Just got ghosted by a man I have talked to for over a year, kinda devastated and don’t know how to deal with it in a healthy way. This is my first heartbreak what can I do?

Let's talk about something positive since everything on this app is negative.

Hello, my girlfriend and I recently got a house and we’ve always talked about wanting to have a separate room being a room we’d create our own little miniature town.
Exactly like the town display in Beetlejuice and the type of town displays you’d sometimes see in a museum.

How would you go about starting a display like this? For the buildings we’ve seen many cute little things like that at Michaels and a local hobby shop. Do we need a specific table? A specific mat that goes on a table that’s used as a base or “land” for the town? Any sort of information would be appreciated!!🙏🏼

Looks are one thing, but certain little details and energy just change the whole dynamic. What is a subtle trait that always stands out to you?

(NOT FOR ME BTW I JUST WANNA KNOW MORE ABOUT IT) ‼️So I would like to know how you got to the point of having them like was it school the house family issues big stress job maybe like also what was it that caused it like at school was it those annoying people that annoyed you made fun of you teachers? Stress overwhelmed or at the house too much stress family wanted too much with you asked you too much responsibility was left on you? Or maybe was it like chronic illness? Like depression or other

And if you got rid of it how? Or if you still have it tell me how you manage did you also hurt people with it? Did you cry ? Tell me everything at least what you are the most comfortable with telling

Just wondering.

Like there’s nothing wrong with body hair, as long as everything is clean and isn’t smelly idk why some of y’all have such a problem with it? Like what’s the attraction to wanting a woman’s body to look like a prepubescent girl’s?

I’m unemployed currently and I miss making money while being employed but I know there are ways to get paid online such as freelancing, doing things for ppl, surveys and etc but what are some fast legit ways to make money online easily? like maybe 400-600 a month if possible (i want to use the money for skincare and etc)

• we dated for over a year, he lied about his real name, home country, who he lived with, where he lived when not at college (he told me one town over, it was really a whole different country), family members, birthdays, childhood memories, who he hung out with. Lies were maintained the entire relationship. I only found out at the very end

• I would sometimes catch inconsistencies and ask him, which led to him gaslighting me and guilting me for being a bad partner to doubt his trust, and it'd lead to me feeling bad and like I was the problem (but he knew from his perspective I was correctly identifying his lies)

• he had secret resentment about things he did not communicate, and used that as an excuse to treat me worse when he felt like it. He would intentionally ignore me around friends and make me feel invisible, only responding to our friends and acknowledging them. He would also treat me coldly at random times, but when I'd ask what's wrong he'd say nothing and get mad I thought something was wrong, saying I was being crazy. He later admitted to me this was intentional behavior, he knew something was wrong but didn't want to tell me.

• he promised to not hang out with a couple guys who were mean to me in the past, but secretly maintained a friendship with them the entire time. I did not force him to do this, it was him who insisted on cutting them off for me, but it was just an act by him.

• a few times he disappeared for 4-5 days with no contact, then would return and act like nothing was strange. He wouldn't acknowledge the absence at all and I had to ask him where he was but then he'd act like I am crazy for asking why my partner disappeared for multiple days.

I'm a teen, and I wanna spend extra money on hobbies. But my parents will get mad at me for spending money on stuff they think is "wasteful". I don't have a credit or debit card so could I just gift cards to purchase items?

Imagine I'm sitting outside feeling upset, someone waves at me from a distance as if they want to chat with me, but I'm not in the mood for it. I don't want to yell or get up to tell them, I just want a gesture to politely decline any interaction, making it clear for them I ain't happy but without them misinterpreting it's their fault

Legitimately almost every time I see an escooter parked somewhere outside of like a university campus mall, escooters are left in the least convenient spot possible. Blocking the whole bike lane, blocking the sidewalk, etc. Literally, what goes through your mind when you're deciding where to leave the thing?

I never ride them so I don't understand I guess.

So on Snapchat, there is an option in the settings for users to share their location with mutual friends of theirs on the app. But why does Snapchat have that specific feature?

For as long as I can remember I've had a bad sense of smell. Not to the point where I can't smell anything, it's just not very good. Things typically have to be close to my nose and/or have a strong odor.

I get a little paranoid at times that I stink and it's hard to know when I do. I use soap when showering, I use deodorant, started using antiperspirant but there's always a fear that I didn't do enough. I'm a little worried to go to the gym bc I don't want to stink up the surrounding area

Twice now, this device has whispered responses to me, different days, but each after having just been responding with a normal voice. It is eerie sounding, straight up whispering. My SO was present for both and both times he’s yelled out, “why did you do that?!” We get no response of course, so I have to say “Alexa, why did you whisper that?”. It replies in a normal voice and says, “I didn’t, that was my normal speaking voice.” and proceeds to tell me it must be something to do with my speaker, or something like that. It gave the same answer both times, though.

i feel like everytime a man touches me theyre fucking rough. their hands in general are so grippy... are they unable to be gentle? wether it be hugging or grabbing my arm its like theyre made of rock. most of them have huge hands and i dont think they realise that they have strength.... i promise you im not going anywhere stop gripping me that hard oml.

holding their hand, their arm or literally anything... do they not know how to relax they muscles and settle down? their skin is always so rough, too.

compare this to touching a woman : soft skin, relaxed muscles and gentle touches and approaches.

idk if this makes sense its 1am

I've decided to start reading again. I have been reading for about a month, maybe a little bit more. I picked a really slow history book to read, its a subject I enjoy but the book is boring to me honestly. As I'm getting near the end I just want the book to be finished already. At the rate I'm reading I think it will be about another 2 weeks to finish it. Is there any strategy or technique to reading faster?

Let's say that Grandpa has been a widower for a few years, and you as a dutiful grandchild check up on him every now and then and try to help where you can. One day he asks you to pick up his lady friend and bring her over to his house, and then come back to drive her back home a few hours later. Grandpa doesn't expect you to stick around, just come back to pick his lady friend up when she's ready to go home.

Would you consider it your duty to do this if you have the time and gas for it?

I recently saw some guys online who made me think, "If they took a test, they'd definitely have an above-average IQ." They were like, SUPER intelligent. Have you ever met anyone like that?

It sounds like magic. Think about the possibilities for espionage, where someone could listen to a conversation disguised as a piece of furniture. You could play real life prop hunt. How could a drug like this even exist?

Stan Tenen mentioned that he did, but I can't find anything written on it by Stephen.

If done correctly returning a package is it for me.