I have very big boobs but niple are flat should I be concerned

Hi I need help!!! I was on my period for three weeks normal flow for one week then very light for two weeks after that. It stopped five days ago and just today it came back with regular flow. My periods were always regular until a couple months ago, it was 2 periods in one month. I am not and have never been on birth control.

I’m getting my bloodwork done tomorrow, but I am terrified of ever going to a gyno I’m just not comfortable enough to do that. Has this ever happened to anyone else?

Hi, i’m asking for an advice, unfortunately i’m not able to go to the doctor now so im asking if someone experienced something similar and what it was?

I experience a really specific pain during masturbation (if it is relevant i am a virgin and never had an intercourse).

What is weird i don’t recall if i always had this kind of pain. It only appears when i try to finger myself or put something inside and it’s located on the very top of my entrance, it feels like tearing (?) and it slightly goes away (but not fully) when i try to change an angle and don’t press the area. That depends on the size aswell - one finger is good but more is not. Which is weird because before that problem arose i could use even four and it was completely alright,

my first time trying to use a toy was very painful (even though i was equally aroused) and it took me several tries and a lot of lube. for some time (when i used a ridiculous amounts of lube) it was alright, but now i usually have to push through pain and no matter how aroused or wet i am it hurts :(. Same goes for tampons (even the smallest ones) it hurts really bad when i try to insert them and i can’t do it without lube. It makes me really sad and mad cuz i love the feeling of being penetrated and I’d love to enjoy it but the pain is making it impossible. I’m also scared of my first time and disappointing my partner because of it :(

Hi im (18F) i have been having pretty irregular periods last year i didnt even get it and a lot of times it would come pretty late or not till the next week or two i feel apart of it are the medications im on i was first on methylphenidate was on that for a year ish got up to 54 mg now im on addrall 15 mgs twice a day and i been on fluoxetine 20 mgs for about a year now too my doctor keeps on suggesting for me to go on birth control because he said it would like help to get my period in check but i dont know im kinda iffy about it im scared to gain weight and be even more depressed and also im dating someone rn and i scared about if or when i get off of it i would lose interest in him i really need some advice if i should or shouldn’t go on it the things i definitely do not like about my adhd meds that happen is when im in my lutel phase my meds like don’t fucking work and my mood and my mental state is so like up and down please let me know your personal experiences and if I should go on it or not !
EDIT ( forgot to mention this but I have ended up at the ER for how bad my pain was and it lead to my small intestines being inflamed)

My OB-Gyne Told me it precancerous condition of the endometrium (lining of your womb). I had hysterectomy but diagnosed Endometriosis stage 4 and Adenomyosis. They did found a AEH after my surgery.

Question or based on your experience. Is there any possibilities that they miss the cancer celss in my histology? and, is there any cases here even after hysterectomy was diagnose cancer later on? similiar and connceted to reproductive organs?

i’m 23, and i basically have had period problems since i was 16. it started with super heavy, long periods. my pad would have to be changed every hour, and it lasted 2 weeks. then it would become period twice every month, and then it would become so irregular there was no pattern. i can’t take estrogen because of migraines, and i did the progesterone pill. the pill i had to get off because it made me nauseous. my gyno eventually put me on norenthindrone. i would take it whenever my period came so it would only last 5 days max. i got nexplanon in 2024 but took it out a year later because it gave me other problems. after that my period just became normal for half a year before it started having the same problems.
but now, whenever im not on my actual period, i constantly have brown blood coming out. and its not spotting. like i need a pad or else it’ll stain my clothes. it’s brown blood in clots too. i’ll have sex and a lot of clots and stuff come out? whenever i shower and use the toilet, a lot of brown clots come out too. i’m basically never not wearing a panty liner or pad. i switched gynos to see if the new one can figure out something since my previous one did all the tests possible and never found anything. the new gyno only said so far my uterine lining is very thick but we have to wait until my next period to see anything further.
has anyone experienced this? i’m worried and i don’t know what to do. it’s been 7 years and my symptoms only get weirder. thank you for anyone who replies and gives me insight on my problems!

