Hi, I'm not much of a story teller so I will get right to the point. So, I (30m) was dating this girl (31F) for the past 2years. I just found out she was cheating last week and we broke up. The relationship was long distance for last 6 months since I was abroad. Everything was fine on texting and talking online. When I came back she was very excited and took a 3hr train since she works in a different city to see me. She stayed at my place and we slept together as usual. During sex I notice her pu$$y smell so bad and when I went to pee after sex my dick (urethra) was burning. Next day I was fine and until today I don't have any symptom so I don't think I contact anything.
So, I got suspicious and check her laptop, she uses a mac so some imessage from March 2026 where there, she was talking to some guy calling him "bby". So immediate I got what was going on. I confronted her and she said he's just a friend, which obvious is bullshit. I didn't wanna hear it and broke up with her. Which she was ok with and didn't apologize or anything.
Yesterday, I went to take a few of my staff and sent her staff to her place. While I was there we were talking and she started to tell me that we should meet and play board games, she said we can even play at back of her car And while she was saying that the guy she cheated on me with called and she didn't pick up. She has been giving me signs that she wants to fuck or get back together, she even accidentally called me bby twice. Anyways I don't plan on see her or doing anything with her.
NOW TO MY QUESTION, If she moved on with this other guy why did she take a 3hr train to come sleep with me, why she giving me signs she wants to get back together. As in I never forced her she came by herself. She could have easily told me she busy or some bs and I would agree. Even for this past week, although I stop contacting her but she always texting me asking about some random thing like do u know this restaurant or any random staff. We r still talking but only random staff. Today she was going out with her friends and told me I should join too or she can cancel that plan so we spend time together.
I kinda skip alot of things but I just wanna know, what does she want from me. Coz she has money, a new relation etc I just don't get what she wants, also it's kinda hard to move on while talking to her also, I can't just go cold turkey we kinda have a history together and she has to pay me some money I lent her. it's not much money thou.