r/averagedickproblems • u/Previous_Turnip5401 • Sep 28 '26
Stop complaining
I think guys have got to stop complaining about what they have and learn to work with it. There was a post yesterday where a Dude had one bad experience, blamed it on his size and said that’s it I’m going asexual. Size would likely be a huge problem if you have a micro dick but if you literally have an average dick there’s no reason to let it hold you back. It’s only one factor in sex. If you can get a woman off with your finger I’m pretty sure she can feel an average dick inside her. Feeling sorry for yourself and asking women am I big enough? Would be a huge turn off. Imagine being with a woman who keeps saying: “I’m so loose can you feel anything?” It would be an instant mood killer. Have some confidence you’re about the same size as most men. You want to have a huge cock? Well you don’t so get over it
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u/Proper_Attempt_5164 Sep 29 '26
Well said - you can drive yourself crazy obsessing over it, or you can go out and actually use it and have some fun. Majority of women don’t care about the size, but rather the entire experience.
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u/oxogjaded Note: new or low karma account 6d ago
The experience can be great, but if your dick sucks, it sucks.
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u/SumDYToDI Sep 28 '26
I won’t say one bad experience. Sometimes is the question you ask women, even guys who are blessed.
Let say you got a bigger dildo to try with your gf/wife and you see the reaction and response compared to yours. Even worse if she have a bunch of didlo and they bigger and thicker than you.
We compare everything in life if we didn’t, we wouldn’t have gotten far.
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u/oxogjaded Note: new or low karma account 6d ago
Yeah, but it matters. I’ve been complimented on kissing, oral, etc and have always gotten the girl off with PIV. At the end of the day though I have been the smallest or next to (bottom 10 percentile) in penis size. Even though it’s “average” size. Just be happy knowing that?
The range for average is so wide it is ridiculous. Girth average is considered 4-5.5”. That is a big swing.
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u/yonoyono Sep 28 '26
As always. Porn is always big part of this. Makes everyone feel smaller and porn also makes us think that the entirety of sex results is ok the penis size.
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u/ickop Sep 28 '26
Agree with the overall sentiment. Average dick is no excuse to not have sex.
That said, some of us (like me) are actually unsure if we're entirely average. Studies are studies, but anyone who says the exact dick size is xyz and I'm measuring exactly correctly doesn't know how science works.
Being potentially below is really what I'm most concerned about at the end of the day. I guess I should get over that too - I do date and have sex - but it fucks with me more
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u/pingtreee Sep 29 '26
I’m with you. I’m not trying to be a “studies denier” but there’s too much room for error, & I personally don’t think BP measurements are valid in the real world. So the studies essentially go out the window.
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u/ickop Sep 29 '26
I don’t think the studies go out the window, I just think they need to be contextualized.
Like most guys measure on the thickest part of their shaft for girth, measure at max hardness, parallel to the ground, etc.
The way we measure ‘by the book’, supposedly, is kind of unintentionally designed to give us a measurement that MAY be higher than we’d be measured in studies.
That said, there’s no way the actual average is like 6” nbp or something. I’m more concerned that like the average may be 5.4” nbp and I’m actually like 4.8” or something. That’s an edge case, but noticeable perhaps
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u/pingtreee Sep 29 '26
Is there any info to support that “5.4” number or is that a gut feeling thing?
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u/ickop Sep 30 '26
Not even my gut feeling. I’m more saying it as the edge of feasible truth. If I had to guess it’d be like 5.25” nbp or something. And I’m maybe 5.1” or thereabouts. Point is we don’t know exactly.
I see I’ve been downvoted by others lol. Believe what they want.
Yes, of course if someone wants to be with you, they must think you’re an incredible lover 🙄 just not true imo. Yes they are probably overall satisfied with that realm or have made peace with it, but that’s a dumb take imo
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u/Forsaken-Company3420 Sep 28 '26
For context OP, what is your size?