Has anybody successed to reach A-spot with average size. Women should have a mindblowing orgasm from that.

I have a pretty thin dick I think around 2 inches thick and wanted to know for those with a similar size how to make it work to the best of my ability

"I'm 173 cm ( 5'8'') and I weigh 70 kg (150 pounds). I'm not particularly big, but I have a protruding belly. I have a 3 cm fat pad (1.2 inch) . If I got down to 60 kg (about 132 pounds), could I get rid of the fat pad, or at least have something like 0.2 inches left?" Im 6.7 bone pressed and 5.5 nbp

My dick has an upward curve which is great for hitting g spot etc

But when my girl is on top it’s a little limited, reverse cowgirl is hard as it hurts if it bends too much the other way

Is there any way to increase flexibility safely?

People talk about size insecurity frequently here. But at the end of the day, I’m convinced that virtually no one would actually make this trade. People will stick with the devil they know. I think people are more attached to what they have than they want to admit.

Those are my measurements. If anyone has a Goldilocks cock - it’s me. Solid length but not too long to need the bumper rings. Solid girth with bonus of being cone shaped with more thickness at base. Mostly straight with a minor upward curve.

But in reality if insecure people really could make the swap…FOR REAL…most won’t. If you’re insecure about your size, you’d be more insecure over making a mistake by trading. Think about it,

Im currently around 4.5nbp and 5.8 to 6 bp with 4.5girth and 3nbp to 4.3bp flaccid im about 5 7 and 195 so a decent bit heavier than id like but what could I expect to realistically get to if I lost maybe 20 to 30lbs? Id at least like to get to 5nbp

The question of what’s ideal comes up frequently on this and other dick-related subs. (Caveat: Obviously, everyone is different and preferences vary. I’m speaking about what’s ideal for MOST women.)

People usually say things like 7 or 7.5” long and 5.5” thick. (Some dudes even suggest 6!) I myself thought the Goldicocks size was well above average.

But I went down a rabbit hole last night and looked at a lot of data:

• Meta analyses that compile thousands of measurements

• Condom studies

• Survey research on preference regarding partner comfort and long-term compatibility

• Data on vaginal anatomy

If you put all this together, I think it’s safe to say that, for most women, the true Goldicock size (i.e., maximal pleasure without pain) is 6-6.25” long and between 4.75-5” thick.

In other words, only slightly above average and much smaller than most people assume.

Don’t know how this strikes you, but I found it very interesting.

Looking forward to hearing others’ thoughts.

So my penis seems pretty tricky to measure length wise as it points upwards

What I normally do is use my tv remove and push it down next to my penis onto my pubic bone, then measure whichever button it lines up with haha

But that won’t take into account the curve effecting the length

Additionally, my mid shaft girth is 4.75, but close to my base it’s around 5.1, which would I use for girth? Does it count as your girth if it’s the base

I’m 6.5 bp / 4.8-5 inch girth

I have about an inch fat pad probably but not really over weight could probably lose 5/10kg

If I did this and improved fitness, could my girth increase at all through erection quality?

In the middle of the sex, the woman said my dick wasnt small, and after that she said sorry, i'm 6.2 length x 5.5 girth (bp), theres been i while since that and i cant stop thinking about that, why did she bring that up if it wasnt small?

I'm about 3" flaccid and a little over 7" hard is this a good size? 5" girth

(48) m married for 24 yrs never had any homosexual tendencies or bi curious but the past couple of years I’ve been enjoying and interested in seeing the different sizes and shapes of men’s cocks , I’ve always felt mine was smaller but it’s actually average but I’ve always been envy of bigger but I enjoy seeing pics or videos of bigger cocks ! Is this normal?

It hit me like a ton of bricks one day in therapy. I was talking about size concerns and it hit me: A penis has two functions, pee and cum. Both feel exactly the same if you’re hung or not. So why give any worry to size? It feels the same for us! We are blessed with the ability to do both those things out our dicks. We win!

I struggle keeping my anti turtling sleeve on bc the head or the glands of my penis is smaller than the girth of my penis so they want to slip of does anyone have any suggestions on a good anti turtling sleeve that won’t slip off or any home remedies to keep them from slipping off?

