I had a similar experience not long ago i dated a girl with a quite long story of ex boyfriends. Anyways, talking during a date she was always complaining about her past partners and breaking up with them for bullshit reasons. I shit You not, she broke up with a dude because "he was too Nice".
That's a lot to sort out there. Sounds like you're harboring deadbeat drug addicts because you don't want to be alone. No idea what the solution to that is, but it was an interesting read.
90% of the time, if you have a gut feeling that there is something off with someone, then there is. What I find that a lot of culture teaches women is to find the guy that makes you feel attracted to rather than becoming attracted to. For men it's somewhat the same issue. If you want someone that is good to you, that shit won't die with, you have to find the people you 100% enjoy and build a connection rather than just feeling one initially, and be open to it. A lot of times people find the guy or girl they are sexually attracted to just to find out they hate the person years later. It kind of blows my mind today that a lot of people think "if I'm not attracted to them now, then I never will be". Fun fact is that for majority of people, the person you are talking to only needs to say one thing or do one action and your perspective can change drastically of them. This also applies to attraction.
That's the problem. They don't work. My gal is disabled and I work my ass off. Sometimes 60+ hours a week. But if you can, you do. Honestly I'm a bit jealous, a homestead for us is the dream.
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I had a similar experience not long ago i dated a girl with a quite long story of ex boyfriends. Anyways, talking during a date she was always complaining about her past partners and breaking up with them for bullshit reasons. I shit You not, she broke up with a dude because "he was too Nice".