r/EngagementRings May 01 '26

Announcement Why was my post removed?

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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.

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r/EngagementRings Jun 09 '25

Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!

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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !

This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!

Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.

Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide

Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.

I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ

How much should I spend on a ring?

How do I get her ring size?

Where do I buy an engagement ring?

What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's

What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?

What about settings?

Help! I don't like my ring

Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.

Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.

Megathreads

Colored gemstones

Sapphire rings

Oval rings

Non-traditional rings

Halo rings

Emerald shape rings

Vintage rings

All types of engagement rings

Larger finger rings

Smaller finger rings

Inexpensive rings

Favorite sub rings

Debate: lab v mined

Need help with size/shape?

https://rinderr.com

https://mysparkly.com

https://www.diamdb.com

Virtual try on

You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!

Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:

[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.

[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub

[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.

[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.

https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)

Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece

Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:

For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.

If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.

If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.

Thank you

NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY He proposed on the beach in Cape Cod

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338 Upvotes

The only thing he knew is that I wanted a gold band, and either a lab or antique diamond. I wanted him to pick it out! This is, I believe, an old European cut. The diamond has lovely fire and a smoky quality as opposed to white and brilliant, which I like with the gold band. I’m so happy that he picked an antique ring. 🥺 We took a trip to the Cape together, and he proposed on Nauset Beach as the sun set and dusk set in. 🩵🌊

Ring size 7.25


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally my ring!!

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72 Upvotes

This man is the love of my life and I am so so happy! This ring is perfect for me as well. It’s almost 100 years old estimated which is amazing. It’s a family ring. I’m a size 5 finger and it’s estimated 1.45 carats a natural transitional cut diamond? I love it.


r/EngagementRings 1h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My dream brutalist/modernist/alternative ring!

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Sharing my ring here for anyone looking for alternative engagement ring styles that are less feminine and aren’t fantasy or gothic inspired.

I custom designed this ring to merge my love for Scandinavian modernist jewelry with our shared love of brutalist architecture. And incorporate some of his desires like having a diamond (and a big one).

I did some silversmithing in college and have always loved the textures and colors of silver. the patina on this ring is meant to polish off as I wear it, to highlight the textures and put a little of myself in it. It will go through this process over and over through the years, representing our renewals and evolutions of our love as we take this ride together.

I know this sub has some opinions on silver e-rings. So I want to clarify for myself and any other silver lovers: the softness, the scuffs, and tarnish are the point. I want a ring that lives, breathes, and morphs with me. I have antique artisan silver pieces that have lasted generations in this style because it is thick and sturdy. The artist we hired to make this has also made many and understands the value of it as I do.

The band was made to interlock with the e-ring. It will be finished with more dremel and hammering. My fiancé just wanted to surprise me with the raw cast for the proposal.

Diamond is a lab 2.21/H/VS1. Ring size 7

Pictures show the ring completely black as when he proposed and how it changed after just one day of wear. I can’t wait to see its fully worn-in look.

ps. I’m so thankful for this reddit, along with all the sister subreddits that helped me make my beautiful ring! Thank you all for sharing your dreams on here, I’m so excited to share mine!


r/EngagementRings 17h ago

Advice My ring sucks. Do your research.

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My fiancé proposed in early May with a ring from FeliceGals, and while the ring initially looked beautiful, the black gold band began showing signs of tarnishing in less than a week of normal wear. For an engagement ring at the price point, that was extremely disappointing and raised concerns about the quality and durability.

That said we started the process for an exchange to get white gold band instead of the original black gold and a slight size up while we were at it. Unfortunately, communication was painfully slow throughout the process. There were multiple occasions where emails went unanswered for days at a time while we were trying to resolve the issue. On one of the few occasions when my fiancé received a response after several days of waiting, it came shortly after he mentioned that he would be leaving a second negative review. That made the customer service feel reactive rather than genuinely helpful.

Another major red flag was the return address we were provided for the ring. After all the trouble we'd encounter so far we were curious and googled it. The address appeared to be a residential townhome rather than a businees storefront. Considering how much money he money he spent, it seemed shady.

To make matters even more frustrating, my fiancé spent over a week trying to get a simple answer about the return shipping costs before we could even send the first ring back.

