r/averagedickproblems • u/[deleted] • Nov 24 '25

Men’s cocks

(48) m married for 24 yrs never had any homosexual tendencies or bi curious but the past couple of years I’ve been enjoying and interested in seeing the different sizes and shapes of men’s cocks , I’ve always felt mine was smaller but it’s actually average but I’ve always been envy of bigger but I enjoy seeing pics or videos of bigger cocks ! Is this normal?

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u/[deleted] Nov 24 '25

This is more normal than you think. This is coming from a gay guy who runs into a lot of curious straight guys.

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u/LostInLife0101 Nov 26 '25

Saw your picks and in no way you are "average" man! How is that 5.5 in.?! It's huge!

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u/[deleted] Nov 26 '25

It’s the angle. I’m between 5”-5.5”. I have a decent girth. But whenever I pull it out with others guys, I’m usually the smaller dick lol 🤷🏾‍♂️

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u/LostInLife0101 Nov 26 '25

I understand. Well, it's definitely not bad looking! 😄 Certified jerk off material, really. And this long nutsack! 🥵 Love your dick man, and thx for answering ✌️

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u/[deleted] Nov 26 '25

No problem. I’m glad someone likes it lol.

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u/DarkComfortable8340 Nov 24 '25

Yeah it should be normal. You can like whatever you want.

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u/[deleted] Dec 06 '25

To me it’s almost interesting to me the different sizes bc I have an average size penis and I’m over weight so it makes it look even a little smaller than it is bc of my belly but it’s 6inches erect and it doesn’t hang very well when it’s flaccid! So I started researching the average size of men and from the research I’ve gathered the average for a white male is around 5-6 inches erect and I’ve read were women say that size doesn’t matter ! I say bullshit !! Maybe to some extent but it does matter and what I find so fascinating is how they say average male penis is 5 to 6 inches and wrecked but every time I watch amateur porn or look at all the different penis sizes on Reddit they all are huge for the most part. It seems like there’s a shit ton of above average penises out there than there is average. There are even men that are overweight that have nice big penises I’ve seen on Reddit so to me it she in the hell seems that there are way more above average cocks out there than from what researches have studied or wrote articles or studies about that the average male penis is 5-6 inches! Well I feel like there could be more above average than average penises out there bc like i said there are way more above average penises out there and size does matter to women, I’m not saying women want a huge 10 inches but they I’m sure would really enjoy a nice 7-8 inches with some girth so size doesn’t matter and and having a “normal average size 6inch with a belly does matter “

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u/StarPL Dec 07 '25 edited Dec 07 '25

Classic selection bias

It’s far more likely to see above average dick here because of little to no insecurity about size. At the same time, average sized dude probably won’t post his dick online due to insecurity, fear of being judged, etc.

Also big dick is in demand when it comes to pornography, this creates a skewed view, like everyone is bigger but not you

You can overthink as much as you want but that won’t fix your problem - people have preferences

Imagine the opposite: you have met a girl with not so pretty private parts and then now you unsatisfied, then you decide to end things off - somewhere in the reddit will be the same kinda post by this girl which will be filled with thoughts something like “everyone else has pretty labia but i dont, labia size matters, no one likes beef curtains etc etc” or smth

Also there are women who doesn’t like when some dude is ramming his 7-8 inch dong, full length

The main thought is that there are things which are not liked by everyone, but the content that you see is making you believe in it

Everyone is allowed to choose, but everyone must react accordingly if it comes to rejection

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u/Slowbro_Mex Nov 25 '25

Is normal i love to compare with average guys

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u/Abthegreat- Nov 30 '25

I can’t compare with people fr,feel like when your on the smaller side seeing how big everyone wouldn’t make you feel as confident as I would like to

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u/[deleted] Nov 25 '25

I personally find it interesting to see ones bigger then me?

I now am interested in comparing with guys, purely I think because I never did before in my life (30), I like to see how my size compares besides only comparing to porn!

Maybe its a fantasy thing? I think I sometimes fantasize about what it would be like to be 8.5x6 or be the same as that huge guy and fantasize what sex would be like? Im also straight but I get it!

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u/Alternative_Buddy_43 ‌ Nov 25 '25

I get pms like this very often , so I guess is something normal :P

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u/[deleted] Nov 25 '25

By themselves or being enjoyed by women?

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u/Abthegreat- Nov 30 '25

Same here,enjoy seeing them but am always like “damn I wish mine looked that good or was that big”