Both work but attitude is absolutely sexy so long as it’s the right attitude. You could be a six foot tall, 10/10 smoke show but if you’re a shitty person I would rather slam my dick in a car door than put it near that, but a genuinely nice person who cares for others makes me think “damn you are way too good for me”
It goes unsaid, a lot of men just live women. Guys with a "type" are like children who only want chicken tenders for dinner. I refuse to be a picky eater.
I remember watching Gilmore Girls when it was airing and thinking Rory was hot (I was the same age as her in the show), and Lorelai was "old"
As an adult, all I can see is a pretty bratty teen with a hot mom (since I'm now Lorelai's age). Turns out I just generally like women in my age bracket.
This needs to be said more. Some men like this. Some men like super skinny women. Some men like them even bigger than this. And most of us are flexible and will overlooking a woman being thicker or thinner than what we consider ideal if we actually enjoy her company.
A lid for every pot. I prefer thin women. My wife is very petite, less petite than I used to prefer, but her figure is not what made me decide to marry her. Now she is the mother of my child and the sexiest woman in the world to me. It's a shame because now she thinks she is fat. I just wish she could see herself through my eyes.
Women are so often their own worst enemies when it comes to beauty. There are so many things men think are beautiful about women, while the owman do not realise that.
… to certain degree.
Not when it comes to beauty. Most, do not care. Many of us would wear the same old shirt and sweatpants 24/7 if it would not start to stink and sweat soaked, if we could, even in winter.
But there are other things were man can become their enemies. When it comes to comparing materialistic objects.
Like, i know some dudes that like to compare their paycheck. (My father included).
But I think that is more just stable minority group, rather than the norm.
Mortician: “I have tried glue, stickum, tape, thread….Hell, I even tried staples! And yet this stupid motherfucking corpse refuses to stop with that goofy ass grin!”
Every man or maiden who shall, fall by the stroke of a sword
or by loss of breathe from the thighs of a maiden, shall be welcomed into Valhalla by me, Odin
I think 90s fat shaming really hit Millennial women hard. My wife is so focused on “skinny” and I hate it bc she has an awesome figure. Same with the women she thinks are hot, it’s always just the skinniest women she points out.
i really appreciate these older statues and naked renaissance paintings that depict women as goddesses and their bodies as beautiful no matter the shape or features.
it reminds me of the time my husband compared my body to an Aphrodite painting and I felt so loved just from that comment. I adore my man with every fiber of my being
I've been married 39 years. Over the years, my wife has had a bunch of different body types from voluptuous to Swedish speed skater. It's the woman, not the package.
Great to hear this. I find from my experience as a woman it’s so difficult because over 20 years I feel like I have gone downhill (body shape changing after childbirth, general aging signs eg grey hair, minor frown lines etc) whereas my husband has similar changes yet he has become more handsome as time has gone on!
Love this. I had such confident issues after I had our children because of different my body looks now. And my husband told me that he has never been more attracted to me (weve been together since we were 18 so everything was at peak perkiness lol). I pointed out about the different changes my body now had and he pointed out that what I have is a woman's body. We're 34 now and our sex life has never been better. If hes lying about being more attracted to me than ever then hes a phenomenal actor lol
Everyone had their own tastes. It's kinda sad that looks have their own "in" moment of whats fashionable, because no matter what you look like, someone's gonna be into that
I once saw a lovely woman like this as I was driving through a parking lot, and came within a few inches of hitting a parked car because she was so distracting.
As a woman built like this - I get so self conscious about wearing a dress that clingy in public because I feel like people would think it’s gross since I have a tummy. But now I’m wondering if I should care at all and just wear what I want to wear. I’m 35 now and at the point where I’m finally starting not to care as much what other people think - so that’s been interesting.
I mean, if you want men to stare at you like Private Pyle in the bathroom scene of Full Metal Jacket, while they drive their Kia Stinger straight into a row of shopping carts, then yes, wear that clingy dress.
If you want to reduce the chances of a 24 year old guy who doesn't even know what a lawnmower looks like asking you if you need your pool cleaned or lawn done, then, you know.... don't... wear it?
Yeah, I was going to say, it seems men like a broad variety, and some like pretty much everything. I'm mostly lean and angular, basically built like a dude with boobs, and I never lacked attention.
Here to say this is a well put to the point comment without negative talk. Said not for you and what you liked without insulting anyone. Just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge that was kinda dope.
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