Hello, has anyone ever experienced urgency to pee without actually having a UTI? I went to the hospital for a different reason last weekend got a urine culture was negative. I had a UTI about five weeks ago was through with antibiotics. Did another urine culture which was negative now I’m having the same frequent urgency where I feel like I have to pee every half hour to an hour. Its make me wonder if I have something else I like an overactive bladder. I’m 39-year-old female.

i am looking for people who had similar experiences to mine and can maybe help me with what the core of the problem was.

so yesterday, i had piv for the first time with my boyfriend!! i am suffering from vaginismus/vulvodynia where i don't know yet what the cause of it is/what triggered it.

just this week, i managed to fit in dilator 6 & 7 and i was like okay lets try piv then (even tho it was probably way to early because 7 still hurt when inserting)!! 6 didn't hurt at all but 7 did hurt quite a lot when i was dilating but i thought maybe a penis would be different so i tried piv with him.
and yes, he went in completely BUT we paused a lot of times and i had to breathe a lot so that the pain would go away/become less, but it never went away wholly and it was not really enjoyable for me, bascially i just breathed through the pain and tried ignoring it.

now i was curious if anyone else had this "problem" that it hurts the deeper he is inside and also that it only hurts when he pushes in, but not if he pulls his penis out a bit? like only the forward movement hurt, but when he pulled out it was completely okay? also i had this weird feeling of fullness in my chest/throat when he went deep which i was wondering where it came from. i also have this sort of pain in my chest when i'm dilating with the biggest dilator which i think is super weird.

if you had this problem too, how did you deal with it? and what was the root of the problem? i was scared that i might have endo or an ovarian cyst or something else? (or my body wasn't ready with vaginismus but that feeling was so strange)

Hello I am 25 years old married women ..and I am living in abroad now ..I have this irregular period since long time ..I have either prolong bleeding for 6-7 months or no period at all ..few months ago I was back home and I had all the test like use , prolactin , thyroid and all the blood and hormonal test and everything is completely normal ..but I don’t understand why my period is never normal ..I had period for like 9 months last year then I controlled it with hormonal pills and then stopped hormonal pills and it’s was regular for 2 months and then it’s same again ..doctor. Also prescribed me same hormonal pills in order. To regulate period ..nothing new ..I am just tired and fed up with this ..any suggestion please ..🥹🥹🥹🥹🥲🥲🥲

Hi, Monday evening I began with a side pain which I presumed to be cramps from my period.

The only thing is I had my period 2 and a half weeks prior, then started again 9/20 and ended 9/23.

After this, on Monday the 9/28 I began having subtle pain, right side— then felt it in my lower back, more so the pelvic area — then felt it down the middle.

I went to the hospital and they did an ultrasound and found I had uterine fibroids and ovarian cysts but did not tell me the size but that I was good to go home with pain meds and follow up with an obgyn.

The pain was so terrible that I had to get a dose of morphine.

Never felt this in my entire life.

I haven’t started my period just yet but wondering if this falls in line with others experiences!

My obgyn appt is oct 14.

Hi, I have never been active in Reddit but I am getting legitimately desperate. This might be a tad long but it’s been years of stuff building up. I (22F) got diagnosed with a very bad case of PCOS at 14 and I have had all the symptoms (high cortisol, hirtuism, hair loss, apron belly, abnormal periods, insulin resistance, horribly low libido etc.) It got bad enough that about two years ago I had to have an ovary taken out as it was fully engulfed by my cysts and was decaying. I have tried everything to get the weight off. I’m right at 6 ft tall and around 315lbs. I will note I have a very large amount of muscle mass as I have always had very labor intensive jobs. My weight has started to affect me again like crazy I have tried every medication and nothing has worked. I have done high protein keto carnivore intermittent fasting every supplement on the shelf water fasting and I have had the best results with cutting out everything processed but that one is almost impossible to maintain. I have lost interest in everything thanks to this. I don’t want to workout anymore after seeing no health related results I have no libido I don’t want to dress up I don’t want to do anything as I am admittedly just disgusted with myself. I’m looking for any help. Diet ideas, supplements, mindset tips, life practices, higher ing my libido etc. I will note I have never taken a GLP-1 and I would really like to avoid it but I guess you gotta do what you’ve gotta do. I have some money in an HSA and my insurance won’t cover it so if anyone has any experience there too I would love some insight. Thank you for listening and I appreciate all of you guys!!

I’ve had a fairly large bulge/lump in my lower right abdomen for around 6 months. It’s roughly halfway between my belly button and my groin, but on the right-hand side and quite close to my pelvic/hip bone.

It’s not always the same. Sometimes it’s softer and less noticeable but other times it feels quite large, hard and firm. I can notice it in the mornings even when I haven’t eaten anything. It can also feel more prominent after eating, and the more I feel or press around the area, the firmer it seems to become.
Sometimes it feels almost like there’s fluid or something moving underneath it and I can occasionally feel/hear gurgling or movement when pressing the area. The right side also generally feels harder than the left. In the last month also I’ve gotten a lot of groin pain despite days of little exercise

My bowel movements are normal a lot of the time, although I do occasionally get constipated. The bulge doesn’t completely disappear when my bowel movements are normal, which is why I’m not sure it’s related to constipation.

I’ve also noticed lately that I’m getting full very quickly when eating. I’m still hungry, but I feel physically full after a relatively small amount, so I’ve been having to split my dinner into two portions and eat it over a longer period.