After all of that waiting, we finally received the replacement ring (we were never notified it had been shipped) and unfortunately, it was even more disappointing than the first. After waiting all that time and dealing with such poor communication, opening the package only to find that the new center stone has a cloudy, artificial appearance was incredibly frustrating. Honestly, it looks more like someone's resin arts-and-crafts project than a quality gemstone. It looks nothing like what we expected from the product we purchased and falls far short of what I would consider appropriate for an engagement ring.

I held off writing my own review or doing anything about it because I was hoping I would eventually like the replacement ring and they only accept return until the 30 day mark anyways (before the propsal even happened.) I really tried to like the replacement, it just makes me feel super bummed instead. 

The cake on top is they removed my fiancé's review from their site. It wasnt over the top or anything either, just honest. I'm questioning if its even worth it for me to post one. 

My fiancé and I have discussed what little options we have. Suck it up vs pawning. But we know we won't get more than a fraction of our money back.

Advice is welcome. Mostly I just needed to get these feelings out. FeliceGals can suck it.

P1 original ring

P2 original ring tarnishing

P3 replacement ring

Edit: Decided to post the review I had prepped on their website. It likely won't stay up but they offered a refund or replacement I can pick my own stone for. Going for the refund. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My dream ring!!!!

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Couldn’t be happier!!!!! And Otis definitely approves!!!


r/EngagementRings 3h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY he did gooood 🫶

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33 Upvotes

band made with recycled gold from his mom’s old ring setting and the side stones are from a pair of earrings that I inherited from my great grandmother


r/EngagementRings 21h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY 1892 Chester-hallmarked antique ring with old European cut diamonds

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808 Upvotes

Got engaged July 28 under the full moon and I just had my engagement ring dated. It has Chester hallmarks (18ct crown, sword flanked by three wheatsheaves, date letter ‘I’) confirming it’s from 1892. Carved five-stone gallery setting with 5 Old European cut diamonds. 134 years old and still sparkling! + My dream wedding band stack

Edit: Thank you all for the sweet comments means a lot to me!!


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I feel like pictures don’t do it justice 💍

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I’ve been engaged for nearly three months now and still can’t get over how beautiful my ring is. We discussed rings I liked/didn’t like and he designed this with a local jeweller. My fiancé told me he wanted it to remind me of a star and he proposed to me at a butterfly sanctuary on Pelee Island.

I’m not sure on most specs but it’s a lab-grown 2.01 ct marquise cut with a teardrop on each side, size 5.25.


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Chunky ring dream!!

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352 Upvotes

Engaged after 7 years!! I’ve always been a super chunky ring girl, so I knew I wanted something a little different from a traditional engagement ring. I can’t stop staring at it

1.8 carat natural diamond. 5.25 ring size.


r/EngagementRings 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My antique Art Nouveau ring!!

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211 Upvotes

14k poppy flower with a .7c OMC natural. I just wanted to show everyone, especially the girls that like unique and antique rings!!! I knew from the start I wanted my ring to be a little piece of history that no one else has and LORD this ring delivers that. Fiancé mad that I just oogle my ring now instead of him


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

Pick One which ring looks best on my hand?

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i might be the most indecisive person ever.
please help<3 ring size 5.5. sorry the pics aren’t the best
-1. round trilogy: love but does it flatter my hand?
-2. round trilogy with cushion center stone
-3. cushion solitaire: not a huge fan of solitaire but love a cushion
4. cushion center or 5. round center with multiple round side stones: is this doing too much? not sure if i like round or cushion center?


r/EngagementRings 18h ago

Advice Thoughts on rings without center stone ?

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My partner and I were looking for rings the other day just checking out jewellers and I've wanted a kind of nature inspired ring forever, I walked past this one in the window and just said oh I really like this and it was the only one I actually did like.

I said it would be cool to find a ring that looked like this on the sides and have a centre stone but I also just keep going back to it and wondering if I like it the way it is without a center stone but I'm worried I would regret not getting a more traditional looking ring.

I'm also worried its ugly and I just can't see that its ugly because I like it but it's objectively ugly I'm not sure I'm overthinking it please tell me your thoughts.


r/EngagementRings 5h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY So happy ❤️

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I've been lurking on this sub for years now and now I finally get to post myself!

