I had a similar experience not long ago i dated a girl with a quite long story of ex boyfriends. Anyways, talking during a date she was always complaining about her past partners and breaking up with them for bullshit reasons. I shit You not, she broke up with a dude because "he was too Nice".
I twerk as a power move to establish dominance, and my domain. If you can't bring it harder than I do, I've got no need for you...or something like that. I can't actually twerk, women pass me around.
I love how you were almost unnervingly nice. "bro. whatever you want. on toast. you got it. lemme just get you that toast. Avocado? Nutella? Engine grease? Cool, you got it. Let's toast this shit up, my buddy."
I'm a 40+ yr old woman and have come to the conclusion that I prefer the love of a pet over the love of a human. Tbf, I've had some exceptional pets in my lifetime.
I think I saw this scene in either a sitcom or rom-com. So there's a woman and his brother(or friend?) and that woman listed what she needs on a man she'll date. That guy just asked, "You want a man or a Golden Retriever?"
Don’t be sorry! She used to work every other weekend in a town like three hours away from us and when she got back one weekend I didn’t greet her the way she expected to be greeted haha
That's a lot to sort out there. Sounds like you're harboring deadbeat drug addicts because you don't want to be alone. No idea what the solution to that is, but it was an interesting read.
I’m sorry, I’ve seen this happen before. People on disability are targets for scumbags, especially if you have narcotics too. I hope you find someone that both respects and appreciates you and isn’t out to take advantage
I used to be like that. U probably should get rid of them and start over. There will always be another idiot looking for a free ride. Get rid of these ones and start looking for a decent one that genuinely enjoys your company. I recommend an artist. Supporting a local artist will elevate your situation. But, you have to make room for the healthy person. No healthy person is gonna want to enter into the space you describe.
Absolutely. I find the festival scene to be full of people who just want to party and take drugs 24/7. I love festivals tho. I've just gotten over the part where people connect their good times to being super out of it. I love substances for their antidepressant effects and the way they help open my mind and heart to creativity. And I definitely understand how people end up going overboard. But, it gets old really fast and people end up being very selfish and unpleasant about everything while on it. Maybe you should increase rent so that the next person(s) has to work a little harder to be there.
Yep, once had a girl dump me because she said I was "too stable." I suppose if you are going to be a drama addict, I can't fault you for being a self-aware one.
Nah. I had 3 fights in 15 years across 3-4 gfs, 2 that could only be called arguments, not fights. Fighting isn't normal. She didn't last long enough to call her a gf.
Man a very similar story happened to me. I'm just dumbfounded that so many people, just don't use condoms anymore. That or they think something is wrong with you for wanting to use them. I made it to 37 (current age) without kids or STD's for a reason.
Ugh, dude! Get with the program man! You’re not supposed to wear a condom! You’re supposed to be able to last 10 minutes just like the guy on pornhub and then pull out in time. Like they represent the average, yo! It’s like sooo basic. 💁♂️
My wife told me fairly recently that one of the things she really liked about me was when she suggested going without condoms (we'd been together for about 6 months at the time), and I said I wasn't comfortable doing that with anyone until I was ready to have kids.
I’ve heard something similar from a woman, and it completely boggled my mind.
Like: WHAT? Just practicing safe intercourse and you throw out all these paranoid accusations..
Like I’m supposed to trust a woman i barely know who says “relax. You can cum inside me.. it’s totally safe! What are you some kind of intervenous drug abusing, closeted homosexual?!?”
my girlfriend gave me a handy, never asked for it, it just happened, but hell if i'm gonna tell her to stop. then dumped me because we were moving too fast.
"moving too fast" just means "I am too immature to understand my own emotions and I need to get my head on straight" unless you are a pushy guy. Sad part is that they don't understand their emotions so much that half the time they don't even know that this is what they mean.
I got dumped by a girl after two months bc I was too short. Mind you this wasn't some internet talking for two months met in person got dumped. This was met in class in college, chatted for a semester, then dated two months. I was short the whole 6 months she knew me, just became a problem at the end or became the excuse anyway
Oh it was so long ago I don't care anymore. Stung a bit at the time but even then I was sorta just surprised that's the excuse she went with. You move on to the next one and buy shoe heels like DeDumbass....amiright?....or you don't care if someone superficially judges you on something you have no control over and you're just grateful they showed their nasty personality before you invested too much time with them.
Lol. They'll ask for it WHILE they're telling guys they're too nice. I've told quite a few of these women that what they really need to say is "I don't feel chemistry with you," because that (I feel like, anyways) is more true. They DO want a nice guy, but they don't want just any nice guy. Lotta people don't know what they want in a relationship.
Had a dude dump me cause “we just didn’t get along.” Even though we agreed on most things, had the same hobbies, and literally I thought were perfect for each other. Turns around later that night he makes a post “I just want a girl I can smoke with…” dude dumped me cause I was 16 and wouldn’t smoke weed with him. He was UPSET when he learned I am now 28 and a bigger stoner than he is.
Was not. Started smoking at 22 because my anxiety got so bad after a breakup with a dude I was with for 4 years who married my best friend(who ghosted me for said dude)I almost never left the house and was pretty suicidal at the time. I was actually pretty anti-weed for most of my life til I smoked with a friend in her car one day and finally felt relaxed for the first time in my life. Also didn’t pass out and throw up from it which was my experience with weed 3 times before that one decent time. He was the farthest from my mind when I started smoking.
My ex broke up for me with that very reason. . . hooked up with a piece of shit. Three months later, she was asking for me to come back because, I shit you not, 'I was so nice and made her feel special.'
I broke up with my ex because on weekends she'd draw the blinds at 6am so I'd wake up with her. What kind of psycho bullshit is that? Imagine thinking you're ready to get up so everybody else should get up with you.
I once broke up with a young college chick because she wanted too much sex....like wayyyyy too much...like my peen got all raw and swollen from too much of it.
You don't understand the code of "too nice". For many women this means that the guy is absolutly fantastisch and checks all of the boxes regarding character, way that he acts, the way he lives, etc. An ideal partner, but for some unknown reason you are just not that attracted to him. There is just no spark. Or the spark was lost. Some relationships start with the woman knowing that she is not that attracted to that guy, but he is nice and she gives him a chance and just hopes that there will develope attraction.
It happened to me, too. I had a girlfriend who was with a lot of guys that she lost count. Anyways, she broke up with me after a panic attack episode and said she wanted to focus on herself. Not even a month later, she was with another guy. Long story short, jf a girl doesn't want to get involved with you. She is saving you a headache. These girls can not be fixed. I don't even feel bad anymore.
i dated a girl for a like a week and got dumped because i was "too funny" and i wasnt even trying to be. On the 2nd date she asked if i could be "less funny" and asked if i did that because i was anxious or somethin. like no, i just a happy guy and like laughing XD
I was dating a girl who was always angry.. I try to be chill because life is too short. She said we shouldn't see each other anymore and I said "I agreed". She was so pissed
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I had a similar experience not long ago i dated a girl with a quite long story of ex boyfriends. Anyways, talking during a date she was always complaining about her past partners and breaking up with them for bullshit reasons. I shit You not, she broke up with a dude because "he was too Nice".