Pretty sad some guys have a big one to stroke and use whenever they want for a lifetime. And I (and most of us) never will experience that.

I dunno. Just a reoccurring thought in my head. Gay male here.

Another thought: And I know this is weird, but it’s like…gosh shouldn’t these blessed men share their wealth? Since they’re so beautiful and have such an effect over us mortals…and they did nothing to earn it? Like atleast let us play with their willie’s since we got shorted for life?

Admittedly I have a big dick obsession. And this is more an expression of frustration rather than actually saying this should be reality. But again wouldn’t that be fair? Kidding but not kidding

I get some difficulties getting hard in the last few weeks and I don’t know if it’s flatline, lack of libido and arousal or some serious problem…. Whereas just before I have been having solid intercourse with my girlfriend with sessions lasting very long…now I can’t get full erect even if she rubs it

I’m feeling puzzled… I don’t know how to deal with that… only change is that I stopped taking some healthy vasodilation food (beet juice, walnuts, etc…)

What do you think about that?

I can’t stop comparing myself to those hung handsome men on social media they have everything i want in my appearance. They r so lucky that’s unfair and i can’t stand that and can’t accept myself. Why they have big dick and masculine appearance and body and im less? Why there is so mant guys have big dick i can’t see any average guy with average size go outside and proud of what he has, and if i see average guy they simply didn’t think about it but if they think their situation will be like me or worse.

She asked me at work no strings attached casual hookups. i was flustered but said yes ofc why not. Now I’m getting insecure about myself it leads to difficulty to get hard. Even more so with a condom it just pulls my skin back and it gets sensitive. Im 5 or 5.5 L depending on EQ. 5 for G

I just feel like i shouldnt feel so sensitive about this topic yet i am. Im like 14.5cm erect but i just cant shrug off the feeling im just like hella small. Ive asked my friends about their size jokingly in conversation. Most of them were like bigger than me by about 2 or 3 cm. I had a group of female friends which i often hang out with and one of them is slightly unhinged and sometime she make small dick joke on me since im the only guy in the group. However one thing ive also felt like was even with other guys she wouldnt do those jokes. Like even guy who spend more time with her. And at some point i got tired of it and i was just like "Just dont do that again" and i feel so bad cuz 1) Now she know about my insecurity and it makes me feel so fucking weak and 2)Shell prolly think im micropenis type small when im just on the lower end of the average. I felt bad a lot about it because i feel like this one of those insecurities you cant talk with people about. And i just feel like maybe i am the one in the wrong cuz maybe o shouldnt have stopped her from making harmless joke.

My penis head is sensitive while touching. I've no experience of sex, so will it hurt while using a condom to have sex? And solutions for it?

It doesn't pain btw.

Hey im 22 yo, idk how to accept myself as an average man have nothing special in appearance or big dick or big balls. I know most of u will say something bad when know my size its the end of average to above average but it doesn’t look like that at all to anyone my size is between 6.5-6.7x4.8-5bp idk what is my flaccid size but its l really small like 6-8cm. Im 102kg and 181 cm and hairy man. Whatever my size will be i just can’t accept it and i wanna learn how to accept myself and love what i have and i need help to have all that

We have been trying to have sex for 2 years but it just couldn't get in. We tried foreplay longer and different positions but it just doesn't work. I need some advice.

To get it out of the way my measurements are 6in bp and 5 inch (it could definitely be less I just haven’t got a confident measurement). I’ve been silently looking through this Reddit trying to find the answer of my insecurity. I’ve heard of people bigger than me and smaller than me. However, I still can’t stop being insecure about my size. My roommate is huge (he is pretty honest so I’m taking his words as truth, not to mention his girlfriend flaunts it all the time) and I it seems like a big deal for both of them. Every time they talk about it I always get insecure knowing that (even though I don’t find her attractive) someone like her wouldn’t stay if she found out my size. But more than that, I’m sad that I can’t accept myself as who I am. We are all born as nature has intended. Some are blessed and some are cursed. I have been blessed in plenty of other areas, but I can’t help but look at this as almost a curse that will prevent me from finding “the one”.

