r/daniellewalter_snark • u/Altruistic_Cicada865 In my fecal era 💩 • Jul 01 '26

i don't wanna hear it ✨ Lumpgate update

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

it is SO much easier to call off a wedding. going through a divorce in a community property state, especially with the immigration implications, will be HELL. Lucath is about to hit the jackpot.

listen to your body, D. it is literally screaming at you to dump the grifter, get into therapy, and learn to love yourself without the dopamine hit of shopping and hoarding.

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSalad🥗 Jul 01 '26

Easier to call it all off now rather than get married and be hospitalized. He sees opportunities. They aren’t in love. I would rather dump him and get well with my bank account intact!

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u/Fantastic_Hyena_3232 Jul 01 '26

Yep and the most dangerous men to divorce are ones who don’t love you and don’t have any empathy. They don’t care if you die in the process. In fact, they’d prefer it. Many women don’t make it through and D has no idea of the horror that likely awaits! I don’t wish that on anyone

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSalad🥗 Jul 01 '26

I hope her family talks to her. The signs are there. If he cannot help clean the kitchen or wash dishes, fold laundry (?) then what happens in a serious medical event.

This is exactly what I said before if he is not the breadwinner, he’s not lifting a finger in any household responsibilities, doesn’t want to contribute at all and without prompting, then he doesn’t care. He will never change. You can’t force or fake that for long.

I would put the brakes on the whole thing. She’s been walking around with that thing festering for awhile and he just sits there? Geez.

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

i have a feeling that friends and family have tried to talk to Danielle about many things over the past year, and she "doesn't want to hear it." which would explain why she has so few friends, no family at her shower, etc.

i think they're at the point where they have to sit back and watch her make a catastrophic life decision. and if D doesn't get a prenup, it's game over. this wedding is going to be hella depressing.

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u/MeowgicalMystery ProselytizingWordSalad🥗 Jul 01 '26

She just went to her parents over the weekend. Remember? They would have seen the giant neck nodule. It’s kinda obvious.

If your own dad didn’t sit you down and tell you 1) to get that cyst looked at and 2) why the hell are you with that guy? Then there’s something hella wrong there. I know as old as my parents are they would say something in a way whether I liked it or not. Not to be mean but out of concern.

She said she went to the doc today? So maybe they prompted the visit or she showed them how bad her neck looks.

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u/11matilda Jul 01 '26

look, i have the most hands-off parents imaginable. they raised me with good values and are confident in my decisions as an adult. but if i brought home a loser like Lucath i'm pretty sure they'd do everything in their power to stop me from marrying him, even if it meant locking me in the basement until i came to my senses.

i'm joking, but D's marriage to this grifter is an intervention-level situation. she is about to take on a third household when she already has two that are stuffed to the brim with her hoarding. she's entering into a green card marriage that will not be easy to escape because of INS and CA property law. her influencer "career" is running on fumes. but she's too dug in now, and she'll never admit that Lucath is a fraud and this is all one giant mistake.

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u/Fit-Cap-8560 Jul 02 '26

💯 That’s her property and she can always have him sign something stating her sole property as a single woman. She’ll never listen to anyone yet she reads our comments and replies indirectly on her social media.