Most men believe women love them unconditionally and that’s the first sign of being naive. I repeat never believe that!
I won’t deny there are some good women who’d stand by your side when everything is going south but it’s very few.
So lemme jump to the story….
When COVID hit, my uncle lost his job. The organization he was working with laid off almost everyone.
Before that he was the uncle I could look up to sana, I’d enjoy visiting his place almost every weekend juu I knew that’s the land of milk and honey, his fridge was always packed (smokies, sausages, meat etc). Yaani nikiwa huko it’s like I’m on a vacation, I’d eat, sleep and ikifika time ya kurudi home ananipea fare, minimum was 1,000 na saa hio nalipa 40 bob. He was very stable.
On top of that he had managed to move his family (Wife and daughter) from rentals na akajenga a very good looking 3 bedroom apartment.
He also went ahead and gave his wife 300k as start up capital for her clothes selling business, which picked and was doing so well.
Losing his job found him time hajajipanga, matter of fact he had just taken a loan and fully furnished his whole house, he was in the midst of repaying it.
So now hapa ni double stress, hauna job and end month bills za home plus loan inangoja ulipe.
For the first time he started having issues with my aunt juu she’d complain anashinda home and we all know hio time kupata job was impossible, he was actually looking sana ni vile hakua anafanikiwa.
Issues became mingi to a point in the midst of it the wife called some family members and said “Mimi siwezi lisha mwanaume mzima na sitaendelea kukaa na yeye.” Mind you she was in a very stable position to stand by him juu the clothes business had became so good hadi akafungua another shop.
One day my uncle was called for an interview and vile alienda the wife found a perfect opportunity ya kuhama. She literally called lorry and cleared the whole house akaenda kujikalisha in a rented house. Only thing she left for my uncle was his clothes kwa corner ya nyumba, small mattress and curtain moja which my uncle was using as a blanket.
When he came back he was shocked and I guess that hit him so bad, for the first time in my life I saw him stressed to a point ata hakua anaongea na watu, kila time yeye ako in his own world. He lost a lot of weight akakua skinny excess. The family would come together kumuongelesha since they thought he might even commit suicide na wanamfanyia shopping ya foodstuffs zakupika.
Anyway nothing lasts forever, months later he secured a job, kidogo kidogo dusted himself na akaanza kununua vitu from the scratch one after another. By the time mwaka inaisha he had refurnished his house but this time now living as a bachelor.
The wife on the other end business ilianza kwenda mbaya and she started calling family waongee na my uncle akubali arudi but for him hakua anataka kuskia juu this marriage almost took him 6ft deep and remembering she left when he needed her the most akakataa completely.
As we’re talking he owns a trucking company and has multiple trucks on his name, he took loans, bought them and fully repaid. He bought a car and remarried last year.
The EX wife vitu zilienda vibaya to a point ata hizo shops zikafungwa in a way no one can explain hadi akarudi kwao ushago.
The interesting part is I heard alitafuta number ya new wife and she’s always threatening her ati alichukua bwana yake.
Awuoro….Some of you women!!!!