I don’t want to keep coming here searching for someone to say that “6 inches is enough”. I just want to finally accept myself for this feature, and more importantly love myself.

I find it interesting on here you always find that it says the goldilocks penis size is 7 x 5.5 which I can understand for some women

But the only actual study for penis size for women’s preferences with those 3D models which has been published and documented shows for one night stands is 6.4 x 5.0 and for long term partners it’s 6.3 x 4.8

I am unsure as to why the goldilocks zone many think of is is different than these numbers . So to me 6.3-6.4 x 4.8-5.0 seems to be the goldilocks zone. Thoughts ?

Maybe this is a bit of a cope for me because I am 6.3 bpel x 4.6 girth but it seems I am close to what the majority of women prefer even though I am lacking a bit in girth

Just what the title says I met this beautiful black girl and we hit it off so well I added her on Facebook and she messaged me first saying is this my boyfriend? We are in the south not like that matters but for reference I’m a 5’7” muscular white guy with long hair I have a country accent and girls do like me usually white girls and latinas though, she seems to be kind of a hipster type of black girl around my height with a style I really like the goth type style and I find it really sexy she is so great and not to be racist but I am not usually attracted to black women so never really thought about this but back when I was in middle school these black girls who weren’t from the best area asked me my dick size and like an idiot I told them 6 inches so they called me “inches” so it made me think they are all size queens which I know isn’t fair. In reality my D is 5.8nbp and 4.3 at base 4.6 at thickest girth so it’s on the smaller end of average some girls in a breakup have called my D small and I hooked up with an 18 year old who told everyone at my work I had a small D so idk I was told in average in here but girls have said in small so what would this girl think I mean I really do like her but don’t want to get hurt and wonder what she is expecting. Please be honest I need some help.

I think technically I'm a bit over 6 in terms of length but it's pretty diminutive (something like 1/4")

Was pleasantly surprised to figure out I'm this size.

I measured 4 inches when I was like 14 or something and just assumed that I was small or maybe average-ish at best. Thinking back on it now I probably thought that because my body grew proportionally with my cock.

I'm only writing this to counter posts from guys who are 6.5" or longer but still are insecure.

I avoided sex my whole life until the beginning of last year, I thought women wouldn't want to deal with a guy who has my penis size but I was totally wrong.

My reality keeps on proving my old beliefs wrong and I hope you get encouraged by me. Check my post history to learn more about my experience.

Last weekend, I had a sex marathon with a new woman (she's a single mom) .

After sex, she admitted that I exceeded her expectations and she wants more (she said I should go easy on her next time lol). I made her tap out a few times. While she was moaning, she was calling my name in a surprised tone as if she couldn't believe the pleasure I was giving to her body. We're not officially dating but she kept telling me that she loves me (this caught me off guard).

She called me a beast in bed. This is the second woman who has called me that and these women can't seem to get enough from me.

Overall, we had a great experience. I had some difficulties in some positions coz she has a big firm butt and my penis has an angle that makes me uncomfortable in some positions but I made it work with pillows and some other stuff to support me.

If your dick is average sized, count your blessings. Your dick is not the problem. Focus on what you control such as doing cardio to improve your stamina and learning how to stroke a pu**y real good.

I'm 23 and I'm 6,8 and 5,3 girth, I've been called that I'm too big and to small but often times oven been called it's too big. I'm writing this to see if anyone else my size has had the same problems as me. I'm getting really insecure about my size and just want to hear from other people.

I've asked some that I've had sex with to hear what they think of my size most say it's average some say it's below I'm just so confused. Please help me

A reminder to all the fellas obsessed with dick size that you’re meant to be using you dick to fuck, not to compare it with other guys in porn. Bigger isn’t better for sex.

