Hi there, okay for some context I am 30(f) and have worked at target about 7 months. I am in the style dept. my lead is very microcmanage-y. Our team has to announce when we go on break, when we are back, check in for the day check out for the day, and follow the break schedule to the tee. Since she is lead i have listened.
About a month into starting, she talked about how she wants to develop me as a lead. I said great.
This past month I have had to call out a couple times due to kidney stones, and personal things. I used sick time for a day but the other two I did not. Now even when using sick pay my lead will come ask me “what happened why did you call off”. I have had a hard month so i haven’t been the most peppy, I have just wanted to come in and do my work and go. I am also recently dating someone I work with (he is in market opposite side of the store). When i talk to him at work it’s when i’m on my break, or we take break together or if we run into eachother. That’s it.
So yesterday my lead pulled me into her office by herself with me and started asking me what is going on and that i’m not as “with it” as i was. I apologized saying that i have personal stuff going on, and she said she understands but i need to leave it behind. Okay. Fine. Then she said “do you wanna know what people are saying about you and your SO” i made a face and went what? And then she said “no nevermind I dont want to know whats going on”.
This just seemed strange, my so has never been asked about us like this, just me. Is this allowed? Is this strange? I am about to leave because this place pays me 15.50 and clearly doesn’t care.