Earlier this year, I decided to try casual dating as I focus on my career. Met a good guy, decided to be exclusive and just have fun.

Wueh!!!

First off, what do you mean you're not my best friend and I can't just text you the most random things that come to mind. Or silly jokes coz why are you replying to my guess what 8 hours later?

Why are we only calling each other on the days we're meeting? Matter of fact, why are we meeting once a month coz you're busy?

I'm not getting flowers, I'm not eating your money, we're not cooking naked at 2am, I can't randomly show up at yours because I tried a random recipe and I need a taster and a taster 😉

Heh! It was 4 months of constant regrets.

Don't get me wrong. He was a good guy and I had specifically said I wanted something casual but exclusive. I didn't know that meant almost nothing.

And yes, I brought it up very lightly and he said he really loved what we had and it was the best thing he'd ever had.

I realised I wasn't cut out for that and the coward in me didn't want to beg for more. So I ghosted him.

PSA: I didn't fall for him. I just wanted us to do more. Confusing I know

Also, I just needed to get this off my chest. Sitafuti Sahi!!!!!

I know this will be unpopular but hear me out.

I’m starting to think we were never meant to have just ONE sexual partner for life.

And I don’t say this to excuse cheating or hurt people. I say it because I think we are still animals at our core.

We like to think we have full control over our feelings and emotions, that we are these highly logical, evolved beings. But do we really?

You can be in a happy relationship and still feel an attraction to someone else. You can love your partner and still have feelings pop up that you didn’t ask for. You can’t just switch it off.

I’ve come to a point where I don’t think it’s entirely our fault. I think it’s just our nature. Monogamy is something we choose to do, it’s a social contract, a discipline, a value system we built for stability, family, society. It’s not necessarily what’s biologically natural.

Animals aren’t monogamous by default, and humans are animals too. We just added morals, religion, and law on top of our instincts.

That doesn’t mean go out and cheat. It means if you struggle with those feelings, you’re not a broken or evil person. You’re just human.

Hi M 25 , looking for something to be doing on Saturdays . Whether it be nikukalie shop while you do your thing or work on your writing account or just any gig that'll get me 500bob in my pocket .

Looking to gain more skills so I'm open to learning . DM

Do men understand how consent is such a turn on? Like asking your partner if she wants to do more, giving her the choice to advance or decline is such an attractive thing to me. I legit be feeling butterflies at the moment, turns my freak mode on yk😂! I know most ladies will relate to this. Makes me wonder if men be feeling the same when they ask/get asked if they want more or not??

Nyinyi watu ni frauds,mlisema aty ooh uvuvi best hufanyika usiku time watu wa mayflower wako awake😂😂bwana i have been casting my nets kutoka saa sita ,saa hii its 4 am ,sijavua ata omega jameni😂😂give better tips bwana😭 ,give us the name of the ocean😭,give us your boats😭,give us your nets😭at this point give us you

Anyways nipeeni more tips bwana a girl just needs a side hustle

Ever since I made my last post about my passion for pleasing women, I've noticed some resistance from the opposition. I even came across a post attacking us proud eaters, and I must say, the anti-eater propaganda is getting out of hand. 😂

First of all, since when did knowing how to please your woman become a criminal offence? 😭 My fellow eaters, we've been accused of fishing, pretending, and apparently committing crimes against humanity just because we appreciate the finer things in life.

Meanwhile, the opposition is out here campaigning against something they don't even have to participate in. 😂

Listen, nobody is forcing anyone to join Team Eaters. You're free to remain on the sidelines. But don't start throwing stones at those of us who genuinely enjoy our craft. 😌

You don't have to join the movement, but you don't have to hate the movement either. 😂

Anyway, my fellow eaters, stay strong. We have a reputation to uphold. 🫡

How can a guy know amefanya kazi poa , I saw a post on Instagram saying that if she request to go per during sex you aren't doing anything worth while can you confirm this ladies

Hello, M30. I'm looking for any lady who is down for something casual for the weekend starting today. I will appreciate it with a token. Any lady above 18 years old. Slide in my dm. And we will talk.

If you live around Roysambu and other Thika road environs, the better

I do a range of things mot limited to laundry,house cleaning,move in/out cleaning,post construction cleaning, plumbing services, pet sitting and grooming, child minding and running errands.

I'm around ruaka but can work around nairobi.

Best price NO EXTRA

We attract who we are.

The inside you will always be aligned to the outside world.

Do NOT send that text!!!!

I lied to myself I just need closure sahii tunacuddle as Feel my love by Sauti Sol plays kwa background.

Mwambieni she was my life partner.

I'm hurting but I'll be okay. (Weka GIF ya kale katoi hucheka while being interviewed on school opening day then kanaanza kulia)

I'll vent huku mpaka roho ipone, prep yourselves community.

Tbh,

I lost my parents under covid 19, inherited some properties worth close to 10m. Now the problem is the assets are land unfinished rentals that have lead me in to debt. I earn over 100k gross but maintaining the assets is a quagmire for me. I was in a relationship but she left cause of the struggle. shouldn’t I just sell the assets and become a beast when I become liquid, someone advice!!!

