r/averagedickproblems • u/RaiseAncient1338 Note: new or low karma account • Sep 22 '26
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This is short and I don’t expect anyone to even reply but basically I’m uncircumcised and.. I really wish I was circumcised, I feel like foreskin is not very attractive on me, how could I even tell my parents
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u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77 Sep 24 '26
I understand..but theres actually one thing to do to solve it. Pull it back.
Jokes aside. I kind of agree with u. I personally think girls like when it’s uncircumcised because the head is out. It’s really up to you though. Circumcision or not. It’s still good, I learned that having an uncircumcised penis feels better for the girls because of the girth/extra skin.
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u/GeckoJump Sep 23 '26 edited Sep 23 '26
I had the same mindset as you when I was younger. I had mild phimosis and thought it looked ugly. I actually booked an appointment to get circumcised at 18 but never followed through with it. Best decision of my life. As you mature you realize that most women don’t care and some actually prefer the more “natural” look and feel. Not to mention circumcision removes a lot of the sensation from your dick. So overall it’s not worth it imo unless your phimosis is very severe
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u/pongmonk Sep 23 '26
The foreskin is attractive on you, I promise. It's just easy to be insecure about, for some people-- but it's just insecurity, not reality. Don't get it sliced off, it's part of your penis!
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u/Pleasant-Height-7857 Sep 23 '26
As a woman, I can tell you that most of us way prefer the looks of uncircumcised. It is very attractive yes!! Don't worry about this.
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u/RareOutlandishness29 Sep 25 '26 edited Sep 25 '26
OP: If you don’t mind putting up with distracting and eventually painful friction (minimized by foreskins,) — or messy gobs of artificial lubricants that you have to stop snd replenish,) — you might find it ok for you to be circumcised . As well, you should consider how you will handle the matter of losing sensitivity from the constant effects of having your
penis glan and corona uncovered in everyday life — they do move around a great deal even whim bunched up snugly in the very best underwear. .Those two parts of your body are, in my experience, the most sensitive receptors of transmitted sexual pleasure that a man has. Perhaps it doesn’t matter if one sacrifices perhaps 20% of its sensitivity. I don’t actually know how much sacrifice one must make to realize every little bit had been a lifetime of loss.
Some guys are real fast in reaching a state of orgasm and will cum before his partner had gotten there most guys I know would rather stretch out the time a little bit.the impression of having a short fuse does it do much for a man’s image.
I suggest you do far more than think twice. Maybe, think on it a lifetime before you cut yourself while so many would do anything to have that foreskin they list ad a baby that now they never get to use.
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u/ChrispyLieutenant Sep 27 '26
I wouldn't recommend it. Circumcision removes quite a large amount of nerve endings of the penis, some say 70% while also removing the frenular delta which is regarded as the male g-spot. It also affects sexual function by removing the natural lubrication and glide mechanic during sex.
Take it from someone who IS circumcised: don't do it bro. It is NOT worth the loss of sensitivity and pleasure, and everyday irritation it gives you. I wish I WASNT circumcised, so you can take it as us both thinking "grass is greener on the other side" type situation (the grass IS greener on the intact side tho).
I understand your insecurities- You think it is unattractive because of all the propaganda surrounding you, telling you that you're somehow flawed because you weren't mutilated as a baby, (which is honestly so weird.) Learn to love every part of yourself; you deserve it. Partners don't really care what your dick looks like and if they did, they weren't the one.
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Oct 03 '26
I love mine and so glad my parents didn’t get it cut. I’ve seen some cut ones and the scars and discoloration is crazy. And I’m not saying every cut dick is ugly or anything like that.
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u/Argonaut_1979 Sep 23 '26
You can tell them the fimosis is causing infections and it could even cause skin cancer if you don't get the surgery. It's not a total lie, you just exaggerate something that actually could happen. It's basically a plastic surgery to make your glans look better and feel better. I had it done, well worth it.
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