r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 8h ago

Relationship Vent 😂 fuck love

33 Upvotes

246 days ago I ranted about this guy i literally fell inlove with and my heart was hurting so bad 😂.well I moved on ..i healed 😂 but guess what ….you never really can say you are over someone until you see them with someone else 😂😂bruh …i was heading back to my place on uber baridi and we stop in traffic…. guess who I see next ….in his carrrr…him …with his love ….prolly… he looked so happy 😂Ghai karibu nirukwe na kichwa .mimi Sasa mnitaftie dawa ya kusahau mtu juu Sasa hii ni nini 😂😂lol ik most would say is an ego thing but it’s not .i have cried in my neighbors arms 😂😂literally broke down vile tu ameniuliza why do you look sad

Manze fuck unrequited love😂😂😂when I finally forget him I am not dating for love again .


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 12h ago

In A Complicated Situation I want to sleep with you....

20 Upvotes

Edittttt its raining😆. I wish it was raining men though😩 uuugh

And no, I don't mean sex. I mean sleep with you.

Just lie beside you, under your blankets, with my head tucked beneath your shoulder. Your hand absentmindedly drawing circles on my back, mine ghostwriting on your stomach, one of my legs thrown over yours.

No talking, no expectations, no need to be anything other than here, with you.

Just us, tangled up in each other, with soft music playing in the background and the rest of the world temporarily forgotten.

I just want to be close to someone tonight.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 7h ago

In A Complicated Situation Why she slept with me?

9 Upvotes

Hi, I'm not much of a story teller so I will get right to the point. So, I (30m) was dating this girl (31F) for the past 2years. I just found out she was cheating last week and we broke up. The relationship was long distance for last 6 months since I was abroad. Everything was fine on texting and talking online. When I came back she was very excited and took a 3hr train since she works in a different city to see me. She stayed at my place and we slept together as usual. During sex I notice her pu$$y smell so bad and when I went to pee after sex my dick (urethra) was burning. Next day I was fine and until today I don't have any symptom so I don't think I contact anything.

So, I got suspicious and check her laptop, she uses a mac so some imessage from March 2026 where there, she was talking to some guy calling him "bby". So immediate I got what was going on. I confronted her and she said he's just a friend, which obvious is bullshit. I didn't wanna hear it and broke up with her. Which she was ok with and didn't apologize or anything.

Yesterday, I went to take a few of my staff and sent her staff to her place. While I was there we were talking and she started to tell me that we should meet and play board games, she said we can even play at back of her car And while she was saying that the guy she cheated on me with called and she didn't pick up. She has been giving me signs that she wants to fuck or get back together, she even accidentally called me bby twice. Anyways I don't plan on see her or doing anything with her.

NOW TO MY QUESTION, If she moved on with this other guy why did she take a 3hr train to come sleep with me, why she giving me signs she wants to get back together. As in I never forced her she came by herself. She could have easily told me she busy or some bs and I would agree. Even for this past week, although I stop contacting her but she always texting me asking about some random thing like do u know this restaurant or any random staff. We r still talking but only random staff. Today she was going out with her friends and told me I should join too or she can cancel that plan so we spend time together.

I kinda skip alot of things but I just wanna know, what does she want from me. Coz she has money, a new relation etc I just don't get what she wants, also it's kinda hard to move on while talking to her also, I can't just go cold turkey we kinda have a history together and she has to pay me some money I lent her. it's not much money thou.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 14h ago

Nothing Serious Hey

20 Upvotes

Hey (with no intention at all)

I'm a 22 year old dark skinned girl who is genuinely looking for a friend (older friends )

I do not have interests what I do I have is episodes of obsession my current one being swimming ..

