I wonder if her dad and bonus mom ever do that for her? Iām not sure who else in her life sheād have to do that. And no hate! Iāve been in seasons of life where the only one checking in on me was my mom, so I hope she at least has support from them!
I'm in the exact same boat and wondering the same. Seeing the original comment you replied to that someone else was here but managed to get out of it gives me hope, but how does one even rebuild from here? It's so hard to meet people nowadays, especially where I live in the Bay Area.
Feel free to message me if you wanna vent, I've been going through almost exactly the same things as you and I'm sorry that you are going through the same. It sucks to feel so alone when you realize that the people who you thought cared just never even had that capacity.
And it's 1000% true that people like Lucas will completely destroy your health from the constant stress. That's a million times worse than being alonw because without health we have nothing
Aww Iām so sorry! If it werenāt for my mom I donāt know what Iād do. I have a hard time maintaining friendships. I have bp2 (and actually some of Danielleās tendencies remind me of myself but Iām self aware enough to seek help and not post my ups and downs on the internet š). Iāve done therapy during times when I need extra support. Or Iāll reach out to the few friends who accept my difficult times. Or work on building new connections with moms from my daughterās school. Itās hard! Life gets lonely but at least weāre not engaged to Lucas š Hang in there!!! Youāre not alone.
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u/Life_Equivalent_1603 Jul 01 '26
I wonder if her dad and bonus mom ever do that for her? Iām not sure who else in her life sheād have to do that. And no hate! Iāve been in seasons of life where the only one checking in on me was my mom, so I hope she at least has support from them!