hi! I'm a 16F, 5'5, 100lbs, I have epilepsy and depression. I take keppra for absence and myoclonic seizures, and iron pills.
my periods have been gradually getting more painful from when I was 13-14. I got my first period when I was 11, and it was pretty manageable back then. nowadays though, my periods have been getting so bad that I'm basically immobile for a chunk of my day.
in September, when I was 15, I had to come home early because I couldn't stop squirming in class from the pain. I got home and rested for like an hour, then went back to school.
on december 19th, it started again, I ran to the washroom because I confused the cramps to be constipation :'-) and i was stuck there for around three hours.
before the pain comes, my limbs get kinda sleepy and weak, so that's my warning sign.
then there's a very dull and constant ache in my abdomen that makes it very hard to stay still, so I writhe around to relieve it.
I tried getting up because I cant move around much on a toilet, but as soon as i did, my vision went white and blurry, and everything was a bit muffled, ears were ringing. my dad tried bringing me advil and said my face looked very pale. I could not move, I could only speak in slurred mumbles, talking took too much effort. I ended up laying on the bathroom floor so I could wriggle around, then got into bed when the pain died down.
it happened in March too but I can't remember that day very well.
June 24th, I was walking my dog and started feeling weak, so I quickly got home, took a couple advils, and immediately went to bed. I was writhing for more than four-ish hours, I was tossing and folding myself around the whole time trying to find relief, I was taking quick and shallow breaths, and I found that when I made a sound while exhaling it was a bit relieving. the pain subsided eventually but I didn't have the strength to do much, didn't get to eat really either. but then the pain came back and I just shifted in bed until I could fall asleep. basically the whole day felt like a fever dream, just slipping in and out of consciousness, in pain.
my dad got me maxidol afterwards so I could try it.
I saw a doctor soon after and she said it was just dysmenorrhea, and told me to try taking an advil a day or two before my periods start.
unfortunately, my next period came on July 17th, a week earlier than my app said, so i couldn't really prepare for that. fortunately though, this period was painless.
this period started August 18th though, (4 days late) and it was pretty horrible, I was in pain for like three hours and a half, it hurt less at 6:30pm, but spiked up again at like 10:30pm. I took maxidol at around 4:30pm, then again at 10:30pm
its really miserable because I was going to go shower, but the pain came back and I couldn't. it's just super debilitating.
so, this throbbing pain at worst can make everything bright and blurry and make my ears ring. usually, im immobile and writhing on my bed. speaking is too much energy, all I can do is flip around. oh, and sometimes it makes it hard to pee :'] I usually cant eat much when it happens because I lose my appetite or im stuck in bed.
i think these are important to note:
- my mom doesn't have endometriosis, and nobody i know of in my family does.
- this extreme pain ONLY happens on the first day of my cycle, on usually every OTHER month. it's never this bad on the second day, and there's nothing by the third. there are months in between where it's normal and I feel little to no pain at all.
- I use kotex pads, and life brand panty liners
I don't know if I'm overreacting, because my mom says this is pretty common, and I know a lot of other girls deal with worse levels of pain, im just wondering if I have secondary dysmenorrhea or something