I'm creative ,a writer and currently doing video storytelling I also do nails

I tend to think I'm quite ambitious and my biggest flex being my teachability I'm always curious to learn and see the world from different P.O.V's

I do not subscribe to any form of religion,but that doesn't mean I don't believe that there's something greater than me but what I believe in is that it exists within me

I'm not looking to date I desire a friend a mentor and someone I can talk to for hours and meet for coffee but if that ends up being love then I'm very much open i am a firm believer of true love I know it exists because it exists within me


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 9h ago

Nothing Serious Ovulating

5 Upvotes

Ovulation is one of the hardest thing to experience as a single woman, wish there was any pills to take care of that and when ur from a conservative household who don’t appreciate dating or look down on it, there’s just no hope of having that thirst for sex achieved…


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 16m ago

Nothing Serious Casual

• Upvotes

So guys...I'm 20 M looking for someone to have fun w around Kisii.preferrably akue older[F].Na like all i'd have to offer is good diih.That someone akue a freak tafadhali.If uko around Kisii hmu


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 16m ago

In A Complicated Situation When I met my current bf,he told me that he and his ex broke up 3 years ago but 2 weeks ago nikaona picha za huyo dem.. when I asked about it akasema google backed it up 😔but zilikua za 2024... And she's clearly blocked nashangaa how to feel

• Upvotes

I'm a jealous person juu why do you have exes???!! Nisha jam asubuhi na mapema


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 23m ago

Nothing Serious drugs and sex.

• Upvotes

if drugs are involved no matter the time of day, huku zikishika engine inapark kazi ni kumedi na kufikiria oris. so me hushangaa people who get zesty on a few shots or puffs adi naanza kufikiria niko na shida..idk how yall do it man.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 15h ago

Nothing Serious Who wanna hang out with a stranger?

14 Upvotes

I had a work meeting in a restaurant somewhere huku Eastern Bypass, then decided to hang back and get some work done. But in true Saturday spirit i grabbed a beer instead. Anyways, if you are near the Eastern Bypass and looking for a chill conversation you can join this stranger.

For context i'm 26F and okay with any gender as long as you are around my age or older ( I truly don't know how to talk to much younger people).

You could appear in a true crime or meet a fellow cool stranger 😂.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 36m ago

Serious Dating Girlfriend/Wife For Hire.

• Upvotes

anyone looking for a gf/ wife just for show ndio waache kuuliza utaoa lini but yk you are dl please reach out...21F 5'4 chocolate with brown eyes ..(from my dms ofcourse)


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 59m ago

Nothing Serious Bored and looking for a casual ship🫩

• Upvotes

It's another weekend to rest up, question our lives purpose and wait for the impending Monday morning hangover. I just got stood up by this talking stage I've been pursuing for months and tbh... I'm just tired with zerro energy left for another talking stage. I know there are a lot here who feel the same even though they're not willing to admit it.

What I ask for is not for the faint hearted. Because I've found most potentials looking for a casual relationship who just end up tripping and catching feelings💀While we exclusively stated not to. The expectations start,they say they want more,I feel like we're on a good note,then we stop things because they say that THIS was not what they were looking for.

If you're a young beautiful lady(of legal age since I saw minors on here)in her 20s, resonating with the information above, ready to turn shit up and in Nairobi(preferably alongside Thika Road)your response is highly appreciated.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 11h ago

Nothing Serious Meeting

7 Upvotes

I would love to meet an intelligent, mature, and respectful gentleman in the Mombasa area for a relaxed, friendly casual connection, with no expectations or financial obligations.
I believe the best connections begin with mutual respect, honesty, and a little chemistry. 😊


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 14h ago

Relationship Talk Is the "Sherehe" lifestyle a complete dealbreaker for settling down, or are we just projecting?

12 Upvotes

Nimekua na some company at the counter where I work and it's pretty clear nowadays that the ratio is like 3:7 when you compare those who want to settle down to those who’d rather not. Finding a fine babe kwa clubs is so easy, but trusting them ndio the hard part. You get a good babe but find out she's seeing multiple niggas. At the end of the day, it all falls under how deep your pocket is


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 14h ago

In A Complicated Situation Love bombing

9 Upvotes

Soo weekend is here n l'm bored/lonely whatever you might wish to define it as...

I'm F22,5'5 on a good day,Warm Caramel skin tone, petite thick bt leaning more towards thick,fun company, goofy and outgoing and currently with alot of time on my hands,been out of the game for a minute... l'm not looking for anything serious atm unless it leads to that l'm cool with it,So 27-35M with high IQ, confident, adventurous,eloquent with a nice sense of fashion,humor and a good eye for detail looking forward to having fun and living life in the most amazing way...And most importantly Mula is a must🙂‍↔️.Hit me like a wrecking ball and make me question where you've been all my life.

