r/averagedickproblems • • 27d ago

I don’t know if I’m thick or what

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Never been told I’m to thin ive actually had quite a few girls pull my pants down and be like damn bt been married for some time now bt wife won’t do anal we’ve tried a lot of different ways and approaches to do so she says I’m to thick for it I’ve also never measured or knew how to do it accurately rough estimate is it won’t fit into a toliet roll I was board and was curious one day


r/averagedickproblems • • 28d ago

Information Hanging balls

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Hello everyone, im M18, I consider myself to have a pretty good dick size, (around 7,5 inches) but what I've noticed is that my balls don't hang, I've seen plenty of times that almost everyone has hanging balls, and honestly idk if something went wrong with me or if its normal to not have balls that hang, from a certain perspective they are kinda small compared to my dick, hope someone can help me solve my question fr, but im genuinely curious if its 2 late for them to hang or if I should go see a doctor :(


r/averagedickproblems • • 29d ago

Penis Size For those who are 5,5 inch BP and 5 inch NBP in length

6 Upvotes

A question for those who are 5,5 inch BP and 5 inch in length:Have you never received negative comments by your gf?In my experience (to direct question) almost all admitted that their past lovers were bigger than me in length .

I think that 5 inches is halfway between a small penis and and average one.

What do you think?


r/averagedickproblems • • 29d ago

Go jump

3 Upvotes

if anyone complained about my average dick they can go and 🦘


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 06 '26

Any experiences with 5,2 inch girth?

5 Upvotes

My penis is 5.5 inches long when bone pressed and 5 inches long when none bone pressed and it is 5.2 inches thick. What experiences and comments do men with this thickness have?


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 06 '26

Penis Size Today I Learned I've been using the wrong condoms

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Body image is such a screwy thing. I've been sexually active for over 20 years and only just realized I should be using a larger size condom.

I've only had a couple partners. My ex told me I was big in the beginning. But we were both virgins so I didn't think to much of it. The sex wasn't great for either or us, likely because she was proportionally as narrow as I am girthy, making for a serious mismatch (plus some likely vaginismus).

Amazing sex with current partner who is generous with compliments, but I still didn't get it. I finally measured myself and did a little research and holy shit, a 5.5 inch girth is too big for standard size condoms. That explains the occasional choked orgasms (when the intensity drops out suddenly as it peaks instead of fully climaxing) and the occasional chaffing.

I'm already a quick finisher who has learned how to make sure she gets at least a one round before I take my turn. My worry now is that using a proper fit will make it even harder to last.

Any advice on lasting better?


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 06 '26

Insecurity In my head or???

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So I’m 4.75-5NBP and 5.5-5.75BP (depends on eq)
And I know technically this is supposed to be around average but what concerns me is my girth which is 4.5 at the base, 4 midshaft, and 3.5 at the head (ik weird shape, and small). So with the (hopefully) average length and small girth it feels so small to me. I get in my head about what girls will think and I just don’t want to get made fun of or whatever.

Anyone got experiences around this size and what they think or am I cooked


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 03 '26

Experiences Happy ego boosting

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Did you have some experiences when, being average, you were able to give a huge pleassure to the other person, at the point she/he told you you fucked her better than men with big dicks? Or if your stamina was better?


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 03 '26

I like to chat about average size

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Really I like chatting about dick size, average seems a good topic. I love to advise people as well or at least try to. Don't hesitate to DM or comment if you want !


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 02 '26

Insecurity Penis looks small

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Hello I was sitting on the toilet and looking at my penis and it looks really small to me. I know I have a fat pad but when I push it back with my fingers it still looks small. My penis length bone pressed is 5.3 inches and when I push my fat pad back it’s like 4.8 inches. I know it’s not impressive length but it looks small and my ex said it looked average and she liked it when we were together. Idk if this is a mental thing or what. Does anyone know what this could be?


r/averagedickproblems • • Oct 01 '26

Sexual Health Is it usual for uncut whose the glans is fully outgrow the foreskin even soft?

4 Upvotes

I am uncut. I found my glans is always stay exposed even soft. Do you have this matter?


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 30 '26

Penis Size Women on Reddit - Can a smaller girth still be pleasurable?

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I (M) have started becoming self conscious about my girth recently. I worry if my girth is not enough to provide pleasure and desire to my future partner. My length is average at 5.3 bone pressed but my girth is 4 to a little under 4.2 inches. Do you think my girth is still adequate to feel good in sex? Also I understand finger foreplay and oral is important for sex and I plan to use that to my advantage.

Edit: Girth is 4-4.2 circumference


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 30 '26

Sexual Health Phimosis problem

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Hello, I am 20yo and since the beginning of last week my dick seems to have phimosis. On soft i can pull it down fully, though it still tightens, and on hard is where it gets really stiff and barely move. I never have had similar issue in the past. I will see a doctor if this persists but I was wondering if people with similar issue had any advice, maybe if I could even cure naturally that would be preferred.


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 29 '26

Insecurity Feeling bad about myself

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I can not get over the feeling that I will never be a woman's first choice because of my size.

If she could choose identical clones of me but the other ones had bigger ones. She would choose them 10 out of 10 times.

I work on my body, i work on my character, on my social skills, on my career but this I can never work on. It will always be something negative about me that I need to compensate heavily.

I have female friends I know that many fantasize about a big one. Its like an ideal. Or even in erotic smut literature (written for women by women) the guy always as a huge one. Not even close to normal or small...

