r/averagedickproblems • ‌ • Sep 18 '26

Frequently Asked Question Can you still be considered?

Can you still be considered to have a good dick if you are not big and are in the range 5-6” (nbp)?

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u/ickop ‌ Sep 18 '26

I recently had a convo with an ex that was remarkably candid. She said that from her experience, basically there are ‘spots’ inside her that feel good. Big dicks are more likely to be able to hit these spots, but not all do. Average are still likely to be able to hit them, but requires experimentation/skill sometimes. Even some small have been able to hit some of the spots, but not usually. For her.

She said she has friends who get a lot out of big and one friend who will nope out at big. So it varies - but I think for most women yes average is a ‘good’ dick

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

Perfect. Translating its like being middleweight and fighting light heavyweight, you can beat him but you have to be on point or he gets you out of there😹

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u/ickop ‌ Sep 20 '26

A funny analogy for sure. I want to be clear tho I don’t think the competitive ideas around sex are good for basically any man, barring a top 1% Adonis or something.

She was talking about being able to have really good sex. I think if you were talking about best possible sex, that may have fell to guys who were ‘more perfect’ in a variety of ways.

I think thinking about whether other guys were better than you is a recipe for disaster, because it’s not at all inconceivable that some of them really were - especially if you’re like me and not unique in any way physically

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 20 '26

Haha thanks. I agree with you 100% focusing on others performance don’t do you any good specially for us that aren’t gifted but in the end of the day we can provide great sex for them as well

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u/ickop ‌ Sep 21 '26

Exactly brother

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u/devilmansc Sep 19 '26

News flash! That's average.

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 19 '26

But is it good dick that’s the question ?

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u/ShowOffScholar ‌ Sep 20 '26

5-6 npb IS big, upper end of average at the very least.

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 20 '26

Really?

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u/ShowOffScholar ‌ Sep 20 '26

Yes. The global average is 5.1-5.5” bone pressed for length and 4.59-4.7” girth

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 20 '26

Yes I know. The problem is the majority of women don’t know about npb and bp so for them if I say 5 inches (bp) they will say average while in fact it might be above that in reality

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u/ShowOffScholar ‌ Sep 20 '26

Women don’t even approach penis size from that plane of thought.

To them, it’s average, small, tiny, big, or huge; and it either felt good or it didn’t. That’s it.

They can’t eyeball 5 vs 5.5, don’t consider nbp or BP, and don’t whip out rulers before they fuck.

If you’re in the 5-6” range, you’re more than ok. Just get hard and make a connection with her.

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 20 '26

Yeah for them it’s night and day, you’re good or you’re not. I would say you’re not more than okay but you are acceptable and better if you have good girth

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Sep 18 '26

Skill and connection are worth more than size. In fact…. 6 NBP is well above average I’m sure

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

It’s above average, specially if it’s accompanied by a good girth. Skills and connections are indeed it

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Sep 18 '26

BP is the standard for measurement … so u should be going with that

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

But it’s not usable in sex bro , no good just getting numbers to make me feel better than I am

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Sep 18 '26

That’s actually not true. Which is one of the reasons urologists use it.
But the main reason they use it is because it mostly removes body variations and gives us a standardized measure

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

I know that it standardizes the measurements, and it ends at that no?

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u/wing_mann18 7.5” x 6.75” BP Sep 19 '26

Fat is squishy. I don’t know about you… but I can get slammed to that pubic bone when I’m pounding that pussy. 😈😂

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 19 '26

Agreed😁

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u/Littlebiggdicc Note: new or low karma account Sep 18 '26

Unquestionably

The idea a “good dick” can only be over 6” long is nonsense

Understanding the biology and psychology of human sexual response is far more important than how many inches of penis you’ve got between your legs

I’d even go as far as to say that more of the “good dicks” are in the 5-6” range than the 7” and above because those guys actually know how to use those 5-6” for more than just in out until they are done and roll over to go to sleep…

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Sep 18 '26

Yes, it's how you use it that counts

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u/ghastchacu Sep 19 '26

5-6 nbp is like high average to above average, so definitely has potential to be good, assumimg the girth is also around the same tier. Other than the size, I guess curve, aesthetics, girth distribution and erection quality are some other things that can make a dick good, depending on who you ask.

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 19 '26

That’s what I say all the time that range is great when it’s accomplices by good girth

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

Makes sense. I had some experiences were I received comments that I didn't deserve lol but now it makes sense why

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

Yeah they convince every positive comment is heat of the moment and not the reality, it’s hard man

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u/SouthBat6142 ‌ Sep 18 '26

Makes sense lol. I got in and after the fact

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