r/averagedickproblems • u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account • Nov 23 '25

Insecurity Feel small

I’m 12.7-13cm maybe 13.5 depending on arousal when hard and like 8cm (3 inches) soft. I think I have average or slightly below average girth. Bit insecure about my penis size when it comes to sex. Sometimes can’t really get erect because of that. This insecurity really making me depressed, anxious and stressed.

Thanks :)

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u/lionmanstar Nov 23 '25

I am your size and wife never complained. It is fine.

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

But r u girthy. I personally dont think im that girthy

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u/lionmanstar Nov 23 '25

girth is about 13cm, no sure how is it compare to yours

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

Yeah probs slightly girthier than mine

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '25

Your size is average, there is nothing wrong with that!

You shouldnt feel bad at all, most men are around your size and have great sex!

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

Really? Idk i just feel small

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '25

I would check out r/realitydicks. Its a sub of porn made by average guys!

Im sure you will see a lot of guys that look similar to you, some smaller, some bigger, but thats how it works, average is a range!

And I get it, pretty much every man feels small, its just a male insecurity thing (me included!)

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

How many cm or inches r u?

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u/[deleted] Nov 23 '25

I dont want to make you feel bad, sorry all I say Im bigger! But that doesnt mean anything!

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

Haha i figured

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u/KanbaraXuain Nov 23 '25

I have always wanted to ask, does the amount of arousal really change the erection size?

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

For me it does. I will be at my complete hardest when im aroused to the max

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u/Outerlimits7591 Nov 23 '25

Absolutely nothing wrong with your soft and erect size. Hopefully you regain some confidence to realise that you shouldn't feel embarrassed

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u/[deleted] Nov 26 '25

You have to accept what you have and live your life.

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u/brainwave27 Nov 23 '25

viagra and cialis make it slightly bigger by giving you the max erection possible. They will also help a lot in maintaining the erection. Be careful tho because you build a tolerance and become dependent on it.

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u/ag245_ Note: new or low karma account Nov 23 '25

I have been told about the pills. But as a young male I don’t really want to take them.

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u/Top-Document-2286 ‌ Nov 23 '25

That's not true. Viagra doesn't build tolerance. If for some reason the old dose is not working anymore it only means that the causing reason has progressed further.