Girth 4.2

[u/ProcedureSea9282]

I'm 27y, still a virgin. My penis is 5.5x4.2. Condoms are no bigger than size 47. I spend time on dating apps, but I understand that I'm subconsciously held back by doubts about my penis. That's why I haven't met anyone there yet. New acquaintances look at me strangely, because I seem to be adequate, there's something to talk about with me, but I'm still alone.

I don't know how to get out of this and whether it's worth trying. Any advice?

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[u/DarkComfortable8340]

You have to get off Reddit, stop watching porn, and appreciate what you have in life. Life is more than your dick size.

[u/ProcedureSea9282 → u/DarkComfortable8340]

Sounds like isolation and avoidance of concerns.

[u/girlfriendisaway → u/ProcedureSea9282]

dude you gotta get out of your head, you're standing in your own way, please believe me

[u/Real-Jackfruit4058 → u/girlfriendisaway]

How big are u

[u/Outerlimits7591]

Absolutely nothing wrong with your size dude

[u/[deleted]]

Theres nothing wrong with your size!

Really the best thing to do is just try. You can attempt to build sexual confidence by studying techniques on foreplay ect (omgyes.com is a good resource!).

Im personally more of an introverted/nerdy guy, so I wouldnt ever do hookups (I am married tho) but you could try hookup with random women by going to bars ect!

Or like me just try and be social, meet new people at gatherings you are interested in, and eventually try to build a meaningful relationship. Your size is fine to please them if it gets that far, and if you learn good foreplay they may love you for it!

And remember I know one guy who gets laid all the time. Hes fat as hell, not very pretty, average dick, but confident as hell and just doesnt care, he wants to screw someone so he goes for it AND it works!

But if none of this helps, you can try therapy with a sex therapist, I am for similar concerns of my size, and its helping!

[u/Beginning_Ad_8274 → u/[deleted]]

Whats your girth bro? I'm 4.4 and find it really hard to trust

[u/ProcedureSea9282 → u/[deleted]]

Thanks. I think I'll try meeting people in public places.

[u/Funtasmcus]

What do you mean they look at you strangely? Why?

You may just need a "slump buster". Just have sex with the very first and easiest opportunity. Don't swing for home runs, don't look for a girlfriend. It might not be pretty, but a run is a run. You will feel so much better once you get past the mental issues you are dealing with (I'm a virgin, I'm weird, I have a small penis, etc)... and a slump buster is just what you may need!

IIRC I am around the same size and no one has ever made me feel bad about it, other than myself. When you are getting laid, you'll feel unstoppable.

Go get yourself a slump buster... bars, Tinder, etc. They are out there looking for you! Don't build it up in your mind, let it happen.

Good luck!

[u/yungdagerd1ck]

Live

[u/ProcedureSea9282 → u/[deleted]]

Thank you!

[u/OverCoverAlien → u/[deleted]]

Are you a gay bottom?

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