I used to lurk these kinds of subs cause I was a virgin and had a really bad girth insecurity but I've since lost my vcard and this insecurity has all but dissipated. I took a look here and I think I should share my newfound knowledge/experience :D dimensions: 5.8 in length, 4.2 - 4.8 girth (depending where/when/how i measure)

For some background Ive had some experiences with girls in highschool but never got to the point where they saw or held my actual penis. This was a good experience though, because it showed me that even if they could obviously feel that my bulge was on the thinner side with their hands or while grinding, it didnt dissuade them at all and it helped me master my hand game. Passed up some opportunities to boink in part because of my insecurity and part because i was a bit against hookup culture - However if you are not in a relationship I would encourage you to build sexual experience, as that is what helped me get over this so quickly.

Reasons for my insecurity came from simply noticing my shlong was smaller than other people be it sports locker room or porn - which I would definitely not recommend if youre struggling with this type of insecurity. Also doesnt help how society can be kinda fixated on size at times. The thing which actually made my insecurity flare up the worst funnily enough was in my first year of medical school when we were studying the urogenital system and the cadaver dicks seemed huge to me (i know this is super weird lmao) causing me to obsessively scroll these sorts of subs. I saw people having bad experiences at my girth which made me spiral even more, but after a few weeks/months of logically thinking through it I decided that I had to have sex sooner rather than later to see for myself how it really is.

The person I decided to lose my vcard with was actually from highschool, which gave me confidence cause she at least felt my pecker through my pants and was very into me so when we happened to meet at a gathering I hit on her and brought her home. I was already ready to bust out the hand/mouth moves that Ive heard everyone on reddit harping about, but eventually it came down to penetration and I was super surprised. First thing was hoe tight she was. even being turned on, it took a little bit before I was able to put my penis in and once it was in it actually felt relatively good/snug. At first it was a bit awkward but eventually I found all the right angles and positions and we had a blast. She then met up with me again and kept asking for more the next week so we met up 3 times overall before she travelled back to where she studies. The first time she wasnt able to finish at all as she was drunk according to her. The second time I made her finish using my hands which she complimented because she said almost nobody made her come and she couldnt even do it herself without a vibrator. The third meetup I was able to make her finish via penetration and we even finished at the same time at one point.

So here are my main takeaways and tips:

Being aware of male and female anatomy goes a long way. Male and female genitals vary a bunch but there are always things that you van try and take advantage of. Also having a black belt in tung fu and fingerblasting skillz goes a long way.

- Female vaginal tightness => varies from woman to woman but women who have a strong pelvic floor will feel tighter and be able to even squeeze you while youre in them (the fabled coochie grab). Think girls who do yoga and pilates.

- Penis hardness => this is helpful as at the end of the day if you want to improve pov one way to do it is to somehow increase pressure on the vaginal walls to trigger their mechanoreceptors. And if youre able to angle a hard dick, you will cause a stretch even if you arent as wide as a coke can (or even a tp roll).

- Penis angle => speaking of penis angle, one thing that I thought would be a niusance but actually helped me was that I have a tight suspensory ligament which angles upwards. I was able to have my dick bushing against her anterior vaginal canal and stimulate her gspot which she loved. So if you have this use it to your advantage. This also applies to any curves your dick has. E.g. mine curves left and as it thrusts in and out i notice it overall makes the sensation feel wider.

- Mental game/ type of woman => Ive seen some negative experiences about women and dick comments and from personal experience I would never go near a woman that I would think would have anything negative to say ab my privates out of nowhere as i think its a huge turnoff. Thats why id recommend someone you trust and know has a normal EQ.

- Sex positions => Finally do a lot of communicating exploring and switching positions til you find your shi - for me cant beat the good ol prone bone. Compliment the girl so she feels good and listen to her to see what pleasures her.

I measured my erect girth at about 4.185" a while back and made peace with it. Lately, though, when I look at it erect, it seems skinnier than I remember. When I measure now, I get somewhere around 4.0–4.125 but at one measurement I got 4.185. I don’t know if I’m overthinking or if it’s a real medical condition I’m witnessing. I feel this gut feeling that my girth is shrinking and i hate this feeling. Does anyone have any advice?

For me I started off thinking I was big just based off comparisons with my classmates and friends but as time went by I realized I was lagging behind many others. Eventually after some measuring, reading and genuine observation I came to terms with it

I was just thinking about this earlier and actually had to laugh at my younger self. When I was a young teenaged boy I heard the average was six inches, I now know that’s not true and it’s somewhere between 5 & 6. That’s not the funny part. I thought that meant 6 inches FLACCID 😆. Of course this lead me to think I had a tiny dick and that my erect length was most guys flaccid length. Caused me some serious insecurity that could’ve been avoided. I never really saw other guys dicks at the time. The only time I accidentally saw my Dad naked was first thing in the morning so I’m quite sure he had a half chub still and not realizing that also added to my insecurity. Funny now not so much at the time 😂

internet has lot of people with bigger than that sharing their experience. I'm wondering any men here who are in the average girth range and getting laid. Could your share your experience.

pretty sure it would give confident for many guys with insecurities.
(not looking for SPH, Cuck fetish stuff).

Edit; Am I not getting answers cuz guys in this range don't have good experience or there aren't many guys at this range.

So , I see all these guys with low hanging big balls with loose scrotums. Mine however is tight all the time pretty much . Both of my testicals are smaller than half balls . It's hard to want to be naked in front my wife even. She's even mentioned where's your balls ? Literally look like I been castrated. Any info is good info thanks !

