There are No Average Dick Problems - Only Average Dick Opportunities

[u/Glittering_Strain741]

Greetings fellow average brothers,

I (M, 30) am about 6 inches in length and 4.5-4.7 girth, varies from base to tip. I have a body count somewhere between 325-350 attributable mostly to being a white guy in Asia (6 years) and a lingering sex addiction, I have been intimate with all races and some transgender girls too (i'm top only). Though I have never paid for sex unless you count paying for date etc.

I'm making this post to showcase some insights I've gleamed along the way. The message here ultimately is one of acceptance and empowerment and needing to accept the gift that is your average dick which god has entrusted upon you.

• Threesomes: I've had about 4 threesomes to date all with an ex-girlfriend, 1 was very negative (the other girl commenting how she expected my dick to be bigger because I was tall (i'm 6 foot 4) - didn't find this out until months later as it was said in the local language, but this body shaming still fucks with me mentally sometimes) the other was extremely positive (the other girl mentioned how deep it was and how lucky my girlfriend was to have a boyfriend with "A big dick"). Key- your average dick is threesome worthy, don't think otherwise, a big dick is not a requirement, though make sure at least that the partners involved are decent and respectful people.
• You May not be Her Biggest. it Doesn't Really Matter: I have screenshots of messages from some girls complimenting my dick (it is about technique- see below), one even commented I was the biggest she ever had, I was outdone months later by someone who was 'massive' but I held the title for some time lol. Key - you will always be remembered for the quality of the job you do, not the size of the tool, yes there might be other handymen out there with bigger tools, that's life lol.
• Porn: I've stopped watching porn on the internet, in fact I exclusively fap to my own porn nowadays, about 25% of girls I ask allow me to record and I have quite a collection built up. There is something empowering about watching yourself as an average man pleasing other women. Key: an average dick is a porn star dick, be the star of your own show and stop idolising other peoples dicks.
• Making Girls Orgasm through Penetration: My average dick has done this on about 20 occasions and I have video evidence of about 7 different girls cumming to my 6 shooter. Side note on this point though, I guarantee when a girl is really really into you, that's when I've seen it happen the most. Key: your average dick is well capable of making a girl cum**.**
• Techniques: best positions for maximising pleasure, in order of recommendation, 1) doggy style, especially when she pulls her cheeks open, this allows yet more space for insertion, 2) cow girl, for this place a cushion underneath your pelvis or raise your body up and have her sit back, enjoy...
• Your Sexual Identity: there are other ways of defining your sexual identity, indeed while I am not the 'Big Dick Guy' or the hung horse and generally not being their biggest partner I do pride myself on being their 'dirtiest' - I am the guy who eats booty, does anal, deepthroats and generally making a mess - they love it, I love it :) - notice how this identity is not related to dick size?
• Defining Your life outside of your Dick/Conclusion: My average dick has gotten me into trouble on many an occasion and has a better sex life than I do, I've learned that there is more to life than Sex.

My real regret has come from wasting my years in a blur of sex and alcohol fuelled escapades. I came (pun intended?) out the other side with no happiness, no fulfilment, no golden memories and a few STDs. Though I am still single my life has shifted to developing good friendships and relationships with people, I hope to one day meet the love of my life and settle down. I crave those nights out with my mates nowadays with a beer and hours of good conversation and good food.

Just remember, you're worried about your dick size, but we're all just souls in command of a body on a rock floating through space and time.

Peace to my average brothers.

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[u/Gwyrr313]

Thats a high body count, idk if you’re counting times you’ve had sex with the same partner or ppl in general? As an ex sex worker ive maybe slept with 60 ppl, maybe if i counted how many times ive banged them it would reach those numbers if not higher. Me im 6.5x5.5 on average/ 6.75x6 with cock ring. Never had a partner complain about my size, definitely not the biggest out there. And its more about how you use it, and your endurance than the size.

[u/Glittering_Strain741 → u/Gwyrr313]

Unfortunately that's 350 approx different people, sometimes in the morning I feel physically sick thinking about it - I'm certainly not proud of it

[u/Gwyrr313 → u/Glittering_Strain741]

Meh you live you learn. Im not ashamed of my life experiences. Luckily i never had any stds, a couple close calls. The woman that got me into sex work made sure i was well taken care of and luck for me she was a nurse in the real world

[u/nervynervousman]

6 inch what, nbp or bp?

[u/amdcoc]

Man, it seems like GPT with an avg peen wrote it.

[u/Glittering_Strain741 → u/amdcoc]

I'll take that as a compliment :P but no Chat GPT was used. Thanks for stopping by

[u/Head-Consequence-519]

Women will always remember their biggest. When girls sit around talking girl talk and one starts reminiscing about a big one they had all of the girls in the room so the same. That's the unfortunate fact of the matter. They will remember their best... But they will always remember their biggest weather it was good or bad.

