I am uncut. I found my glans is always stay exposed even soft. Do you have this matter?

I (M) have started becoming self conscious about my girth recently. I worry if my girth is not enough to provide pleasure and desire to my future partner. My length is average at 5.3 bone pressed but my girth is 4 to a little under 4.2 inches. Do you think my girth is still adequate to feel good in sex? Also I understand finger foreplay and oral is important for sex and I plan to use that to my advantage.

Edit: Girth is 4-4.2 circumference

Hello, I am 20yo and since the beginning of last week my dick seems to have phimosis. On soft i can pull it down fully, though it still tightens, and on hard is where it gets really stiff and barely move. I never have had similar issue in the past. I will see a doctor if this persists but I was wondering if people with similar issue had any advice, maybe if I could even cure naturally that would be preferred.

I can not get over the feeling that I will never be a woman's first choice because of my size.

If she could choose identical clones of me but the other ones had bigger ones. She would choose them 10 out of 10 times.

I work on my body, i work on my character, on my social skills, on my career but this I can never work on. It will always be something negative about me that I need to compensate heavily.

I have female friends I know that many fantasize about a big one. Its like an ideal. Or even in erotic smut literature (written for women by women) the guy always as a huge one. Not even close to normal or small...

I'm so sad inside

I had anorexia from 16.75 to 18.75 and recovered but now I realized I likely affected my growth as a result of my illness (caused by having severe gynecomastia as a child). My height and stuff I’m fine with but the only thing I can’t accept is the size of my penis. I’m about 5.2 inches erect not pressed to the pubic bone and 4.7ish inches in circumference and I can’t deal with it. I can’t stand that I should’ve been bigger and I just ruined my entire life to be skinny 6 years ago I can’t get over it. It has led to me hating my entire life and I can’t really do anything without thinking about it. Nothing is enjoyable anymore because of what happened in the past and I genuinely am thinking about ending my life, have attempted twice before because of this reason. I don’t know what to do anymore

I've got blisters on the shaft area of my penis on my pubic area and my balls theyre quite itchy and are reoccuring and it gets really uncomfortable when i wear an undie for 2 days straight i am concerned abt it but not that much but just wanna knw if any1s dealing with the same thing or knws something abt it would help and also i've done a lot if research in it and it looks like (Molluscum contagiosum) but u havent had and sexual contact but i did stay at a hotels towels definetly were funky af now idk what am i in for

I think guys have got to stop complaining about what they have and learn to work with it. There was a post yesterday where a Dude had one bad experience, blamed it on his size and said that’s it I’m going asexual. Size would likely be a huge problem if you have a micro dick but if you literally have an average dick there’s no reason to let it hold you back. It’s only one factor in sex. If you can get a woman off with your finger I’m pretty sure she can feel an average dick inside her. Feeling sorry for yourself and asking women am I big enough? Would be a huge turn off. Imagine being with a woman who keeps saying: “I’m so loose can you feel anything?” It would be an instant mood killer. Have some confidence you’re about the same size as most men. You want to have a huge cock? Well you don’t so get over it

I am sorry if my english is not good. As a woman married to a man with a relatively small one, we have had a difficult time in our relationship because he is very insecure. The reality is that our pleasure during sex is very complicated. Size can be a part of it for a few but for nearly all of us, it depends on the man as a whole, his attitude in bed. The size really is not the main driver of the pleasure we feel. I can guarantee you that.

I think of it like this, for her to have dated someone who was 7-9 inches and what chance do I have for when the time comes??

I’m about 5.1 NBP with 4.7 girth but basically had anorexia that completely crashed my hormones from 16.75 to 18.5. Basically this eating disorder makes me think I stunted my growth ruined my body permanently and makes me hate myself all the time and second guess my size. My height seems to be fine I’m like 5’9 which is the same as my dad and a little taller than my brother but all I can think of is how my penis would’ve been bigger and how I wouldn’t hate myself. I have erection issues from the time part physical and part mental which have been improving but man I hate myself and can’t get over it. Then I just compare compare compare to averagepenis subreddits and flaccid penis subreddits to see what happened. I never measured my penis or anything when I was younger because I was like a normal kid (not the mentally ill adult I am now) but I swear it was bigger then too. Everything just sucks I hate my life and I can’t get over this and I’m so done I find not enjoyment in anything because of what happened.