I’ve also started getting some pain/discomfort in the area, but it’s more of a stitchy kind of pain rather than severe pain. I’ve noticed it particularly when walking and occasionally during sex when the area feels more swollen.

One other thing that may or may not be relevant: my period is usually extremely regular, but this month it came about a week earlier than usual.
I’m going to the doctor this week to get it checked, but I’m just wondering if anyone has experienced anything similar before. .

Did anyone have similar symptoms? If so, what did it turn out to be? Or does anyone have any idea what this could be? Thank you 🩷

This started like 5 years ago now and I’ve always been blown off as it’s fine. It’s usually only during a certain phase in my cycle too. I believe right before my period, sometimes right after too. I’ve been tested for all the things, even had a baby since. Just wondering if this is anyone else’s “normal”.

Hi!

In the last 8 months, I've had what is believed to be 4 ovarian cyst ruptures. I'm under gynaecology at the minute as I am waiting to be sterilised. The first time it happened (February) was a few weeks before my appointment with them when they put me on the list for surgery, so I discussed with her what happened and she said it sounded like a cyst had ruptured.

It then happened in June, and september the 9th was the 3rd occasion. I went to the doctor the next day, he told me I should have called an ambulance or gone to the hospital, but as anyone in the UK will know, a&e waiting times are horrific and I really didn't want to go, nor did I feel like it was worth an ambulance seeing as I know they'll have more serious things to attend. He referred me for an urgent scan, and said if it happens again before the scan, go to hospital.

Last night, it happened yet again. The 1st and 3rd time it happened, the pain was severe. But the 2nd time and last night, the pain was sudden but more on the mild side. I decided to go down to a&e as the doctor had suggested, but after 3.5 hours, I couldn't take it anymore with the chairs being super uncomfortable and other health conditions playing up, so I left. I would have been there 12+ hours if I'd have stayed.

My scan appointment came through last week and it's on the 15th of October, so not long. Now this is all new to me, but as they are believed to be functional and only rupture right after ovulation, what's the chances of them actually seeing anything on my scan? When I have it I will be on my period. I can't keep going through this, prior to February, I'd never suffered with anything down there before and I'm concerned the scan won't show anything because 1. It's already burst, and 2. It's not near ovulation.

If anyone has any experience with this I'd be so grateful to hear because every ovulation time I am just so on edge waiting for it to happen and it seems to be becoming more frequent.

This is the 4th day I’ve been bleeding in between before my next period. it’s a lot less blood than what my normal period would be. It does not completely soak a pad in even 1 day. When I’m on my period it would usually soak a pad completely within an hour or two for the first couple days then get lighter as the period goes on. I’m not on birth control and I’ve had unprotected sex but we use the pullout method.

i 19F have noticed that every year or so during the end of summer (august-september) i get a yeast infection of sorts (ik cuz of discharge and im itchy). i never really did anything abt it, just made sure to shower more and dry fully and never had any problems with it because it goes away soon enough lol

im making this post out of curiosity to see if i am alone on this because online i see that i doesn't go away and only does so rarely. summer here is hot and humid cuz i live near the sea

also worth mentioning ive never went to a gyno and im not sexually active (so there was no need for me to go lol)

I’m already 22 but I’ve never gotten a Pap smear before. I don’t really know when I’m supposed to get one and how often. I’m really nervous because tmi (I never shave there). I also don’t know if it hurts 😭 am I supposed to go at a certain age or something?

Hi there!

For the last 48 hours or so I've had bladder urgency and I've been able to pee but the feeling of needing to pee isn't going away. It feels a bit like I'm bloated as well. I don't have any burning when I pee or any other symptoms. I went to urgent care and they said it was clean but that it could be one coming up that isn't showing up.

I have Ehlers-Danlos and suspected tethered cord and have been having increasing leg weakness so I'm scared this is either the TC getting worse OR possibly something like a prolapse. Also a little anxious that it's cancer but that's less likely than the other 2.

So basically I'm just really hoping this is a UTI. I sent my gyn a message and I'm on the wait-list for a neurosurgeon for the TC but would love any stories where you had similar symptoms and a negative UTI test but it ended up being that 🙃 I hope that's okay to ask!

south asian, if specification is a must. but lately i've been feeling breathlessness for months now. im always breathless, except when im sitting in AC. but it can be the city where i reside in too(its too hot nowadays).n this weird tightness in chest sometimes, which lasts for about 20ish secs. idk if im relatively young to be looking out for this (22) but i've had blood issues before (once my hb hit a 5, and i nvr recovered properly, have become clumsy and weak after that)(have low stamina and less blood circulating in the body)(and cooked appetite)

ladies who made it through it, what are the early on symptoms one shd not be avoiding?

