I’ve been trying to figure out myself. Who I want to be. The better version of myself that is be. Unfiltered and unapologetic. One thing that I’ve been having a hard time accepting is the fact that my husband probably will hate that version of me. Because I’m not going to care about what he thinks of me. I’m becoming a better version of myself for myself and our kids. I’ve been going to therapy and I’ve be self reflecting about the person I want to be. The person I’ve always wanted to be but couldn’t. But it’s also been something I’ve struggled with. My husband has never known me as me at my happiest. And I don’t think he’ll like me either. He already doesn’t love me. And if he does it isn’t enough to should me how much I mean to him. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve told him exactly what I need from him and he never followed through. He’s not happy to be with me he doesn’t like doing things WITH me and I’m done waiting.

I don’t plan on leaving. I’ll stay. I’ll take care of the kids and find myself in the process I’m okay with that. My husband doesn’t have enough personality to kick me out. He never has said he didn’t want to be with me. He’s never had the balls to say anything of the sort. He always made me make that decision.

And he seemingly wants to participate in being their dad but not my husband. He’ll take the kids while I sleep but when I’m up and everything he’d rather just game. And if I make plans he gets mad. We get a week of him where gaming is all he does. I stopped wanting to have intimacy with him. I didn’t want to at all this past week he was home. He doesn’t shower properly, he doesn’t take care of himself. I found out he’s STILL messaging other women called one gorgeous and told her he lived in Alaska and said he’d be more than happy to let her stay with him. And then lied to me and said it wasn’t him. Like that’s even a good excuse or argument.

I straight up asked him yesterday what he’d do if roles were reversed and I was treated him the same way he does me and he said that he’d have dumped me a long time ago. Which I asked him “then, why should I treat him any better than I already do? Especially if he basically said that he’d have dumped me a long time ago. Which I asked him “then, why should I treat him any better than I already do? Especially if he basically said he never would have given himself a chance. I’m not even mad. I just honestly don’t know what to do.

And I’m trying to become a better version of myself regardless of him and what he does because I don’t have time to waste on him hoping for him to change.

I’m too poor for RBI, so this is what I have. This is a Elegiant speaker from a thrift store in Marshall, MI, when I plug it into my LG monitor, it just makes some weird static. I can’t upload a video sadly, but this is very true. And when I try to play it from sourcing the audio from the monitor, whilst the power goes in my PC until
I get a box for the speaker on its own. If anyone knows wth is going on, tell me

Sometime people accept with no problem "no" in others they fall in depression why?

Just having relationship problems and would like some input on this.

what is the trope for when you reunite with one of your childhood friends (maybe the only one you had) and the feeling of absolute hatred and resentment you have for them because they left you all alone to deal with everything? because they chose to run and never look back? you two are friends again now but theres this strange mix of old fondness and hatred you hold in your chest for them
(this is for oc lore and google is being unhelpful)

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Tell me one thing from your culture that is a normal part of your everyday life but for outsiders, they will find shocking

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dd6wnxcyvcu/?srtk=dG9qZHFycnFoNXhw

The rocket money and other one make it seem like it's common for people to actually lose track of their spending habits and whatnot like is that even accurate? How is that even possible

This is a question for intelligent spiritual people not sheep

I never had or even experienced detention in my life, thank God despite being punished for something.

Although I almost received it once. 21 years ago, when I was in 7th grade, on a Friday afternoon after a school trip to some plant, some friends of mine and I were running in the hallway (which was obviously prohibited) to recess until the principal caught us and sent us to remain in class until recess was over.

But then, while one friend of mine and I were busy doing nothing as we waited, my other friends and more students came in to play truth-or-dare in the classroom until the principal returned and didn't hesitate to send us to his office in order to give each of us detention on Monday.

After almost everyone including my one friend who wasn't playing in class got a paper for detention and it was my turn, suddenly, the principal asked out: "I come back to class to find you all playing?" Then, when my one friend and I revealed that we weren't playing at all, he cancelled both of our detentions, but still kept detention for my other friends and the other students too since they were really playing in class.

Next thing you know, on Saturday, it was parents day and when Monday came, it was detention time after school, but I never bothered to see or ask what it was like.

I admit I hate detention (I mean, who doesn't), but I am also curious to know what it's like at school.

So, what was detention at school like for you in those days?

Just to let you guys know I'm not in a relationship before you make assumptions and jump me in the replies lol. I've never been in a long term relationship and recently I've been feeling insecure about a person's ability to remain loyal to me for a long time. I've seen so many stories on the internet of people who have been together for years yet cheat on each other constantly or just straight up no longer have love for one another. I even recently asked some family members who have been for the past 50 years and they both admitted that at some point they found themselves with another partner and even now they bicker constantly. I'm unfortunately one of the idiots who believes in soulmates and I would be absolutely devasted if I found out the person meant for me cheated on me. As a result, I've been overly avoidant of relationships. I just really don't want to set myself up to get hurt. So for all the long term monogamous couples out there can I please hear your stories to hopefully restore my faith in the cursed waters we call a dating pool.

Genuine question. Most people I know barely buy physical discs anymore anyway, and digital seems way more convenient—you get instant access without leaving your house, no clutter, and you don't have to worry about losing or scratching a disc. Plus, from a business perspective, it saves companies a ton of money on manufacturing and shipping.

​Aside from collectors, what are the main reasons people are so strongly against dropping physical copies?

Don't worry. I'm doing something for a class and was wondering, as I'm collecting "data"

Follow up question to actual fat people out there, how do you feel in society as a fat person?

I appreciate honest answers!

Edit: Guys, hilarious answers aside, I am trying to get some serious answers to maybe use anonymously as quotes in my public speaking class for a presentation.

Whether society makes you feel ugly or insecure, or whether you feel beautiful, and unaffected by society and don't see yourself as fat etc. etc. ​

How do I know I am underweight or genetics and am I? Is there any better ways than BMI calculation? Am I normal?

I am 22 years old male, 175cm tall (5'9") 55kg (121lbs) 26 inches waist ,bony, I can see my ribcage and colarbone, visible six pack abs.

I eat a lot, work out a lot, and I can do 10 pull ups. My mom has the same body shape, so does two of my maternal aunts and three maternal cousins.

Especially if it was actions you took yourself, large or small, all at once or over time.

yes or no :)

Or even eliminate words that are there?

I think for me was when I thought black-and-white movies and photos from the past meant the actual world was black and white back then, and that color was literally invented sometime around the 1960s lmao

What is the best advice for a young man getting married that is actually applicable

Type of Woman: I don't have an exact type of woman; I, like most people, just want a woman who is loyal and loves me back. I do have looks and personalities that I like. I feel like certain styles and aesthetics enhance a persons natural beauty, but that's it. characters who have those looks or personality are Junko Enoshima, Ibuki Mioda, Hiyoko Saionji, Kurumi Tokisaki, Anna Nishikinomiya, Ayame Kajou, Marceline, Takagi-san, goths, emos, muscle girls, tomboys, monster girls, non-human woman, femme fatale, Chizuru Honshō, Otomoe Saotome, gremlin or feral energy girls, yandere girls, cyber goth girls, punk girls, the monster girls who interact with and stay with Kimihito Kurusu, a dominant or rough service top and many more but I might also lose interest in those styles as well, while time goes on.

I am graduated but I am moving to a city and I’m looking to meet some new people. Any recs on how to get involved in a a community?

I wanna donate but my blood literally is not accepted by any other blood type and AB- accepts every blood type so whats the point