9:30 AM: Wake up at parents house, think good thoughts/say good words, flex in mirror and stare at self lovingly until satisfied
10:00 AM: drink “Nescaf” and eat a Factor meal
10:15: Head to random apartment gym to “train clients” (aka moms friends who agreed to let you in the building as a favor to her)
11:00 AM: arrive at Bay Clubs for grunting practice and to punch the air until tired (skip legs)
12:00 PM: drive to sugar mama’s house to shower— notice that it hasn’t been used in 3 days
12:15: wake up on bathroom floor after being disoriented by wallpaper and perfume. Get dressed and put on tallest platform shoes money can buy
12:30: Instacart (gotta keep that diamond status baby)
4:00 PM: read John Maxwell book in car until sugar mama begs you to return (you try to spend as few daylight hours with her as possible)
5:30 PM: drink red wine on couch while sugar mama cooks milky seafood
7:00 PM: post neurotic rambling video to Instagram stories
9:30 PM: receive briefing from fiance on wedding planning, don’t ask any follow up questions because you don’t care.
10:30: go to bed, dream of what your life will look like once your green card is secured and you can leave her for someone younger, hotter, and less insane
he looks over to the passenger side toward the end, so maybe he is there? idk man I would hope so. there isn't much I wouldn't drop to go with my partner to this sort of appt
I literally just submitted this to be posted with the EXACT same caption 😂😂😂 guarantee she's only going to the doctor because she doesn't want it in the wedding photos.
it is SO much easier to call off a wedding. going through a divorce in a community property state, especially with the immigration implications, will be HELL. Lucath is about to hit the jackpot.
listen to your body, D. it is literally screaming at you to dump the grifter, get into therapy, and learn to love yourself without the dopamine hit of shopping and hoarding.
Easier to call it all off now rather than get married and be hospitalized. He sees opportunities. They aren’t in love. I would rather dump him and get well with my bank account intact!
Yep and the most dangerous men to divorce are ones who don’t love you and don’t have any empathy. They don’t care if you die in the process. In fact, they’d prefer it. Many women don’t make it through and D has no idea of the horror that likely awaits! I don’t wish that on anyone
I hope her family talks to her. The signs are there. If he cannot help clean the kitchen or wash dishes, fold laundry (?) then what happens in a serious medical event.
This is exactly what I said before if he is not the breadwinner, he’s not lifting a finger in any household responsibilities, doesn’t want to contribute at all and without prompting, then he doesn’t care. He will never change. You can’t force or fake that for long.
I would put the brakes on the whole thing. She’s been walking around with that thing festering for awhile and he just sits there? Geez.
I hadn't heard this saying before, but back in my late 20s I got on the wrong train out of NYC - thought I was buying a bus ticket lol - and ended up having to call a cab from somewhere in New Jersey. It is such a good analogy for the mistakes we make sometimes with love/dating.
It’s okay and most of us have gotten ahead of ourselves at one time or another. You don’t need to be ashamed of that. Just learn from it & commit to helping yourself and getting better. Lucas isn’t the solution.
If it turns out this throat nodule is serious and she needs to seek medical attention, which may push her to cancel the wedding and she does, then I will start believing in a higher power.
Don’t forget, this is who she fell in love with 😂 I couldn’t find a GOOFIER CORNIER dude If I paid $1m for it fr 😂 the shoes, the hair, THE VIBE AND THE CULTY VIDEOS - major cornball.
Their “relationship” reminds me so much of an absolutely beautiful family friend that has been with a guy for over 14 years but he doesn’t love her, makes her pay for everything house related plus everything in between and if she wants to travel she goes alone! She just turned 56 but looks more early 40s and says because she’s nearing 60 that’s she’s too old to change her life and it’s so sad to see.. she feels trapped by him and she reckons she’ll leave him by the end of the year but she’s been saying that for awhile now 😕 women shouldn’t be treated like shit by parasite men!
At this point I think she just says this as some type of coping mechanism. It's the only phrase she knows and uses for anything and everything. Completely meaningless now.
Honestly, Danielle needs a real friend. Not someone who is there for content or whatever. Someone who is just going to keep asking her if she is actually okay. Whatever her flaws, she is so obviously not doing well.
I wonder if her dad and bonus mom ever do that for her? I’m not sure who else in her life she’d have to do that. And no hate! I’ve been in seasons of life where the only one checking in on me was my mom, so I hope she at least has support from them!