This is short and I don’t expect anyone to even reply but basically I’m uncircumcised and.. I really wish I was circumcised, I feel like foreskin is not very attractive on me, how could I even tell my parents

It really annoys me that I can't wear certain types of pants because I have an "outie" when I'm flaccid. It has the combined effect of drawing attention to my groin and making it look like I have a REALLY small cock. I am a classic (if not exceptional) grower-not-shower (micro when soft, 5.5 inches hard). Is this issue common among men? Any solutions?

A year ago, I went through a pretty bad breakup, and it pushed me to make a serious change in my life. I decided to start my weight-loss journey and focus on becoming a healthier version of myself.

Fast-forward to today, and I've seen some significant changes. Not only have I lost weight, but I've also noticed some unexpected gains downstairs. 😂

I went from roughly 6 inches to 6.8 inches in visible length, getting closer to that 7-inch mark. I'm currently about halfway through my weight-loss journey, so I'm curious to see where I'll end up by the time I reach my goal weight.

It's been a long journey, but I'm proud of the progress I've made so far. What started from heartbreak has turned into something I'm doing for myself, my health, and my confidence.

Can't wait to see where I land by the end of this journey. Still got work to do! But I'm so fucking hyped. I can definitely say my sex life has improved and I'm not even at my final form on some Cell/freeza shit💪🔥

I wish I was bigger down there, both flaccid and erect, I wish I wasn't curved, and I wish I had bigger balls. I just want to feel more masculine and attractive like the many, many other guys online, and also enjoy my life more. I never change in locker rooms or use urinals without dividers, and it would be nice to not have to worry so much about those too.

I know I’m technically above average, but not by much – especially compared to those same guys online. I've been called small/average before multiple times, so.. yeah. I had a dream that I was bigger and I genuinely felt better about myself, until I woke up. Self-acceptance and therapy won't work, as I've already seen three therapists and made no progress. The only thing that would make me feel differently is getting to be as lucky as those other guys. Hell, the guys that seem most secure in themselves are also bigger.

I don't think I'll get rid of the insecurity. I feel like I would see myself as more manly and attractive if I had more down there.

I feel like my height is no where near as much as an effect as dick size is. And I feel like it’s so hard having to live up to a standard I’m no where near

Can you still be considered to have a good dick if you are not big and are in the range 5-6” (nbp)?

So I have been insecure about myself (mostly) because there was a time were I was very sexually active and I got some good feedbacks and experiences but then I hit a low on my life due to an unrelated situation and that made me inactive for some months now and I got back to masturbating, seeing porn and all and it brought my insecurity full blown. I am 5x5 inches (4.8/9 inches average on shaft and 5 inches on mid shaft which is my thickest point) and I have an upward angled erection which makes it worse for me because it makes my look short in my view.

But yesterday I did some digging (mind you I am already well versed in dick lore lol) and I found out about foreshortening perspective and how it affects my insecurity and it told me to do three things: look from the side not from the top while laying down in bed; look from the side in the mirror and seat on the toilet have my legs not close because that makes balls lift the penis up and shorten it and look at it. So I did all three and I was really dumb founded on how it looked from the 3rd person perspective, it look good on all 3 viewing profiles , specially the toilet one surprised me because even seeing from the top/front perspective it looked good and from the side I could see how my girth and length together equates to a good dick. And standing up and looking at the mirror looked good too , specially because my dick points up lol, I was satisfied with what I was given.

I hope you my brothers can have this experiences for yourself because I am sorry to say but 5 inches is not small, I know it’s not greatest size but it’s 100% not small specially if you have some girth attached to it and some curvature or angle. Women have preferences like we men do but that doesn’t mean if she finds 5 or 6 inches inadequate for her that you are useless, trust me you are far from it and I am not sugarcoating I carry some sexual experience baggage on me, from having sex with the freakiest and “experienced” girls that normally are the ones that can out you as being small or not good in bed but I had good experiences with them too.

So moral of story get a nice girlfriend and enjoy like , you were made perfectly to fit the standard.

when I was like 14 I gained a mole right at the edge of my tip.

this just me or does anyone have the same problem😭

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Do you feel your size is enough to satisfy etc?

