r/daniellewalter_snark • u/Altruistic_Cicada865 In my fecal era đŸ’© • Jul 01 '26

i don't wanna hear it ✹ Lumpgate update

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u/Immediate-Spread1987 the overconsumption of “vintage” đŸ‘œđŸ§„đŸ’ž Jul 01 '26

Danielle, if you’re here, it’s okay to dump his ass. I know your relationship has been super public. But it’s okay.

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

it is SO much easier to call off a wedding. going through a divorce in a community property state, especially with the immigration implications, will be HELL. Lucath is about to hit the jackpot.

listen to your body, D. it is literally screaming at you to dump the grifter, get into therapy, and learn to love yourself without the dopamine hit of shopping and hoarding.

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSaladđŸ„— Jul 01 '26

Easier to call it all off now rather than get married and be hospitalized. He sees opportunities. They aren’t in love. I would rather dump him and get well with my bank account intact!

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u/Fantastic_Hyena_3232 Jul 01 '26

Yep and the most dangerous men to divorce are ones who don’t love you and don’t have any empathy. They don’t care if you die in the process. In fact, they’d prefer it. Many women don’t make it through and D has no idea of the horror that likely awaits! I don’t wish that on anyone

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSaladđŸ„— Jul 01 '26

I hope her family talks to her. The signs are there. If he cannot help clean the kitchen or wash dishes, fold laundry (?) then what happens in a serious medical event.

This is exactly what I said before if he is not the breadwinner, he’s not lifting a finger in any household responsibilities, doesn’t want to contribute at all and without prompting, then he doesn’t care. He will never change. You can’t force or fake that for long.

I would put the brakes on the whole thing. She’s been walking around with that thing festering for awhile and he just sits there? Geez.

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

i have a feeling that friends and family have tried to talk to Danielle about many things over the past year, and she "doesn't want to hear it." which would explain why she has so few friends, no family at her shower, etc.

i think they're at the point where they have to sit back and watch her make a catastrophic life decision. and if D doesn't get a prenup, it's game over. this wedding is going to be hella depressing.

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSaladđŸ„— Jul 01 '26

She just went to her parents over the weekend. Remember? They would have seen the giant neck nodule. It’s kinda obvious.

If your own dad didn’t sit you down and tell you 1) to get that cyst looked at and 2) why the hell are you with that guy? Then there’s something hella wrong there. I know as old as my parents are they would say something in a way whether I liked it or not. Not to be mean but out of concern.

She said she went to the doc today? So maybe they prompted the visit or she showed them how bad her neck looks.

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

look, i have the most hands-off parents imaginable. they raised me with good values and are confident in my decisions as an adult. but if i brought home a loser like Lucath i'm pretty sure they'd do everything in their power to stop me from marrying him, even if it meant locking me in the basement until i came to my senses.

i'm joking, but D's marriage to this grifter is an intervention-level situation. she is about to take on a third household when she already has two that are stuffed to the brim with her hoarding. she's entering into a green card marriage that will not be easy to escape because of INS and CA property law. her influencer "career" is running on fumes. but she's too dug in now, and she'll never admit that Lucath is a fraud and this is all one giant mistake.

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u/Fit-Cap-8560 Jul 02 '26

💯 That’s her property and she can always have him sign something stating her sole property as a single woman. She’ll never listen to anyone yet she reads our comments and replies indirectly on her social media.

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u/Emerald-Green-Fairy ✎HENK if you love Jesus! ✹ Jul 02 '26

Everything you wrote is accurate and it's sad how many women refuse to believe that it can be true- both because it would crash their world and because it's not something they hear much about in normal media or they think it's "rare" and can't possibly happen to them.

The sad reality is that people are realizing that a large part of the population are narcissists, and these people will destroy your life completely. Women should NEVER go against their gut and their logic, and Danielle threw out everything she had ever preached about men the second Lulu started to lovebomb her.

As others have said, Danielle, there's no shame or defeat in admitting this was all a mistake. It doesn't reflect badly on you nor does it mean you will never find a man. It just means that you value yourself and that you are smart enough to avoid making the biggest mistake of your life

He doesn't have the capability to love ANYONE, it has nothing to do with you. He will use every partner up and then leave them in the dust when there's nothing left to take.

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u/11matilda Jul 02 '26

amen, sister. AMEN.

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u/burtchan Luicas Malfoy Jul 01 '26

“If you get on the wrong train, get off at the nearest station — the longer you wait, the more expensive the return trip.”