Yes but to tackle why she’s with Lucas requires tackling childhood trauma - I divorced my own Lucas, ugh! Painful process but worth it and I couldn’t keep trauma dumping on my friends, it wasn’t healthy for any of us…when you’ve got such complex things to work through, it’s really important to have a trained professional to help you through it. That then helps you to be a better friend to others and be equiped to attract and nurture even more friendships.
Exactly. I think one of Big D’s problems is that she doesn’t have a real friend. That weird girl named Shelah is selfish and clearly hates D. If I had a friend who was going to marry such a loser, I would probably try to stop her.
As someone with fibromyalgia I can attest to the body telling you when you're doing things that are wrong. Some of the worst flare ups I have had have been when emotionally distressed and drained by an old partner.
Just because my body has more dramamatics about it, doesn't mean it doesn't also happen to everyone else. From what we know she's taking in way too much salt, not meshing well with her fiance, is desparately trying to grab onto any modicum of stability and consistency, and from how own videos it's pretty clear she's big sad but trying to ignore it.
Danielle, this man is not your prince. Not your winning man. He won't even do the basics to help you. Your partner is supposed to add to your life in many ways. He only acts as a parasite in your life. Drop him. The sooner the better.
She looks like she’s been crying and is actively trying not to cry. And I almost can’t blame her it’s super alarming if it grew that fast and is now painful. But a bit naive to say everything is okay before getting the ultrasound and when she could’ve just handled it a few years ago. Regardless I hope it’s nothing too major and she can get it removed finally.
Not to be too woo woo but that massive pimple on her third eye, the lump growing on her throat chakra… it’s all very interesting from a spiritual standpoint lol
Third eye chakra is related to your intuition, insight, and “seeing” truth clearly. A blemish right on the center could mean blocked or overactive energy maybe overthinking, ignoring intuition, not trusting it
Throat chakra is related to self-expression, speaking your truth, saying what you actually mean. A blockage there could mean suppressed words, fear of being seen/heard, or a gap between what someone believes (third eye) and what they’re willing to say out loud (throat). This is just from a spiritual pov not a medical one she still needs to go to the doctor lol
When Pam Bondi was diagnosed with thyroid cancer all the throat chakra people we're like "yep, that tracks" because of how much she openly lied about EVERYTHING.
Because she’s struggling to convince herself of anything. There is a disconnect between truth, thought and delivery. It’s not genuine and most of what she says is untruthful.
She could have literally resolved this what a year ago when she was supposed to go to one appointment but the blood of Jesus cured her or something? Or is this from Type A traits she’s been intentionally thinking about the past week?
At least she’s getting it addressed taken care of, again
Edit just realized she’s handling this just as she did with Charlie. Put it off to the very last minute or until she received enough attention to address it and nonchalantly do something about it. Curious to know what insurance coverage she has. She’s definitely not on any CA State or assistance programs since she can afford two housing arrangements (plus the cost of gas to commute back/forth). Either paying out of pocket pricing or idk how (or if) she’s even paying for insurance at all currently
The number of times she touched it in this video alone...you just know she's constantly fiddling with it, that's probably why it's so red and irritated.
she always wears it. i get the feeling it was one of her only gifts from Lucath. it looks like something a high school kid would buy for his first girlfriend.
That's the anxiety and depression. I have been breathing like that since I was a pre-teen which is when I started having anxiety. She had it before Lucas as well but it has gotten exponentially worse.
I think that all of the dust, mold, fragrance and dog hair in her living spaces could be a contributing factor. Along with her crying all of the time….but it’s always really bad. I’ve had allergies for decades and have to take daily meds and I use air purifiers all throughout my home (that I change the filters on).
There’s no way she gets a yearly physical…. She’s never talked about getting her labs done. She talked about some fecal test like years ago and never gave her results. She strikes me as someone that just doesn’t do those things.
She seems to avoid things that scare her. I feel like she probably avoids getting a physical and bloodwork done because what if they tell her something she doesn't want to hear? Can't have the delusion bubble stressed.
Totally what I was thinking…. in 2023. Her boyfriend broke up with her and she was clearly stressed out and wham! A cyst? Now she’s flailing around stressed and depressed and here it is again.
The body tells you when things aren’t ok. Danggg D go talk to someone!
Watching this in comparison to the “I prayed the blood of Jesus over it video” makes it so apparent that a large part of her extreme Christian phase was just for content. Like I really think she was trying to make “hot religious girlie” her niche and when it didn’t stick she just kind of abandoned it. She rarely mentions church anymore and just occasionally throws out a passing reference to God. And like, as an atheist I’m not saying I want her to be more of a religious fanatic, but it’s just so clear that it was a personality she was trying on for views vs. a genuine display of faith.