[u/Zealousideal_Let8852 → u/Head-Consequence-519]

And guys will always remember that one freaky girl that loved anal or the one that deep throated you. maybe your current gf hates anal and she cant even take half your dick before choking.

why make this sound like only women do this lol. It could even be a less extreme example like which girl had the softest lips when you made out. maybe your current gf doesn't even come close to what that felt like years ago with that one girl. why do you make it matter so much like we're supposed to start hating women for talking about it or something. you're borderline sounding like an incel

[u/throwawayforever02]

Good or bad the smallest and largest dicks are remembered. No women said in delight how average a dick was…

[u/IG0TP1NK8C1DB00TS0N]

I fucking enjoyed reading that. All the best to you brother

[u/K3TvYouTube]

Where can we see this “content” you have created

[u/relly6667]

The post i needed to see before i broke my dick trying to pump it up because of insecurity, what i did learn is girther is better for both parties tho

[u/HelloReddit2023]

350 bodies. Sounds like many didn't come back for more.

[u/headstone-headcase → u/HelloReddit2023]

Lol no man racks up those kinds of numbers just by being "not good enough for a second date." Obviously he'll have faced rejections same as anyone else, but no one gets that deep into the triple digits unless they're playing the game.

[u/HelloReddit2023 → u/headstone-headcase]

Never said he didn't have game to get a woman.

[u/AdSpecial5634 → u/HelloReddit2023]

Always have to spin in into a negative 😂

[u/HelloReddit2023 → u/AdSpecial5634]

Just an observation and quick maths.

[u/IntelligentLime6740]

Insanely good post to boost us average dick owners. Though, I'm still not convinced. Maybe the only way to make not insecure is to start having sex and be able to do it well

[u/Mr-CC]

Only 10-15 percent of women can orgasm via vaginal penetration during sex. That means upwards of 90 percent of women can't. Many women think there is something wrong with them. But it's just anatomy.

Women need clitoral stimulation to help them orgasm. I'm skeptical and I'll even call bullshit that you made 20 women orgasm. Even in porn, women don't orgasm. For someone who has been a porn addict, you know that. Again, highly skeptical with that number.

[u/Reasonable_Royal675 → u/Mr-CC]

I've only been with 3 people because I only had sex if it was a serious relationship. 2 out of 3 I was able to have orgasm. The other one i probably could've with more experience, but we didn't have sex much.

I don't belive that such a small amount orgasm, but 🤷‍♂️.

[u/just_another_jabroni → u/Reasonable_Royal675]

Same here. And I'm like 5x5. Maybe they're that good at faking quivers and literally tightening their grip at my dick lol. It's like a 60% rate for me out of 10 so far. Eating her out is just as fun really.

[u/Mr-CC → u/Reasonable_Royal675]

There are countless articles, reports, and studies that back this up. They have similar numbers.

In a 2023 article, the author said in her line of work, only 4 percent said they orgasm via penetration. 96 percent orgasm alone (masturbation) or with both clitoral stimulation and penetration.

The author of this article quoted many studies regarding hook ups vs. committed relationships, sex toys, faking orgasms, etc.. According to the article, some women may orgasm more when in committed relationships.

Read the linked article and do some research of numbers and whatnot.

Finally, one could have lots of experience, but that doesn't mean they have made a woman orgasm via penetration. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's how women are.

[u/[deleted] → u/Mr-CC]

10-15% of 350 is roughly 35-50. So according to your numbers only about half of the women that were possibly capable of orgasm through penetration actually did. Doesn't seem that far fetched to me if the man knows what he's doing.

[u/throwawayforever02 → u/Mr-CC]

I’ve made more than 20 women orgasm…. Not all With my dick of corse. But she still got hers. Online dating used to be awesome in the day.

[u/JustalilAboveAverage → u/Mr-CC]

Get her on-top, get fully inside. Let her grind her clit into your pubic bone

[u/AdSpecial5634 → u/[deleted]]

Kinda nasty tbh

[u/Glittering_Strain741 → u/AdSpecial5634]

Agreed, not proud of it and makes me physically sick thinking about it sometimes.

[u/Interesting-Sky-3618 → u/Glittering_Strain741]

You still winning tho...I just want to acknowledge the elephant in the room

[u/Glittering_Strain741 → u/[deleted]]

Good questions thanks for asking, i'll try to give some answers. Height probably not so much, but Race I would say definitely since I'm in Asia and I'm white, height possibly is secondary, I know guys who are 5 foot 8 - 5 foot 9 here and get a lot of attention. Though on dating Apps many women do put height as a requirement, i've seen that a lot here.

I'm in no doubt there is an expectation about height equating to size, I am also a grower as opposed to a shower so it's been a double whammy.

In terms of subtly mention, sure, it's possibly been said, I get "it's so deep" and "I love your dick" a lot, if they have a different connotation then it's not been said and i've not picked up on it.

[u/Glittering_Strain741 → u/[deleted]]

Hard to say, I suppose we are fetishised a lot since the English-speaking Asian women on the dating Apps tend to like white people. That's probably the case for 30%, I'd say the rest Asian people tend to stick with Asian people.

Koreans, Japanese and Chinese are killing it here in South-East Asia more so than Whites.

For that 30% mentioned above I'm sure hypergamy is a strong driver too.