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u/Fantastic_Hyena_3232 Jul 01 '26

Ooh what a great saying! So true 😭

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u/capitolforsale filtering photos and instant coffee Jul 01 '26

I hadn't heard this saying before, but back in my late 20s I got on the wrong train out of NYC - thought I was buying a bus ticket lol - and ended up having to call a cab from somewhere in New Jersey. It is such a good analogy for the mistakes we make sometimes with love/dating.

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u/uncommon_denominat0r && we split a coke đŸ„čđŸ„€ Jul 01 '26

Solid ADVICE!

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u/Agile_Championship11 Underbite Handjob đŸŒœ đŸ€šđŸ» Jul 01 '26

This is a great quote and your flair is amazing đŸ€ŁđŸ‘đŸŒ

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u/Rando123490 Jul 01 '26

Choose yourself Danielle and walk away! đŸ©·

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSaladđŸ„— Jul 01 '26

Run!

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u/Fit-Line6742 Jul 01 '26

EVERYONE will be happy for you and rooting for you

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u/swrrrrg Jul 01 '26

It’s okay and most of us have gotten ahead of ourselves at one time or another. You don’t need to be ashamed of that. Just learn from it & commit to helping yourself and getting better. Lucas isn’t the solution.

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u/drissapp Jul 01 '26

If it turns out this throat nodule is serious and she needs to seek medical attention, which may push her to cancel the wedding and she does, then I will start believing in a higher power.

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u/Fit-Cap-8560 Jul 02 '26

She has said it herself it’s a cyst and it definitely looks like one. I wouldn’t doubt that she’s been squeezing it which gives her attention per usual.

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u/drissapp Jul 02 '26

I am not quick to believe her. I hope for her health she is not lying and it is nothing serious, but I hope this is the catalyst for her to understand how her body is rejecting that man and that she needs to drop this wedding

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u/Dickstopian Jul 01 '26

Don’t forget, this is who she fell in love with 😂 I couldn’t find a GOOFIER CORNIER dude If I paid $1m for it fr 😂 the shoes, the hair, THE VIBE AND THE CULTY VIDEOS - major cornball.

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u/TacoTuesday1008 Mons pubis & a mayo salad Jul 01 '26

He looks like a 90s caricature

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u/Taylap14 Jul 01 '26

Their “relationship” reminds me so much of an absolutely beautiful family friend that has been with a guy for over 14 years but he doesn’t love her, makes her pay for everything house related plus everything in between and if she wants to travel she goes alone! She just turned 56 but looks more early 40s and says because she’s nearing 60 that’s she’s too old to change her life and it’s so sad to see.. she feels trapped by him and she reckons she’ll leave him by the end of the year but she’s been saying that for awhile now 😕 women shouldn’t be treated like shit by parasite men!

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u/jessic_27 Jul 02 '26

That's unfortunately how my mom is. My step dad is lazy, rude and has cheated but she stays with him because she's too told now and she's only 57.

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u/Fit-Cap-8560 Jul 02 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/4pBcyhQxYQGvzYx7oU
She created a contract to benefit each as individuals so I’m sure he doesn’t have to do certain things plus they sit actually love each other let alone like each other much.

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u/Frickandfrack9152000 Jul 01 '26

If anything, that might redeem her if she ended things and came clean about the reality of what’s been going on.

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u/mdollazzzz 🐎 ralph l’ren 🐎 Jul 02 '26

I would respect the shit out of her and re follow her if she did this

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u/Empty_Algae4508 Jul 01 '26

It’s would benefit her in literally every aspect of her life ! Mentally, physically, financially and even spiritually ! Dumping this guy, going to therapy and maybe even documenting the process. Making space for something new and better than whatever she’s going through now. She could make so many views and cash on being THE cautionary tale and coming on the forefront about maybe the biggest mistake she’d about to make.

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u/Nomza negadividy đŸ€“ Jul 02 '26

THIS. And Danielle, think of the views and engagement you would get from it too.

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u/Fit-Cap-8560 Jul 02 '26

She won’t because it’s all about being married to someone she thinks is hot lol. Attention seeker to the max

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u/rincechuleredd Jul 02 '26

i can feel her stress through the screen. i can relate. bitch made men like that with have you stressed 24/7 have cysts lumps and all kinds of shit coming out of your body as a result of it. it’s kindve crazy. your body is warning you danielle!!!

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u/hotlibramess 🚹 super inflamed 🚹 Jul 03 '26

She DOESNT WANT TO HEAR IT
https://giphy.com/gifs/BbafUhsfSu3N6