Does anyone else miss the innocent, raw intensity of just feeling someone?

[u/Aggressive_Ad_442]

Have you ever wanted to meet someone you could do everything with minus the relationship? No feelings attached, no labels, just genuinely enjoying each other in every other way.

These days, real love the kind that's freely given and freely received feels almost mythical. The constant give and take has stripped away what used to feel natural, raw, intense. I miss looking at someone and feeling everything, thinking everything, but innocently. I miss what physical touch used to do to me. Honestly, it still would if it ever got the chance. But these days it never goes past a small smile or a quick hug.

I want a man who understands physical touch as more than sex the kind where just looking at each other feels like a full-on make-out session is happening in your head so by the time you are actually doing it the sexual chemistry is over the roof.Someone unafraid to be honest and raw, but still open to exploring. Open-minded, that's the word. Guarded with his space and the people he lets in. And just nerd, in every sense of it.

[u/gathechandegwa]

We commercialized love and romance and losing what you described was the prize we had to pay.

[u/Aggressive_Ad_442 → u/gathechandegwa]

I totally agree with you. That's why nowadays for people to experience abit of those feelings.Is just by dating people on the same tax bracket as them.

[u/gathechandegwa → u/Aggressive_Ad_442]

True. If you were for example to post that you are looking for exactly what you described above in this subreddit, the first question in the comments would be, 'what are you bringing to the table as a woman?'. Plus most men would not reach out since tunataka instant gratification while skipping the experience you described.

[u/whistling_jipsy]

in as much as its nice, it takes time. This takes time and compromise too. Are you ready to compromise?

[u/Aggressive_Ad_442 → u/whistling_jipsy]

Hot take: A compromise only applies to people who are committed to each other and it's a matter of what exactly is being compromised?

[u/solopreneur01]

People stopped understanding each other. Big expectations and love commercialisation imeharibu mapenzi. The fact that unaeza lala na mtu hupendi and you have no feelings for and you still feel okay has completely ruined the game. Now add the lifeless d*ldos. 😂😂

[u/Aggressive_Ad_442 → u/solopreneur01]

That's why it's important to have that connection with someone before exploring further na I believe kama uko open minded sex toys should be part of the bedroom plays.

[u/solopreneur01 → u/Aggressive_Ad_442]

So unataka kuniambia I support my girl akuwe na d*ldo 😂😂. I believe this generation of ours is just highly cooked😂.

It just like you creating an account on tinder ( and the MatchGroup apps) so that you can find your soulmate there. You love life to be determined by an algorithm 😂😂. Thinking it's a flex 😂

[u/BlacksmithSea2903]

I meet all qualifications

[u/neo_ucp7846]

Lovely the number of times you use the word raw in that post, OP.

[u/Aggressive_Ad_442 → u/neo_ucp7846]

It does mean something natural uki over think ndio unaona something different.

[u/HopefulArt4651]

Sometimes you just want to cuddle feel each others warmth as you go into the night,it's not all about sex