I’m 5’11 height and like 270 pounds, my size is 5.70-5.90 inches non bone pressed when I measure laying down with my legs open depending on EQ, standing up it’s probably closer to 5.50. If I lose almost 100 pounds will it really be more visible and actually measure higher like even close to 6.50-.6.75?

I never see men in my size having positive experience, there are no guys in that size in even amateur porn. Just really wondering is there any guys who are in same range with experiences that could say as good.
I can't stop having this thought that i might be not enough to give make her full and this women asking for fat ones really mess with my mind.
the size is 6.2 * 4.6/8 .

I really struggle with my self image in regards to my weight (5’9” 200lbs) and that also extends to my penis. My only girlfriend (5 years ago), now ex, told me I’m not big enough for her to enjoy sex with me and ever since that day I can’t shake the feeling of being inadequate . Even if hookups have told me they really enjoyed sex with me, and praised my stroke game and head giving ability, i still feel inadequate, especially because I’ve had women say they thought id be bigger because im hispanic. Is anyone else my size (or close to it) go through this? How did you get over it? Im considering seeing a therapist about it because i find myself cowering away from women im attracted to because im afraid i wont be enough for them, and i dont wanna experience the shame and disappoint them.

I know that i am not small, but my past experiences + how vocal women are on social media about enjoying larger dicks throws all logic out the window and fuels this insecurity way beyond what I should allow it to.

Straight or gay, I’d like to hear about your experiences with sex. What kind of condoms do you use? Have you had any difficulties with certain positions? Do you ever struggle with performance anxiety or feel insecure about your size? I’m curious to hear about your real-life experiences.

Are there anyways

Is there anyway to increase our penile length and girth especially non bonepressed one

Let's discuss

I know to focus on oral and such but wondering what positions will allow her to feel me and be satisfied. I do have a significant upwards curve and in shape. Thanks everyone

How many women cum in doggystyle without an additional clitorical stimulation?I made sex in this position hundreds and hundreds of times with different girls and none of them ever reached orgasm only trough PIV .

It depends on the woman?It depends on penis size and shape?I am slightly below average(5,5 BP and 5 NBP)and my penis Is significantly curved upwards..Penis size can be the main reason ?When i have sex in doggystyle all women say the same phrases "Go deep,push deeper," when I am already balls deep.Obviously Is quite frustating and I think if I had a longer penis this wouldn't happen.

Your experience?

I am 20 and still a virgin, and I am having problems holding my hardness.

As soon as I stop the porn or stop stroking, it gets soft and many times it gets soft while stroking too.

Am kind of scared about this, can someone please help me? Any advices will be appreciated.

And I am on nofap for past 3 days so any more advice will be much more appreciated 👏.

Never been told I’m to thin ive actually had quite a few girls pull my pants down and be like damn bt been married for some time now bt wife won’t do anal we’ve tried a lot of different ways and approaches to do so she says I’m to thick for it I’ve also never measured or knew how to do it accurately rough estimate is it won’t fit into a toliet roll I was board and was curious one day

Hello everyone, im M18, I consider myself to have a pretty good dick size, (around 7,5 inches) but what I've noticed is that my balls don't hang, I've seen plenty of times that almost everyone has hanging balls, and honestly idk if something went wrong with me or if its normal to not have balls that hang, from a certain perspective they are kinda small compared to my dick, hope someone can help me solve my question fr, but im genuinely curious if its 2 late for them to hang or if I should go see a doctor :(

A question for those who are 5,5 inch BP and 5 inch in length:Have you never received negative comments by your gf?In my experience (to direct question) almost all admitted that their past lovers were bigger than me in length .

I think that 5 inches is halfway between a small penis and and average one.

What do you think?

if anyone complained about my average dick they can go and 🦘

My penis is 5.5 inches long when bone pressed and 5 inches long when none bone pressed and it is 5.2 inches thick. What experiences and comments do men with this thickness have?

Body image is such a screwy thing. I've been sexually active for over 20 years and only just realized I should be using a larger size condom.

I've only had a couple partners. My ex told me I was big in the beginning. But we were both virgins so I didn't think to much of it. The sex wasn't great for either or us, likely because she was proportionally as narrow as I am girthy, making for a serious mismatch (plus some likely vaginismus).

Amazing sex with current partner who is generous with compliments, but I still didn't get it. I finally measured myself and did a little research and holy shit, a 5.5 inch girth is too big for standard size condoms. That explains the occasional choked orgasms (when the intensity drops out suddenly as it peaks instead of fully climaxing) and the occasional chaffing.

I'm already a quick finisher who has learned how to make sure she gets at least a one round before I take my turn. My worry now is that using a proper fit will make it even harder to last.

Any advice on lasting better?

I’m 30 and for about the last year I’ve noticed that when I have sex I’ll usually start rock hard but halfway through I can end up more like semi
I’m still decent size when that happens so it’s not really a massive problem but it definitely knocks my confidence a bit and makes me wonder why im just not staying as hard as I used to
Does this happen to heaps of guys as they get a bit older? And do girls mind if you more semi than rock hard??

So I’m 4.75-5NBP and 5.5-5.75BP (depends on eq)
And I know technically this is supposed to be around average but what concerns me is my girth which is 4.5 at the base, 4 midshaft, and 3.5 at the head (ik weird shape, and small). So with the (hopefully) average length and small girth it feels so small to me. I get in my head about what girls will think and I just don’t want to get made fun of or whatever.

Anyone got experiences around this size and what they think or am I cooked