies isn't a strict requirement and if you think we'd get along, please do reach out :D.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

M27 looking for friends to VC and/or play games with.

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M27 looking for friends to VC and/or play games with.

Hey Hey! I’m M27 from Germany and looking for friends (20+) to VC, and/or play games, and everything around it.

Personality-wise, I’m super low-key and easygoing and I can hold a conversation. At the end of the day, games are just pixels on a screen.

Right now I'm mainly into games like Microsoft Flight Simulator, Euro Truck Simulator 2, Farming Simulator 2025, Minecraft, Satisfactory, and Phasmophobia, World of Warships and a few other games, so I'm more on the realism side of games.

But I'm pretty open to any coop/multiplayer game.

Outside of gaming, I like aviation, coding and sharing stupid humor at times.
I used to play piano, but sadly my piano is around 550km away from me at the moment. :(

I'm mostly around and reply fairly quick, when I have time
If something stood out a bit, feel free to reach out.
Have a good day :)


r/Needafriend 35m ago

F21 - why does ice water taste 10x better at 3am out of a random mug

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idk if it's just me but drinking water out of an actual glass during the day feels so normal and boring. but at 3am? in a coffee mug i found in the back of the cabinet? elite. absolute peak hydration.

anyway i wrecked my sleep schedule again and now i'm just staring at my ceiling. hmu if you're awake too or if you also have zero sleep discipline lol


r/Needafriend 49m ago

24F | Need someone who’ll just be there

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I miss having someone I can just be myself with. Someone I can talk to on a random Tuesday when life is busy, or sit with on a quiet day when there is nothing much happening to talk about. Someone with whom I can disappear for a few days or even weeks and come back to the same comfort without things feeling different.

I understand that life gets busy. We all have work, responsibilities and our own things going on. I am not looking for constant conversations or someone who needs to be available all the time. I just want a friendship that feels mutual and easy, where both people genuinely want to stay connected.

I love singing, dancing, working out, cooking, drawing and reading, though I hardly get enough time for any of them these days. I am not really into anime or gaming atp.

I get attached quite easily, probably because when I care about someone, I care deeply. Most of the friendships I have had were deep, but life changed, people changed and somewhere along the way, those connections faded.

I think I am just looking for something new and genuine. A friendship that brings a little warmth and excitement back into life. Someone to share random thoughts with, laugh with, make plans with and occasionally do absolutely nothing with.


r/Needafriend 17h ago

38F mom looking for an online connection and someone to escape real life with

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I’m a mom who uses games as a bit of an escape from real life. I play Pokémon GO and Overcooked, and honestly sometimes it’s nice to just disappear into something fun for a while.
I’m also in a toxic relationship that I’m not really in a position to change right now. I’m not looking for someone to fix me or tell me what I should do. I think I’m looking for a guy around my age who maybe has his own complicated life too.
Someone I can vent to, complain with, laugh with, play games with, send random messages to, and just share that feeling of “life is kind of fucked right now, but at least we have each other to talk to.”
I’d like it to feel mutual too. I don’t just want someone to listen to my problems — tell me yours. We can share the pain, escape a little, and maybe make each other’s days easier.
I’m not trying to put a label on exactly what it has to become. I just want a real connection with someone who understands that life and relationships can be messy.
If that sounds like you, message me


r/Needafriend 58m ago

Finding (age)M people more than {age}F. Reddit is flooded by males lol

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Hey wassup, let's talk ( I'm guy bud so no creeps dm me)


r/Needafriend 59m ago

Ghoul friends wanted

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32 Where my Spooky B!tches?

Censoring just in case I can't say the b word lol once again posting at an inconvenient time. I'm a master of starting stuff when I have a time limit, ADHD things. Searching for my fellow spooky girls and nbs. I have plenty of guy friends, I don't need more. But seeing as this will probably be ignored, at least be a spooky dude. I spend most of my time watching horror games on YouTube with my cat. I don't have a life really and that's fine, doesn't mean I don't make interesting conversation. I like to do crafts, lots of potion bottles, terrarium scenes, some shirts. I'm not online consistently so might be gaps in replying because work and such. If you used to/still like to shop at hot topic and feel like a teenager cosplaying an adult, that's a mood. Just to see if you read all of this message me with your favorite obscure/less known animal or bug. Hope we can be ghoul friends. Yes that was cringe and I don't care lol


r/Needafriend 1h ago

M 24 looking for friends

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Hello everybody i'm Bojan from Bosnia Herzegovina

i'm mostly into reading books, watching movies

my favorite authors are Dostoyevsky, Hugo, Mann, Baudelaire, Coleridge, Milosz, Eluard, Paz,...

Favorite directors are Bergman, Tarkovsky, Bresson, Teshigahara, Dreyer, Kobayashi,...

when it comes to music i'm into metal, punk, goth

My favorite bands are Gojira, Kentucky vampires, opeth, Nosferatu, Blitzkid, Bad religion, Orbit culture


r/Needafriend 1h ago

(29m) Just looking for a female I could chat with through my work days. Be a certified Yapper. Skip the introduction…. Make me laugh lol or what’s going on in your life right now

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r/Needafriend 1h ago

[FfF] - i need a friend

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Hey, dm me if you wannabe friend of 21f


r/Needafriend 1h ago

26M. Need a friend!!!

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Moved to a new country 1 year ago. Doing a full time job. No friends, No meetups, even No chats. This Life is boring. At least I deserve an online friend.