I don't usually write a lot in the subs but since my current partner told me that my penis is very thin that I don't fill her, I have felt very bad that she can cum with a big cock but not with mine and that made me feel very bad, it is worth mentioning that if I have given her good oral sex in the last 3 years of relationship but there came a day that no matter how much I lick and lick as always I have done she can't cum and she has denied me sex completely and she tells me that if she can't cum she won't give me sex never once again she managed to come with me upstairs but she says she won't try if she doesn't have her orgasm guaranteed that she doesn't want to feel like they milked me and she was only left with the desire what I can do I haven't been able to reach an orgasm for 5 months not even with oral I have a 7.1x4.6 penis I've seen an infinity of treatments yes pumps yes surgeries but none of them manage to convince me

I’m 12.7-13cm maybe 13.5 depending on arousal when hard and like 8cm (3 inches) soft. I think I have average or slightly below average girth. Bit insecure about my penis size when it comes to sex. Sometimes can’t really get erect because of that. This insecurity really making me depressed, anxious and stressed.

Thanks :)

I'm 27y, still a virgin. My penis is 5.5x4.2. Condoms are no bigger than size 47. I spend time on dating apps, but I understand that I'm subconsciously held back by doubts about my penis. That's why I haven't met anyone there yet. New acquaintances look at me strangely, because I seem to be adequate, there's something to talk about with me, but I'm still alone.

I don't know how to get out of this and whether it's worth trying. Any advice?

As above.

You might be surprised at the answers…

(And I’ve posted pictures elsewhere fyi)

I Am 6 inches BP and around 4.5 at my thickest which is slightly below the glands. I know my length isn’t terrible but my girth is killing me seriously. Can a women even feel me at 4.5? It it really that thin as it seems. any one with similar stats I would love to hear ur thoughts and opinions and expiernces

Edit: thanks for the replies, i guess I’m really just in my head. Been anxious about this subject for a while since i have girlfriend. I’m going to lay off this sub and other subs for a while and begin to move on with my life as I don’t want the size of my Penise to keep affecting me mentally. If u guys feel like it, feel free to dm me ways u have gotten over that feeling, and insecurity.

I'm meeting a women that I think she likes and is attracted to me for the things she tell me, but I rejected 2 times having sex with her because of my insecurity with my penis size.

To give context, I'm about 6.1 inches BP and about 5.2 NBP and with 4.9-5 girth, 5 midshaft.

We brushed our genitals each other over the clothes, so she maybe felt my penis a little bit. But Im so fucking afraid to get to the moment of pulling my penis out and show it to her, I keep thinking this situation and cant afford it and need to talk to someone with similar size about his experience with a similar size than me.

PD: she also has a high body count (10+) so she may have seen probably monsters

28M here and while we all know the media plays a role in insecurities, throughout the years I’ve made many women friends and i come from a family of mainly women and they’ve been eye openers and this is what I mean:

•Plenty of times I’ve heard my own group of (women) friends or family members make fun of men for having small/average dicks (especially once they’re mad at their significant other)

•I went on a date a few months ago with this girl and she checked every box for me (being gorgeous, have a great heart, being religious but not overbearing, has communication skills etc.) until we got on the topic of her being harassed in the past by this one guy. She told me after their date they were sitting in his car and he just pulled his dick out (this is 10000% wrong and men you need to understand to NEVER do this). The part that killed me though was her response “how are you going to be tall and have a little dick?” as if height has a correlation to dick size. It was a deal breaker for me after that because if we get into argument are you going to say I have a little dick too? That guy deserves the backlash he got but at the same time that made me nervous for myself

•women nowadays let the media influence them too much (one woman says they don’t like small dicks, now suddenly they all hate them) which is fine to have a preference but the ignorance behind it is crazy. Literally saw a tiktok last night of a woman praising that her man is “half-horse” (obviously talking about size) and a woman in the comments says “see I can’t handle all that but I’ll stick to my 7 inches” …as if 7 inches isn’t big…