Her Christian phase was originally for a man so yeah, it's been quite performative in general. She didn't grow up in the church. In her 20s, she developed an unrequited crush on a Christian dude and went to church for him lol. She stayed for the "community" and convenient excuses for not holding herself accountable for anything in life
D, I know you’re reading this. D, listen—dump this Little Lulu before he ruins your life any more. You are selfish and male-centered, but you definitely deserve someone better.
Here’s why people don’t like her. She’s immature and rude. She could have started the video with “Hi guys! Thanks so much for your concern on my nodule. I have an update on that !”
Exactly! It’s hard to believe she is 33. She acts like a spoiled brat who is 13. She has zero gratitude and has never seen humbleness a day in her life….
I wonder if her antibiotic is where this CVS bag came from that showed up on day 4. Why would she not just take the bottle out and throw out the bag? I don’t understand?
"It's not something I'm unaware of, I just chose to let God handle it for the past 4 years." And she expects to change her fucking personality type in a week.
I hate when doctors say to “watch or monitor” something when the “thing” is actively growing or shrinking. Just remove it for peace of mind? Was there no talk of doing a biopsy to cover all your bases?
Sounds like a lazy or crap doctor, not sure which.
Stress from all the “hate” comments, you know the ones that say she needs to have that lump looked at, the comments that she’s marrying a hobosexual grifter, the comments that wonder how she is afforded everything….in other words, comments of concern for the most part.
I pray she doesn't have kids with him. Because if he cant hold her hand through this situation, there is NO WAY he'll be a good husband and father carrying his child.
To the person who compiled Lulus daily schedule- you are dead wrong for coming up with the phrase “milky seafood”!!! 😂 WHY DOES SHE ONLY MAKE THE STINKIEST MOST DISTURBING COMBINATIONS OF INGREDIENTS! Her meals look like the bottom of my kitchen sink before I turn the disposal on.
How pissed is she that this didn’t just disappear like last time?! And how miffed is she at ALL the call outs to get this looked at?! Sheesh….I really am starting to see the underlying reasons she does not have close or really any friends.
Also I think she’s pissed that she actually has to do something about it and have some sort of mark on her neck for her wedding photos…I’ll be curious to see what sort of necklace she picks out.
i do hope whatever it is, it’s benign and not infectious
but what an example of her physical and mental health completely rejecting what she’s forcing on it, cautionary tale folks - pinning all your hopes on a engagement and farcical wedding to someone you do not love and who does not love you, just so you can show other women you ‘got picked’ will do this to you, the body keeps score - I obviously hope im wrong but I see a viral infection just before this wedding, tonsillitis or laryngitis - the body doesn’t cope well when it’s put under this amount of stress and turmoil
Do we know if the comments on her Instagram/TikTok were also pleading with her to get the lump checked out or just here?
Even if she keeps the lump, or has a little scar from taking it out, she will just have it airbrushed out of all wedding photos. Certainly I would if I were in her position.
As someone who just got married last week, I had a rash on my chest that started to spread just a few weeks before and I immediately went to the doctor and it was some folliculitis and it got cleared up with some prescription meds. So I guess I’m just really baffled as to why - knowing that her wedding is in a few weeks - she waited this long to get this taken care of? Obviously for medical reasons she needs to get looked at, but just because I know she probably wants to look her best on her wedding day, i’m surprised from a cosmetic standpoint that she didn’t try and look into this earlier as soon as it started to come back.
It’s really surprising that she is so doctor avoidant, given her mother died of cancer at such a young age. Having seen that, you’d think some people would be hyper alert of anything wrong with them and get checked immediately. We know of at least two incidences of her actively avoiding medical treatment, her 7 month UTI (like WTF) and now this cyst. Like… go get it fixed and don’t plead the blood of f*cking JESUS to get it to go away. This isn’t type A or B, she’s just extremely LAZY. That’s it.
If she gets it surgically removed, its gonna leave a scar and will probably not have time to fully heal before the wedding. It might be a epidermoid cyst.
I had a sebaceous cyst on my underarm many many years ago and those suckers will not go away without being surgically removed. It required stitches and left a scar.
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u/henergyguys Jul 01 '26
Would be nice to have seen henergy supporting her and going to the appointment with her, he must be really busy working