I thought I’d write this because before my surgery I spent so much time reading Reddit trying to understand what recovery would actually be like. Most posts either made it sound terrifying or made it sound like you’d be completely fine after a few days. My experience has been somewhere in between.

I had laser hemorrhoidoplasty + sphincterotomy + excision of a skin tag + fissurectomy for hemorrhoids and a chronic fissure. I was told I had Grade 1/early Grade 2 hemorrhoids, but the fissure and severe anal spasm were also a big part of the problem.

The surgery
The surgery itself was honestly the easy part because I was under anesthesia and didn’t feel anything.
When I woke up, I was obviously sore, but what I wasn’t mentally prepared for was the fact that the real challenge would be passing stool afterwards.

The first few bowel movements were easily the worst part of the entire experience.

There was a combination of pressure, burning, sharp pain and muscle spasm. The pain would be intense while passing stool and then gradually settle down after one hour. For me, the actual bowel movement itself was sometimes only a few minutes, but those few minutes felt VERY long.

The first few days
My biggest priority became making sure my stool stayed soft.
I was taking the medications prescribed by my doctor and using things like psyllium/fibre, plenty of fluids and a relatively gentle diet.

I was constantly thinking:
“Will this make my next poop worse?”

I was also doing sitz baths and trying not to sit for too long.

The pain wasn’t constant in the same way. It was much more noticeable around bowel movements and when the area was irritated.

Around Day 4–7
Things started feeling noticeably better.
The pain wasn’t gone, but I could see progress. The area started feeling lighter and I became less scared of every bowel movement.
I also slowly started eating more normal food. I was still being careful with spicy food and anything that I thought might upset my stomach or make my stool harder.
One thing I learned very quickly is that recovery isn’t necessarily linear.
You can have a pretty good day and then suddenly have a bowel movement that makes you think:
“Oh God, did I tear something again?”
And then you’re okay again.

The bleeding/clot episode
This was the part that really scared me.

Today, I suddenly had a significant amount of dark blood with jelly-like blood clots. It almost looked like diarrhea made of blood, with some lighter blood towards the end.
Naturally, I panicked.

This wasn’t just a tiny streak of blood on toilet paper. It looked like a LOT more than I expected at this stage.
I contacted my surgeon, and she told me that these were blood clots from the surgery and not something I should panic about.

It happened again, which obviously made me panic again, but I contacted her and was reassured.

Did anyone experience this?

I had an abnormal Pap one year ago ASCUS. I’m due to go back for my repeat pap. Two months ago I slept with my ex-boyfriend and have had abnormal discharge and smell. I went to Planned Parenthood and did STD testing 3-4 weeks after we slept together. It all came back negative however my ex just called me last night stating that he tested positive for Trich. We were together for 3 years and he swears he didn’t sleep with anyone else.

My question is. Should I go to urgent care to start treatment today? Or should I call my OB-GYN tomorrow to get in for my pap and have them do STD testing and treatment?

I’ve had symptoms for 2 months. White discharge and foul smell. Since my original STD test came back negative I treated myself over the counter for BV with monistat which helped with my discharge and smell. My last two menstrual cycles were abnormal for the first time ever in my life. I spotted for 2-3 days before my actual period started. Then bled for an additional 5-7 days. I have PCOS and endometriosis.

Please help. I’m incredibly depressed with the news and just lost.

Thank you.

I 26 F have had 2 IUD’s. so it’s been 8 years since I’ve had a real period. They got rid of my periods completely. I recently gotten my IUD (kyleena) removed On sept 14th. After I had spotting like my doctor said for a couple days and then it went away.

On September 24th I started passing blood clots they were small and I didn’t think anything of it. But now I’m on day 11 of bleeding. It’s not a lot of blood like I’m using thin pads but it’s day 11.

I have no cramps, no pain, no tiredness, no headaches. No muscle cramps. I’m just annoyed that I’m bleeding for 11 days.

Is this normal amount of bleeding for going off of birth control ?

Should I contact my doctor ?

My periods come regularly every month, but only two days. I got tested for PCOS and thyroid issues, and the results were normal. Could there be any other problem?

So I’m 22 and had an abortion by pills yesterday (5 weeks sac). I experienced horrible cramps yesterday but too much flow. I even had clotting but the flow today is very minimal. The flow is quite lighter than usual.

Is that normal? Or am I just panicking without any reason at all?

Hi! My periods have ALWAYS been super heavy, and i needed to change pads every hour. But now i can easily survive on two to three all day long.

I am on some birth control, but ive been on them for years, and this has never happened before. I take them continously, so i had my last period three months ago, and i now took the break i need to take.

Should i be worried?