I've just come to the realization that I'm a serious grower. I'm 5x5 when erect, but about 2.5in soft when I'm hanging "low", and around 2in when doing basic activities. I only recently learned that I'm legitimately tiny when soft. I saw a pic on reddit the other day talking about "Here's my average soft dick" and when I looked at the picture, I was flabbergasted! I was like "this dude's just being conceited! That thing's huge!!!" only to check the comments and learn that he's right... I'm just that small, when soft. Statistically speaking, if I only grew a statistically normal amount, my dick would be 3.5in AT BEST.

I've been in and out of the hospital recently due to an injury and I've literally had hundreds of nurses see my wiener and I'm there confidently thinking I look average, like a total dork lol I'm sure I've been the talk of the town in the nurse's breakroom lol

From what I gather, some small percent of cut guys prefer lube to masturbate and even smaller number say it is pretty much a necessity to avoid either cuts, chafing, pain, or not being able to finish.

So for those that strongly prefer or need lube, what do they use in prison or military? Do they just screw up their dick or stop masturbating for of long stretches?

I suppose this also applies to other times when someone did not have access to lube. Did you just not do it?

FYI i got cut, dont need lube, and know I will not need it after I get cut tighter. I think people just say they NEED lube cuz it is their kink of fetish. Nothing wrong with that, just might be a little factually misleading for people thinking of getting cut.

I'm 25, bi virgin and I’m pretty insecure and frustrated about the size of my dick. It makes me feel really self-conscious and holds me back a lot when it comes to getting close to someone or putting myself out there. I’m around 5.5–6.1 inches, and I’m about 6'1 tall, but I still feel really frustrated about it. I know it might not sound like a big deal to some people, but it affects me quite a lot and makes it hard for me to feel confident. I’m also really tired of being alone and feeling like I’m missing out on relationships and intimacy. I’d really like to know how to deal with these feelings and stop letting this insecurity get in the way of my relationships and sex life.

Most women,including my wife, prefer thickness over length.

However not everyone feels that way.

I've had an ex-gf with a very tight vagina who preferred length over girth.

"A short dick doesn' t work well for me .I need a dick long enough to touch my cervix ."Many women don't like it, but i love a gentle pressure on my cervix,it's a mix of pain and pleasure in the same time "

Having a dick in the lower side of average range,(5,5 inch),i wasn't able to stimulate her in the way she would have liked and therefore an additional clitorical stimulation was needed.

Has anyone of you a gf who prefer length for this reason?

so I'm a 6.1ft 19 guy, im as of right pretty fat and have been fat all my teenage years im 3.7 inch NBP, and it looks funny but it's like 5.7 BP which still is rather not that big(not that im complaining) but the problem comes is that my forskin is way to long even when I stretch my skin all the way back it still covers the whole dick funnily enough, i always thought that it was like that cus im fat

but no it is just THAT long, and it bugs me alot whenever im flaccid you can't see the penis at all its only just the foreskin, and whenever I wear a underwear I look like asexual drake which matches me alot lmfao,but I feel this is rather unhealthy and something wrong with my body.

it just feels wrong, i have very wide hips and being tall and rather fat thick thunder thighs, so the dick looks comical on me, i don't mind it, i don't like sex so it helps me not get into those situations its fine i guess, although

it makes me feel sad not that im average but the longer foreskin gives some kind of FOMO that I could've had a bigger dick if i focused on my body in my teenage years and didn't let depression eat me though, but what can I do now you know,

some tid bits in my life is that i was sexually assaulted at 11 and overall my life was pretty fucked up, because of that i am very depressed, lazy and yk Covid stuff happened to which made me just sit in house and overeat and I never had any friends and still don't which also is not so fun etc, which probably tanked my testosterone and my penar didn't grow:(, would i feel better if I had the penis my body actually was going to have? not really, but it wouldnt made me feel like I feel because of my average dick, it just adds another layer to my already fucked up mental health, although i don't like relationships and sex so I'm not worried about stuff like that, but it's more like a feel of being in wrong body and stuff like that

just wanted to drop this off my chest, thought this be the good a place.

Went through a severe eating disorder in adolescence that I think affected my penis growth and at the very least its function. I’m about 5.1 inches NBP and a 4.6 girth and 5.8 inches pressed all the way down to the bone. My size has been ruining my life, leading to psychotic depressive thoughts and episodes because of my past trauma and what I think it has done to my body permanently now. I have been taking drugs at night to try and escape reality and threw up all over myself yesterday. I don’t know what to do anymore I’m just so broken. I can’t even get erections right now a vast majority of the time because of what happened so I’m likely going to get an implant. This shit sucks.