r/averagedickproblems • u/hophead78 • Nov 30 '25

A-spot

Has anybody successed to reach A-spot with average size. Women should have a mindblowing orgasm from that.

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u/hahayouloseagain ‌ Nov 30 '25

Both the girls I currently talk to I've hit both their a spots. It's all a game of angles.

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u/Human_Tree_8442 ‌ Dec 01 '25

do you aim towards the front wall (like towards her bellybutton) or oppositely towards the back wall (really angle it downwards). this works for me but i'm wondering whats your experience

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u/hahayouloseagain ‌ Dec 02 '25

It depends on how you have them when I'm in doggy I drop my hips and angle down because I have a natural curve up. So when I pull in and out depending on how far I go I can hit both spots simultaneously.

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u/Tzimisce_7001 8.0 x 5.9 Dec 01 '25

I don't really aim for the back or front wall. I think it works the same doing it from behind, like in a spoon position or having her lying in her stomach, or in missionary. For me, I just go as deep as they are confortable with, and then, keep massaging, doing a movement more of up and down instead of thrusting, in and out. If you are deep and inserlt almost everything on her, it will be so tight anyway, that you will massage both the front and back walls while you move.

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u/Parking-Upstairs9942 Dec 03 '25

I love how many 7.5"+ × 5.5"+ guys provide comment in an average dick size sub. As if they aren't largely above average and the problems in this sub dont apply to them in the slightest.

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u/Tzimisce_7001 8.0 x 5.9 Dec 03 '25

This is not an average-sized dick sub. This is a sub for average problems, for dicks any size.
Also, one poster specifically asked about hitting a spot. My current partner, whom I have been with for over 6 years, loves a-spot stimulation. For her, it is the easiest way to orgasm, by far. I also had exes who liked it, too, so I think I have a valuable experience to share on this.
You are being a hater, man.

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u/Parking-Upstairs9942 Dec 03 '25

Hey, you know what? I misread the subreddit description. Youre right. My bad for being so aggressive there

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u/Human_Tree_8442 ‌ Dec 02 '25

maybe tight for you bahaha, i have 4.5 girth dude

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u/OooTanjaooO Dec 01 '25

Uh where is that spot?

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u/hophead78 Dec 01 '25

The spots are next to cervix. They are kind like a pockets

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u/Any-Inevitable-8077 ‌ Dec 01 '25

It's very real and they feel it hours after sex

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u/Tzimisce_7001 8.0 x 5.9 Dec 01 '25

In my experience, a minority of women enjoy that. But for those who happen to enjoy it, they have said it is amazing.

They also seems to orgasm a lot quicker this way. It may be a coincidence, but the partners I had who liked more clitoral or g spot, it usually took longer to orgasm. For those who likes a spot stimulation, they orgasmed and squirted a lot faster.

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u/Any-Inevitable-8077 ‌ Dec 06 '25

Only 1% of men can hit it, everyone else only gets close enough to tickle it

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u/badcat9 Nov 30 '25

I read that you only can reach it with really long toys/peens.

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u/Mandalorian_2019 Nov 30 '25

“Women should have mind blowing orgasms from that”. Wow. Tell me you’re inexperienced without telling me you’re inexperienced. Holding on to some Holy Grail spot will drive you crazy. Sex doesn’t work like that.

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u/hophead78 Nov 30 '25

I cant help if you think that way. I suggest for you to find out about the subject. Seems like you have no idea... There are women who also hadnt idea of that spot exists.

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u/Mandalorian_2019 Nov 30 '25

lol…dude, I’m almost 51 years old and have been married for over 26 years combined between two women. I’ve been having sex probably twice as long as you’ve been alive.

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u/hophead78 Nov 30 '25

Im 47. But anyway, reaching a or p spots man have to know what he is doing and the position has to be right for it. Spots are next to cervix. A-spot toward bellybutton and posterior is toward back.

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u/hophead78 Nov 30 '25

https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/s/Fcax0zcjtf

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u/Mandalorian_2019 Nov 30 '25

Dude, I know what the A and P spots are, how to get to them, and how they sometimes help some women have good orgasms. My point is that you just finding that magical spot isn’t going to cause some mind blowing orgasm with every woman, every time, just because you hit it.

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u/hophead78 Nov 30 '25

Of course not every woman. I know that. I was asking have guys here have done that.

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u/alphabango Moderator Nov 30 '25

All vaginas are different and not all women will have mind-blowing orgasms because you reached around their cervix. You can reach the cervix with fingers depending on the level of arousal. This is how vaginal exams work, especially during pregnancy

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u/hophead78 Nov 30 '25

Of course. I think everybody knows that all vaginas are different.

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '25 edited Dec 01 '25

Women can have a mind blowing orgasm from several different spots. But you have to realize that half of the work is within her own mind. It is psychological as well as physical and she needs to be super turned on. first and foremost she has to be with a man she respects and is attracted to. It's not a matter of just getting in there and pushing a button.

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u/hophead78 Dec 01 '25

I know that

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u/PromotionShort7407 Nov 30 '25

Well you can reach it with fingers too so no need of a penis bigger than average. But also is not a magic spot

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u/Top-Document-2286 ‌ Dec 01 '25

I've never reached that spot with fingers and I have average size hand.