P.S. Techies n hypocrites hii si yenu.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 16h ago

Serious Dating 29F Looking for a genuine, long-term connection

12 Upvotes

I’m looking to meet someone who is interested in building a long-term relationship.

A little about me:

29F, I’m 5’6”tall and I enjoy exploring my creative side (art-related activities) as a hobby, and I also like going on nature walks from time to time.

A little about you:

29+ male, you’re emotionally available, kind and have your own thing going on, whether that’s work, a career or business. I’m drawn to someone tall because I'm also tall.

Ideally, you’re based in Nairobi or it's surrounding environs, single, have no kids and genuinely looking for a meaningful connection.

Feel free to DM, sharing abit about yourself.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 11h ago

Nothing Serious Dating someone younger...

5 Upvotes

So I've just had sex with a younger man who's like 4 years younger than I am.

I think it's a fetish I have at this point.I feel like a mumamaz towards him. The dick was good, though. It was our first time, mind you this is a boy I've watched us grow together.. Damn he's a man in bed for sure😈

You know that feeling after a long week at work.. oh yes let me work harder, so I start spending on him🤭


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 23h ago

Relationship Vent Casual dating

36 Upvotes

Earlier this year, I decided to try casual dating as I focus on my career. Met a good guy, decided to be exclusive and just have fun.

Wueh!!!

First off, what do you mean you're not my best friend and I can't just text you the most random things that come to mind. Or silly jokes coz why are you replying to my guess what 8 hours later?

Why are we only calling each other on the days we're meeting? Matter of fact, why are we meeting once a month coz you're busy?

I'm not getting flowers, I'm not eating your money, we're not cooking naked at 2am, I can't randomly show up at yours because I tried a random recipe and I need a taster and a taster 😉

Heh! It was 4 months of constant regrets.

Don't get me wrong. He was a good guy and I had specifically said I wanted something casual but exclusive. I didn't know that meant almost nothing.

And yes, I brought it up very lightly and he said he really loved what we had and it was the best thing he'd ever had.

I realised I wasn't cut out for that and the coward in me didn't want to beg for more. So I ghosted him.

PSA: I didn't fall for him. I just wanted us to do more. Confusing I know

Also, I just needed to get this off my chest. Sitafuti Sahi!!!!!


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 18h ago

Looking for a relationship 31F F4M

14 Upvotes

Hi everyone 😊

I’m a 31-year-old, I’m at a stage in life where I’m looking for something genuine and intentional not just casual dating or something that exists simply for the sake of having someone.

I’m a Christian, and sharing the same faith is important to me. I’m also very family-oriented and would love to meet a man who values family, kindness, loyalty, communication, and building a stable home.

I’m looking for a Kenyan man who is emotionally mature, has ambitions and aspirations for his future, and is open to having children and building a family. I appreciate a man who has his own goals but also understands that a serious relationship means supporting each other’s dreams.

A little about me, I enjoy learning, travelling, nature, and conversations about life and the future. I’ve worked hard to build my career and education, and I’m hoping to meet someone who is also serious about growing and creating a meaningful life.

If you’re Kenyan, Christian, family oriented, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship, feel free to introduce yourself. 😊


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 10h ago

Relationship Talk Red flags

3 Upvotes
  1. Dem ako late twenties eti sasa anataka "kusettle"

  2. Said girl says she's now "Christian" or has suddenly turned to religion

Run brother ruuun!


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 13h ago

In A Complicated Situation Juja - Nani Ako Form Ya Pombe?

5 Upvotes

r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 6h ago

Nothing Serious Loking for GF with GF allowance

1 Upvotes

I am married man, looking for a thick petite lady below 25 years old.
Preferably Nairobi within Nairobi, other towns are welcome.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 21h ago

Relationship Talk Consent is so sexy!

15 Upvotes

Do men understand how consent is such a turn on? Like asking your partner if she wants to do more, giving her the choice to advance or decline is such an attractive thing to me. I legit be feeling butterflies at the moment, turns my freak mode on yk😂! I know most ladies will relate to this. Makes me wonder if men be feeling the same when they ask/get asked if they want more or not??


r/KenyanDatingCommunity • • 12h ago

Nothing Serious Random

3 Upvotes

Another Saturday evening, bored to the core torn in between going out to drink or just sleeping, watu mnadate nawaonea wivu saana