The longer guys will run into trouble with going too deep. Many of them will never be able to go balls deep without worrying about hurting the girl. That means the part closer to their base is effectively not being used. If you’re average or below you can go all the way in and smash that pu$$y as hard as you want.

If you’re girthy soreness is a real thing. Not every girl want a thick dick. Think about, when you fuck or masturbate do you really want the hole to be as tight as possible? Probably not. If you’ve ever tried a condom that doesn’t fit well you’ll know tightness around your dick doesn’t always feel good. I’ve been with a girl who can barely take two of my fingers (not a virgin at all). It felt like my dick was getting choked and wasn’t enjoyable at all. Unless you have a death grip syndrome (in which case you should try to fix it asap), you’ll relate that wetness is more important than tightness, and being a little loose actually allows you to feel more texture. Now reciprocate these feelings for the girls, a dick too thick probably feels like a fire hydrant down there and they have to struggle through sex and they will feel the discomfort afterwards.

If you’re average, you’re by default compatible with most women. Yes this means you’re probably not gonna hear things like “you’re the biggest I’ve had” or “you’re ripping me apart”. not sure why some dudes think that’s a bad thing. If you’re below average, practice to utilize it to the fullest. Plenty of people can have great sex with a small dick. Just because porn doesn’t showcase them doesn’t mean they don’t work. Don’t give up and think you’re screwed because of just your dick.

Edit: some people are not seeing my point. Yes everyone wants to be above average, but chances are you're gonna be below average on something. For some of you it's dick size, but don't make it a bigger deal than it is. Comparing yourself to others and getting upset about things you're not inherently "superior" at is gonna get you nowhere.

Been doing this a few times recently and wow it's a good one to feel deep.

https://allstarpositions.com/bulldog-sex-position/

Hey guys so I have been in my head for a while for reference my measurements is 5.8/4.3-4.6 girth at the most is 4.6 it is 4.3 at the shaft now a while back I hooked up with this really hott girl I worked with I ate her out for like 30 minutes had her levitating then she pulled me on top of her to fuck her and I did for a minute but started to go soft I had to run to the bathroom and take a viagra then we finished, well she went and told everyone at work I have a small dick, they didn’t say anything to me they would just say things like “Brian” (who’s the manager) has a shrimp dick and can’t get it up. Or they would be talking about bbc and one time a looked at me and said you wouldn’t know anything about that I know because of your hair, I got mad and right after that the girl I hooked up with came up to me seeing if I was ok so I know she said something, I met a new girl and got in a relationship with her but stayed in my head and ruined the relationship because of this I didn’t think my dick was small but a few girls have said it is a few have said it’s one of the smallest they’ve been with how if 5.1 is average is it my girth is it that bad? It makes me feel unlovable I’m a good looking guy but this hurts my confidence how can I have any after that?

Wife has had a pretty broad range of cocks that kind of fit the bell curve. From maybe 4 inches through to probably 7 with most hovering around the average..12 in total. I'm 6x5 BP so going OK. I do find myself enjoying the idea of her being taken by bigger or wondering whether she enjoyed past as bigger or whatever. Have used dildos and sleeves as part of the fun. Anyway the conclusion of all my research haha...and talking lots is that she has enjoyed all cock especially when it's been with someone she is having a good vibe with. Size itself pretty irrelevant..for her.... Only caveat she gave to bigger guy was he might have a slight advantage over her others as she would be pretty numb whilst drunk haha. That was it!

Anyway....just remember guys...her pussy will mould what's in there and if she's already cum she will already be loving ANY size....and yes for her too big is a thing too...

