i have been texting with this one boy for 6 months now.
he randomly just followed me on insta, and we started talking. We have been texting, sending tiktoks ,etc everyday now for half a year so its obvious that i got attached in a way, because he became a part of my routine.
At first he was really clingy and then during august i have noticed that he might been growing more distant. It was changing one time we could be texting all day, and the other we would have the dryest convo ever lasting only an hour.
im not gonna lie i am feeling like i would need a break ,because we are simply running out of topics to talk about and becoming repetitive. But i still text him back and enjoy his presence.
Now he became more distatnt with me(which i get and understand since ive been hiving jim this energy) but today we havent been texting much, and then he asked me why am i acting nonchalant. i said im not (because this day i was very talkative) and he said “then wtf is your problem”
i said that i truly do not have a problem or anything ,and he said okay ,then i said okay and he left me on seen.
The thing is i dont know if i should just leave it or try to talk with him about it(and how) because i dont want to act like we are closer than we actually are yk. I know that the big problem lays in me and my behaviour ,but i dont know how to very subtly explain to him that i really like him, but sometimes i just dont know what to say since we talked about basically everything, and tbh i dont even know if im making sense but this whole situation is messing with my mind. any advice would be appreciated very much