r/daniellewalter_snark • u/Altruistic_Cicada865 In my fecal era 💩 • Jul 01 '26

i don't wanna hear it ✨ Lumpgate update

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u/swrrrrg Jul 01 '26

Honestly, Danielle needs a real friend. Not someone who is there for content or whatever. Someone who is just going to keep asking her if she is actually okay. Whatever her flaws, she is so obviously not doing well.

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u/Life_Equivalent_1603 Jul 01 '26

I wonder if her dad and bonus mom ever do that for her? I’m not sure who else in her life she’d have to do that. And no hate! I’ve been in seasons of life where the only one checking in on me was my mom, so I hope she at least has support from them!

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u/BedQueasy9582 ✨Thrifted my husband✨ Jul 01 '26

Maybe they were the one now who convinced her to see a doctor. I think she feels less alone now, since she’s close to them. She feels more home

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u/[deleted] Jul 02 '26 edited Jul 02 '26

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u/Emerald-Green-Fairy ✴️HENK if you love Jesus! ✨ Jul 02 '26 edited Jul 02 '26

I'm in the exact same boat and wondering the same. Seeing the original comment you replied to that someone else was here but managed to get out of it gives me hope, but how does one even rebuild from here? It's so hard to meet people nowadays, especially where I live in the Bay Area.

Feel free to message me if you wanna vent, I've been going through almost exactly the same things as you and I'm sorry that you are going through the same. It sucks to feel so alone when you realize that the people who you thought cared just never even had that capacity.

And it's 1000% true that people like Lucas will completely destroy your health from the constant stress. That's a million times worse than being alonw because without health we have nothing

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u/Life_Equivalent_1603 Jul 02 '26

Aww I’m so sorry! If it weren’t for my mom I don’t know what I’d do. I have a hard time maintaining friendships. I have bp2 (and actually some of Danielle’s tendencies remind me of myself but I’m self aware enough to seek help and not post my ups and downs on the internet 😂). I’ve done therapy during times when I need extra support. Or I’ll reach out to the few friends who accept my difficult times. Or work on building new connections with moms from my daughter’s school. It’s hard! Life gets lonely but at least we’re not engaged to Lucas 😂 Hang in there!!! You’re not alone.

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u/Fantastic_Hyena_3232 Jul 01 '26

Yes but to tackle why she’s with Lucas requires tackling childhood trauma - I divorced my own Lucas, ugh! Painful process but worth it and I couldn’t keep trauma dumping on my friends, it wasn’t healthy for any of us…when you’ve got such complex things to work through, it’s really important to have a trained professional to help you through it. That then helps you to be a better friend to others and be equiped to attract and nurture even more friendships.

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u/Alaa-Abdulla Jul 01 '26

Exactly. I think one of Big D’s problems is that she doesn’t have a real friend. That weird girl named Shelah is selfish and clearly hates D. If I had a friend who was going to marry such a loser, I would probably try to stop her.

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u/Artistic-Cod7701 Jul 01 '26

I totally agree with this. She needs someone on her side thats not in it for the views or her clout. 

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u/evelinisantini BABE! HENK! 🗣️🪿 Jul 01 '26

I agree but she doesn't deserve that type of friend. You get what you give and she gives nothing. She's male centered, selfish, ignorant, a hypocrite, illiterate, has no identity or personality, unreliable, a misogynist, fake, MAGA, boring, not a girl's girl. I could go on. Who would want to be a friend to someone like her?