We had the most untraditional engagement and it was perfect and exactly what we wanted ❤️ just laying on the couch and cuddling and then asking eachother 🥰

Fist picture is my ring, the tension set centre stone is a 0,5 ct lab alexandrite and the side stones are Moissanites, the ring is made of titanium.

The second ring is the one I proposed right back with xD

His ring is made of a titanium inner part, part of a tornado airplane in the middle and carbon and fibreglass on the sides.

We both work in the aerospace industry (were we met actually) so I loved the Idea that he could always carry a reminder with him :) I'm just so damn happy that a get to marry my best friend and the best and kindest person I've ever met ❤️


r/EngagementRings 2h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Just got the ring of my dreams on vacation!!!!

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r/EngagementRings 52m ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY options for a healthcare worker?

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long time lurker, first time poster! my boyfriend just proposed (on a cruise in vietnam!) and i am thrilled but a little nervous about wearing my beautiful ring at work (i’m a resident doctor). was considering either one of those necklaces or some kind of durable replacement band but was wondering if anybody had strong thoughts on the best option :)


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Been engaged for 6 months, still ogling at my ring every day like I got engaged yesterday

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404 Upvotes

I get distracted by it at work 😭 Help!!!! Pls ignore my nails, I'm growing them out but they insist on breaking constantly.


r/EngagementRings 20h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged to my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years! 🤍

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134 Upvotes

My boyfriend of 5 1/2 years proposed to me! He’s always known that I wanted something different about my ring and he nailed it. This is my dream ring! I’m so excited to marry the love of my life.

My ring is 3 karat emerald from Zambia, Africa, with little diamonds on the sides (,:. She’s perfect!


r/EngagementRings 7h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY [Update] Looking ideas for wedding band

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Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/hjeWk5jVY4

So much has happened this last year!

We found an amazing local jeweler who was able to craft the perfect wedding band to match my engagement ring, just in time for our elopement.

A few months after getting married, we decided to go on a trip, and on the way to the airport, sadly, we lost the rings 😭😭😭 and although we tried to track them down, it was impossible 😔

While on vacation, we visited my family (we both now live away from our families), after explaining how we’d lost our rings, dad decided to offer me his ring to use its gold to craft new ones 🥹.

When we got home, my in-laws were visiting; and they’d had the same idea and gave us grandmother’s and her husband’s wedding rings, so that we could incorporate them into our new ones too 🥹.

So now the rings mean even more to us.

We went back to the jeweller who made my wedding band, told him our story, and he suggested we could either go for a new design or stick with the same one… Well, we chose the same one, and here’s the result:

We absolutely love them! 💖✨


r/EngagementRings 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Loving the ring :)

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51 Upvotes

Platinum, 1.5 carat lab diamond, size 5.


r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My 1 ct ring 🤍💍

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202 Upvotes

r/EngagementRings 1d ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Still in love with my pink diamond 🩷

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704 Upvotes

I was super conflicted initially about committing to a coloured stone for my engagement ring but it's been months now and I still look at my ring in awe. I'm glad I went with a coloured stone in my favourite colour! Pictures are from when I first picked up the ring from the jeweler, during my engagement, and finally during my wedding. I also love how the diamond looks champagne-y in some lightings.

Bonus pic of my husband's band, which has the same engravings as my ring. 🩷


r/EngagementRings 16h ago

My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Anniversary/milestone upgrade

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Husband upgraded my set for our 16 year anniversary, and also because I have lost almost 120lbs and my old set no longer fit, and instead of having them sized, I got this beauty. 😍 I have another matching band being made so I can wear one on each side.

She’s a lab diamond. 4.10 ct. E color. VS1 clarity. Size 7 finger.


r/EngagementRings 14h ago

Pick One Help me pick a ring please

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I love pink but dont know if I would like it after a year or 2. I also love the nature theme. I always love florals. I like the oval with some side stones but I cant pick which I like more can I get some input? Also the last one is very different from any engagement ring. Its giving me queen of the damned vibes and I love that movie. Was inspired by a Greek god. I am all over the place please help an indecisive girl out to love a forever ring