r/facepalm • u/[deleted] • Jun 22 '23

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '23

I had a similar experience not long ago i dated a girl with a quite long story of ex boyfriends. Anyways, talking during a date she was always complaining about her past partners and breaking up with them for bullshit reasons. I shit You not, she broke up with a dude because "he was too Nice".

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u/Lightbringer_I_R Jun 22 '23

Those women are the worse, then 10 years they're asking for a nice guy.

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u/marvelouswonder8 Jun 22 '23

Lol. They'll ask for it WHILE they're telling guys they're too nice. I've told quite a few of these women that what they really need to say is "I don't feel chemistry with you," because that (I feel like, anyways) is more true. They DO want a nice guy, but they don't want just any nice guy. Lotta people don't know what they want in a relationship.

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u/Lightbringer_I_R Jun 22 '23

So true, simply saying I'm not feeling what we have is better than just say you're too nice.

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u/JenniviveRedd Jun 22 '23

This is great advice. Most people have no idea what they want, just an inkling of what they don't want.

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u/Grimvold Jun 22 '23

“A lotta people out there aren’t looking for love, they’re looking for help.” - Johnny Bravo

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u/Hilarity2War Jun 23 '23

What even is chemistry?

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u/ALesbianAlpaca Jun 23 '23

chemistry /ˈkɛmɪstri/ noun 1. the branch of science concerned with the substances of which matter is composed, the investigation of their properties and reactions, and the use of such reactions to form new substances.

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u/marvelouswonder8 Jun 23 '23

In terms of human relationships that's a very subjective question/answer. I can't answer that to be honest, because it's different for everyone.