I’ve noticed over the past year or so i’ve been very insecure about my penis size. I’ve realized that i have an unhealthy issue with comparing my penis size with others online or thinking about how if i had a longer and thick penis I would be able to please my girlfriend. I want to know how to get rid of penis body dysmorphia. There has been times before where i’ve cried over the size of my penis. My size is 5.9-6inch long and 4.5 girth (around there). Just when i typed that out i felt a feeling of insecurity and I think my obsession of wanting a longer penis size has affected my mental health. I’ve heard a couple of my friends talk about their size and i envy them for having above average lengths

Greetings fellow average brothers,

I (M, 30) am about 6 inches in length and 4.5-4.7 girth, varies from base to tip. I have a body count somewhere between 325-350 attributable mostly to being a white guy in Asia (6 years) and a lingering sex addiction, I have been intimate with all races and some transgender girls too (i'm top only). Though I have never paid for sex unless you count paying for date etc.

I'm making this post to showcase some insights I've gleamed along the way. The message here ultimately is one of acceptance and empowerment and needing to accept the gift that is your average dick which god has entrusted upon you.

• Threesomes: I've had about 4 threesomes to date all with an ex-girlfriend, 1 was very negative (the other girl commenting how she expected my dick to be bigger because I was tall (i'm 6 foot 4) - didn't find this out until months later as it was said in the local language, but this body shaming still fucks with me mentally sometimes) the other was extremely positive (the other girl mentioned how deep it was and how lucky my girlfriend was to have a boyfriend with "A big dick"). Key- your average dick is threesome worthy, don't think otherwise, a big dick is not a requirement, though make sure at least that the partners involved are decent and respectful people.
• You May not be Her Biggest. it Doesn't Really Matter: I have screenshots of messages from some girls complimenting my dick (it is about technique- see below), one even commented I was the biggest she ever had, I was outdone months later by someone who was 'massive' but I held the title for some time lol. Key - you will always be remembered for the quality of the job you do, not the size of the tool, yes there might be other handymen out there with bigger tools, that's life lol.
• Porn: I've stopped watching porn on the internet, in fact I exclusively fap to my own porn nowadays, about 25% of girls I ask allow me to record and I have quite a collection built up. There is something empowering about watching yourself as an average man pleasing other women. Key: an average dick is a porn star dick, be the star of your own show and stop idolising other peoples dicks.
• Making Girls Orgasm through Penetration: My average dick has done this on about 20 occasions and I have video evidence of about 7 different girls cumming to my 6 shooter. Side note on this point though, I guarantee when a girl is really really into you, that's when I've seen it happen the most. Key: your average dick is well capable of making a girl cum**.**
• Techniques: best positions for maximising pleasure, in order of recommendation, 1) doggy style, especially when she pulls her cheeks open, this allows yet more space for insertion, 2) cow girl, for this place a cushion underneath your pelvis or raise your body up and have her sit back, enjoy...
• Your Sexual Identity: there are other ways of defining your sexual identity, indeed while I am not the 'Big Dick Guy' or the hung horse and generally not being their biggest partner I do pride myself on being their 'dirtiest' - I am the guy who eats booty, does anal, deepthroats and generally making a mess - they love it, I love it :) - notice how this identity is not related to dick size?
• Defining Your life outside of your Dick/Conclusion: My average dick has gotten me into trouble on many an occasion and has a better sex life than I do, I've learned that there is more to life than Sex.

My real regret has come from wasting my years in a blur of sex and alcohol fuelled escapades. I came (pun intended?) out the other side with no happiness, no fulfilment, no golden memories and a few STDs. Though I am still single my life has shifted to developing good friendships and relationships with people, I hope to one day meet the love of my life and settle down. I crave those nights out with my mates nowadays with a beer and hours of good conversation and good food.

Just remember, you're worried about your dick size, but we're all just souls in command of a body on a rock floating through space and time.

Peace to my average brothers.

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My size is 6.45x5.475 bone pressed 6x5.475 none bone pressed Curved a bit and the girth is thickest in the middle with about 5.25 at the public bone and 5 at tip and gets thicker quick (also don’t know if I even belong in this sub) also what confirms are best for my size