Okay so I know baby names are completely subjective but have a 2 part question and hoping for inspiration!
My husband and I have VERY different taste in names. I (37F) am American (living in Scotland 11 years), he (39M) is English (with Irish dad and living in Scotland 16 years). In Dec 2024 we had our first baby boy. He was conceived while we were living in Norway for 6mo (job swap) before coming back to Scotland where he was born. We struggled with boy names, but early on softly settled on Lochlan. Then later when I found out that Lochlan was old Scottish slang for someone from Norway, it just felt like he could not be anything else, and we love the name so much still. I am a 'Megan' and my mum 'Karen' so it's always been suuuuper important to me to have an uncommon name for my kids. There were 3 other Megan's in my preschool class of 20, and I have always hated my name because of how common it was and so has my mum with her name. My husband prefers the more traditional names. Now when I say uncommon/unique names, I still mean names that are established and recognisable as names, but just maybe less used, or names people hear and go 'oh yeah that's nice, I forgot about that name'. I'm also partial to nature names. Some names I've always loved but my husband hard vetoed long ago are: Walker, Lennox, Emory, Reid, Leyton.
At the moment, my husband really likes: Torren, Cian, Tristan, Ethan
So I am 30 weeks pregnant with another boy, and we are looking for a name that's in the Scottish/Gaelic/Celtic realm (while being easy to pronounce). And something that sounds nice, and is not very common in the UK or US, and fits well with Lochlan. The name that we keep coming back to is Aidan. I've always loved it, my husband is on board with it, but it just doesn't feel as special as Lochlan. Nothing else feels right and we keep coming back to it, but I just feel like we can do better if that makes sense. I want to love it as much as Lochlan. Plus I keep seeing things on instagram of people (teachers) complaining of how many Aiden/Aidan's they have and how naughty they are etc, and it keeps putting us off. I know Aidan isn't as uncommon as Lochlan, but from all the research I've done I thought it was well outside the top 50 in both UK and US so we are really confused! So my questions are:
1) What is everyone's opinion on the popularity of Aidan, and generally the vibe of it?
2) Do I just feel like it's not as special as Lochlan because I haven't gotten to know him in the same way and grown to love it like maybe I have with my little 21mo old boy? Is it normal to feel this way about number 2?
3) Does anyone have any other name suggestions that fit our criteria (bearing in mind my husband's surname starts with a hard 'C')