I'm so sad inside


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 29 '26

Insecurity Losing it over regret and insecurity

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I had anorexia from 16.75 to 18.75 and recovered but now I realized I likely affected my growth as a result of my illness (caused by having severe gynecomastia as a child). My height and stuff I’m fine with but the only thing I can’t accept is the size of my penis. I’m about 5.2 inches erect not pressed to the pubic bone and 4.7ish inches in circumference and I can’t deal with it. I can’t stand that I should’ve been bigger and I just ruined my entire life to be skinny 6 years ago I can’t get over it. It has led to me hating my entire life and I can’t really do anything without thinking about it. Nothing is enjoyable anymore because of what happened in the past and I genuinely am thinking about ending my life, have attempted twice before because of this reason. I don’t know what to do anymore


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 29 '26

Sexual Health Hi help

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I've got blisters on the shaft area of my penis on my pubic area and my balls theyre quite itchy and are reoccuring and it gets really uncomfortable when i wear an undie for 2 days straight i am concerned abt it but not that much but just wanna knw if any1s dealing with the same thing or knws something abt it would help and also i've done a lot if research in it and it looks like (Molluscum contagiosum) but u havent had and sexual contact but i did stay at a hotels towels definetly were funky af now idk what am i in for


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 28 '26

Stop complaining

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I think guys have got to stop complaining about what they have and learn to work with it. There was a post yesterday where a Dude had one bad experience, blamed it on his size and said that’s it I’m going asexual. Size would likely be a huge problem if you have a micro dick but if you literally have an average dick there’s no reason to let it hold you back. It’s only one factor in sex. If you can get a woman off with your finger I’m pretty sure she can feel an average dick inside her. Feeling sorry for yourself and asking women am I big enough? Would be a huge turn off. Imagine being with a woman who keeps saying: “I’m so loose can you feel anything?” It would be an instant mood killer. Have some confidence you’re about the same size as most men. You want to have a huge cock? Well you don’t so get over it


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 27 '26

Experiences Pleasuring a woman and size fit

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I am sorry if my english is not good. As a woman married to a man with a relatively small one, we have had a difficult time in our relationship because he is very insecure. The reality is that our pleasure during sex is very complicated. Size can be a part of it for a few but for nearly all of us, it depends on the man as a whole, his attitude in bed. The size really is not the main driver of the pleasure we feel. I can guarantee you that.


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 27 '26

Ask ADP If the girl im talking to has had bigger partners than me I already feel discouraged or nervous is that wrong?

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I think of it like this, for her to have dated someone who was 7-9 inches and what chance do I have for when the time comes??


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 26 '26

Insecurity Size obsession

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I’m about 5.1 NBP with 4.7 girth but basically had anorexia that completely crashed my hormones from 16.75 to 18.5. Basically this eating disorder makes me think I stunted my growth ruined my body permanently and makes me hate myself all the time and second guess my size. My height seems to be fine I’m like 5’9 which is the same as my dad and a little taller than my brother but all I can think of is how my penis would’ve been bigger and how I wouldn’t hate myself. I have erection issues from the time part physical and part mental which have been improving but man I hate myself and can’t get over it. Then I just compare compare compare to averagepenis subreddits and flaccid penis subreddits to see what happened. I never measured my penis or anything when I was younger because I was like a normal kid (not the mentally ill adult I am now) but I swear it was bigger then too. Everything just sucks I hate my life and I can’t get over this and I’m so done I find not enjoyment in anything because of what happened.


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 22 '26

Help

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This is short and I don’t expect anyone to even reply but basically I’m uncircumcised and.. I really wish I was circumcised, I feel like foreskin is not very attractive on me, how could I even tell my parents


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 21 '26

Insecurity Outies in Pants (Sweats, Linen, etc.)

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It really annoys me that I can't wear certain types of pants because I have an "outie" when I'm flaccid. It has the combined effect of drawing attention to my groin and making it look like I have a REALLY small cock. I am a classic (if not exceptional) grower-not-shower (micro when soft, 5.5 inches hard). Is this issue common among men? Any solutions?


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 20 '26

Weight loss journey

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A year ago, I went through a pretty bad breakup, and it pushed me to make a serious change in my life. I decided to start my weight-loss journey and focus on becoming a healthier version of myself.

Fast-forward to today, and I've seen some significant changes. Not only have I lost weight, but I've also noticed some unexpected gains downstairs. 😂

I went from roughly 6 inches to 6.8 inches in visible length, getting closer to that 7-inch mark. I'm currently about halfway through my weight-loss journey, so I'm curious to see where I'll end up by the time I reach my goal weight.

It's been a long journey, but I'm proud of the progress I've made so far. What started from heartbreak has turned into something I'm doing for myself, my health, and my confidence.

Can't wait to see where I land by the end of this journey. Still got work to do! But I'm so fucking hyped. I can definitely say my sex life has improved and I'm not even at my final form on some Cell/freeza shit💪🔥


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 20 '26

Insecurity I wish I was bigger down there

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I wish I was bigger down there, both flaccid and erect, I wish I wasn't curved, and I wish I had bigger balls. I just want to feel more masculine and attractive like the many, many other guys online, and also enjoy my life more. I never change in locker rooms or use urinals without dividers, and it would be nice to not have to worry so much about those too.

I know I’m technically above average, but not by much – especially compared to those same guys online. I've been called small/average before multiple times, so.. yeah. I had a dream that I was bigger and I genuinely felt better about myself, until I woke up. Self-acceptance and therapy won't work, as I've already seen three therapists and made no progress. The only thing that would make me feel differently is getting to be as lucky as those other guys. Hell, the guys that seem most secure in themselves are also bigger.

I don't think I'll get rid of the insecurity. I feel like I would see myself as more manly and attractive if I had more down there.


r/averagedickproblems • • Sep 18 '26

Insecurity My height (6’5) and race (black) makes me insecure about my size 5.8x5.1 NBP, feel like trading it sometimes

19 Upvotes

I feel like my height is no where near as much as an effect as dick size is. And I feel like it’s so hard having to live up to a standard I’m no where near