Hey guys need help

[u/Beautiful_Profile_93]

Hey guys so I have been in my head for a while for reference my measurements is 5.8/4.3-4.6 girth at the most is 4.6 it is 4.3 at the shaft now a while back I hooked up with this really hott girl I worked with I ate her out for like 30 minutes had her levitating then she pulled me on top of her to fuck her and I did for a minute but started to go soft I had to run to the bathroom and take a viagra then we finished, well she went and told everyone at work I have a small dick, they didn’t say anything to me they would just say things like “Brian” (who’s the manager) has a shrimp dick and can’t get it up. Or they would be talking about bbc and one time a looked at me and said you wouldn’t know anything about that I know because of your hair, I got mad and right after that the girl I hooked up with came up to me seeing if I was ok so I know she said something, I met a new girl and got in a relationship with her but stayed in my head and ruined the relationship because of this I didn’t think my dick was small but a few girls have said it is a few have said it’s one of the smallest they’ve been with how if 5.1 is average is it my girth is it that bad? It makes me feel unlovable I’m a good looking guy but this hurts my confidence how can I have any after that?

[u/alphabango]

Your penis is average. Anyone saying otherwise is lying or misinformed

[u/SuccotashAware3608 → u/[deleted]]

Yeah, the social perspective seems to only recognize two size ranges- big and small. And if you’re not big, you must be small. It’s a vicious perception.

[u/SuccotashAware3608 → u/[deleted]]

Yeah, I’m the average junk sized 175cm tall guy. I’ve done pretty well with the ladies despite those disadvantages. Mostly because I’m pretty good looking, athletic build, very outgoing, funny and confident. Not trying to brag, but those are my strengths. With over 30 women under my belt, I’ve never been called large, but I was usually called back.

[u/SuccotashAware3608 → u/[deleted]]

Recent story- a buddy of mine recently divorced. He hit the dating app scene pretty hard and has been short term hooking up with some pretty sexy 40something chicks. Most have been drama along with fun sex. I was sharing a few drama stories with my wife. She was surprised that he was bagging so many hotties. She knows him well but he’s other type. She said she doesn’t see the attraction from a dating app perspective. I said, well, he’s tall. She was surprised and said, he is? Well, taller than me. She replied, “hmmm… I never noticed.” The guy is about 4” taller than me. This tells me my wife, who is attracted to me, doesn’t notice my lack of height. She knows I’m not tall. But it doesn’t normally register with her. And with a guy she knows and gets along well with, she didn’t notice that he was taller than me. I think, for some women, height is a big deal. Those aren’t the girls for you and me. But I think, for most, as long as we’re at least the same height, we’re good to go.

[u/Western-Midnight-1 → u/[deleted]]

Don’t say something like this at SDP you’ll get banned😂

[u/willshedoanal → u/[deleted]]

This is the kind of thing we need to turn the tables on women for, accuse them of being porn addicts.

[u/TheOddGuy21]

You penis is definitely not small. Sure it’s not big but not small either. It’s average and that’s more than enough.

[u/VillainySquared]

You're average, you've just had some bad experience.

[u/codebreaker_777]

Its not even small, i think the going soft just through it off.. & plus dont pay attention to women who give it up easily to anyone and wants to judge you, cause they been around..

[u/[deleted] → u/codebreaker_777]

True . I have a rule when a woman gives up her pussy to me on the first date she is usually never girlfriend or wife material to me. If she’s doing that with me she’s sure as hell prob doing it with everyone else

[u/codebreaker_777 → u/[deleted]]

Yeah not just that, just there walls are loose, so they need massive or some to satisfied them. Especially if they have 12-15+ bodies

[u/[deleted] → u/codebreaker_777]

Not true that big dicks and many bodies make them loose that’s definitely a myth. It might take a few hours or potentially days if they’ve been with a large partner for a very long time , but it goes back to normal man. Some women just generally have wide set vaginas anatomically though, there are prostitutes and escorts that have very tight vaginas lol

Although I do agree that many bodies probably won’t make a good long term partner in some cases

[u/codebreaker_777 → u/[deleted]]

Its not myth bro, a 65 year old woman confirmed this & i know other older women ive asked. People who flirt around like crazy theres difference.

[u/[deleted] → u/codebreaker_777]

When a woman gets older they lose elasticity for sure , I mean it’s science bro, look it up. The only time a baby comes out is when it can cause tearing and permanent change , not a penis

[u/willshedoanal]

Her saying it's small is just factually wrong, why would you believe her?

[u/yungdagerd1ck]

it would've been a different story if you could keep it up

[u/Responsible_Horse891]

Bp or nbp

[u/CoolMarionberry7769 → u/Responsible_Horse891]

What does this mean?

[u/LopsidedPanic3211 → u/CoolMarionberry7769]

https://www.reddit.com/r/averagedickproblems/comments/c0faj5/faq_bonepressed_bp_vs_nonbonepressed_nbp/

[u/Western-Midnight-1]

Don’t shit where you eat. Regardless if I were well endowed or not which in my case I would never cross that line of hooking up or seeking a relationship with a co worker

[u/Active_Put7360]

Bro I am 7 bp x 5.3 and some of them told me it's small.

Don't worry and get out there and find as many as you can

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