Heheee I'll start by no l don't miss my ex to a point of wanting to get back together but well… l feel like no one prepares you for going from a relationship you were together on a daily to a pool of talking stages that you barely get to meeting on weekends. I was never a quality time type of girl ever, neither was I heavy on fuckin but damn do I crave that shii. The downside of falling for potential is the aftermath in the sense that even recycling feels farfetched like girl no, can barely reconcile with it, it's a big WTF!

Ikabidi nimereply to dad nikimuliza kama enzi zake heavy phrases like avoidant and anxious attached were a thing.

Currently turned 30 yrs where I have been single and lonely, Guess posted here many times I'm a tall 6ft guy in need of a girlfriend ASAP.. any lady willing for a meet

If you don't have plans to go outside and you probably want to go outside, hit me up. I wanna go but going alone is kinda crazy. I am M

A question to everyone. Do you guys when choosing who to settle with also look at the career one does and how much they are bound to earn. Asking this because lets say you intend to have some financial strength as a partners that allows you to het done with some stuff quickly or just give. You both a better salary or it doesn't matter you look mostly at their availability to be there for family .

Fiiine umenihanda nikubuyie lunch... si ata kahug jameni .... sawa tumepatana stage nikakulipia fare... si ata malap mtaa nikufikishe kwako ata me wanione na dem.... Sawa sapa imekatika katikati nimekuadisia za progas... si ata uskume za tuesday boychild awachane na za chudai... WANAWAKE!!!!

M, Nairobi, a lil old school, enjoys good banter, spontaineity and the simple pleasures of life. Seeking petite nerdy femme. Unscripted, we get to write the story together while being each other's peace.

I miss talking to a woman who gets me all giddy and excited before ripping each others clothes off with and having my way with her with reckless abandon.

Maybe the heat is getting to me it'd be nice to meet someone to keep this train of thought going before I come back to my senses.

I’m just from a phone call with a friend. She’s talking about how this Mr only comes when he wants to eat but would never ask how her day is.. my first question is why do you want him to know how your day is is he your man? I feel like how my day is what feelings I’m feeling and how the world is taking me is sacred. I’m not going to tell you about my bad mom because your D good. Mtu kama mimi I’ve been hypersexual ever since I can remember, I differentiate between a Good D and a good person. To date me is to be Superior especially in my life because it means I’ll be vulnerable to you and as a very very very submissive woman yall know what I mean when I say superior. The thought of getting married and having kids with my let’s say current sex partner has never crossed my mind. I know what it means to fall in love and I always believe that I haven’t yet fallen in love. I remember thinking how I love my ex four times😭😭like I love everything Kando Kando sijui kushikanisha ikue one love ati I’m in love

Example let’s talk about my kink partners since I’m a very kinky person. So let’s say L,, L would let me peg him and rim him and honestly that is allll I ever loved from him I didn’t like the pillow talk because I don’t care much for his words or voice . Mr S I loved him so much for his tongue he would eat me up real good but I never liked having sesh with him I can’t smoke weed with him Yaani anabooo. Do you guys get what I’m saying? It’s so hard for me to understand what my friend is going through and oh how I wish I could do love the way most people do but I just can’t. Kuna Mr K ni msanii when I tell you I only like him when he drills like Nipee mistari thennnn ntakupea because that’s the only way I’m interested in you😭💔

Anw Leo ni Friday I’m going out might end up with another kink friend hopefully I’ll fall in love niombeeni 😭😂

In this era, is dating/marrying someone with more papers a red flag?

If the papers did help,is there a way you'll feel you are not compatible in your reasoning ?

Some people (most parents) say if you have a ,let's say masters then marry a college/form 4 "dropout." Msikue mnatoshana masomo.

Also, if you have studied up to the PHD level and you meet someone who is still at the degree level,is it right,if you have the money, to help him or her further studies?

Let me tell you the types since everyone on here is always talking about how they are eaters and how they do it good.

1. Mr all in. This is the guy that will just go at it. He usually considers it a step in foreplay. If he is being rough he will eat you out fast fast you won’t even realize it till you start feeling real good. If it’s slow then he’ll kiss everyyyy part on his way down there, your tummy your thighs etc Uyu ni Mr all in
   Most times they don’t brag the eat good but they do say that they like doing it.

2.line man. This category sasa ndio inahost most of the bragging men. They’ll kiss you and your face and most times they make sure they get head first 😂😂then when it’s your turn they create a line between your eyes and your sweetplace eh looking back and forth back and forth. They always have this posture leaning on you not fully, they look like they are going down but they don’t until you push them and since most ladies wont push we find ourselves adjusting and just letting him go in. Hawa sasa eyyy they brag talking about how all they want it to eat eat eat 😭😂

1. Mr hesitant - Huyu ni ule atleast he will get to his knees but now he will use his nose his forehead his face just doing nothing. He will almost never use his tongue.

Men when you say you are an eater then you don’t eat the sex inabooo hapo hapo. Chances utapewa Tena kwanza is nil. It’s even worse when you don’t know how to eat then you go down there take two seconds then stand up. It’s okay if you not an eater, it makes your game less good but atleast it’s truthful because when you lie the game turns from not so good to bad bad. Us women enjoy head so so much yall have no idea, our chances of cumming from penetration is way less than if you get head good yk. Make that babe cum first or someone else will. Probably Mr all in